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Was just chatting to my wife about shoes for the kids and the differences between pumps/plimsolls (we decided they were the same thing, man we have all the funs) and the conversation moved to what shoes we had as kids.

Now for some reason, i have a void in my memory of all things shoe related pre 14 years old. Nothing.

Just struck me as odd. Some shoe related event that was too harrowing to remember? Goodness knows.

Any unexplained voids from your memory?


 
Posted : 19/04/2018 11:36 am
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I can't remember.


 
Posted : 19/04/2018 11:38 am
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The end of several Friday/Saturday nights out.


 
Posted : 19/04/2018 11:38 am
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Anything my wife has asked me to do in the last month.


 
Posted : 19/04/2018 11:38 am
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Late 80's - late 90's.

Probably best left unsolved....


 
Posted : 19/04/2018 11:41 am
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What I left the office and walked down the corridor to do.


 
Posted : 19/04/2018 11:42 am
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Clarks Pathfinders


 
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It had something to do with a probe and a bright light,can't remember which order.


 
Posted : 19/04/2018 11:44 am
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Old school friends and teachers names, I can only remember a handful - it was 35 years ago though and I hated school so I've probably shut it out!

My wife can reel off loads of her old friend and teachers though.


 
Posted : 19/04/2018 11:44 am
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Louise.


 
Posted : 19/04/2018 11:47 am
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Sniffing a handkerchief.

Won't be trying that again. Made my arse hurt.


 
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Booze related voids I get, took me a while to work out vodka seemed to stop me forming any new memories. Hmm, maybe it is just me getting older and my brain needing the space.

Brain: Crap, where am I going to stick all these new wheel sizes. Hmmm, oh here, on this shoe shelf, nice one brain, you did it again. Oh crap, we've gone to work with no trousers on, ah lets just see how it pans out.


 
Posted : 19/04/2018 11:50 am
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Massive bits of the 90’s

Thankfully there were no camera phones in those days, so I’m unlikely to ever be forced into remembering it either.


 
Posted : 19/04/2018 11:51 am
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i remember an advert for shoes on the tele, clarks magic shoes i think?  there was a bunch of kids on a magical adventure, a witch and a golden key.. id have been about 7. that is all i have about shoes.


 
Posted : 19/04/2018 11:54 am
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Why I'm in this room.

Half the people I work withs names.

Most of the street names in the town I've lived in for 45 years.

My children's dates of birth ( I can actually guess them with 90% certainty).

Funnily enough OP just the other day I remembered a pair of trainers from my youth that I don't think I've ever thought about since the time they were around, totally came out of the blue. A pair of Pony NFL jobs that were super cool at the time, about when channel 4  started showing American football on TV.


 
Posted : 19/04/2018 11:55 am
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Everything before walking into a meeting about the new forum.


 
Posted : 19/04/2018 11:57 am
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I heard a theory that the memory capacity of the brain is essentially infinite. Anything you've seen, heard, smelt, it's all in there. It's just that the filing system is the equivalent of a warehouse full of filing cabinets*, and when you get a new memory you just open up every single drawer of every cabinet and then hurl the pages of your memory into the warehouse. With your eyes shut.  Where it lands, who knows?

So your memory isn't full, it's just that your indexing system 'needs work'. But that's also why for example occasionally you smell something and instantly you get a memory floods back, because that's triggered the index. Same as someone saying Clark's Pathfinders - which I'd never have found on my own - and you go 'Oh Yes!'

* there is a separate locked room in the warehouse for storing the last hour of most Saturday nights in my late teens and early twenties. Sometimes that is good, sometimes not......


 
Posted : 19/04/2018 11:59 am
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The happy bits.


 
Posted : 19/04/2018 12:02 pm
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apparently it's where my wife stuffs all my things*

*not a euphemism


 
Posted : 19/04/2018 12:03 pm
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All those nights Uncle Jack came over to stay

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Posted : 19/04/2018 12:12 pm
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I remember cycling along. And I can remember waking up looking at the sky and a circle of faces.

I can understand why I don't remember the unconscious bit, but I don't understand why I'm also missing the bit as the accident started. It's not like I was unconscious which caused the accident. Is it like when Word crashes it only recovers the last autosave? Is it possible to change a brain's autosave settings?


 
Posted : 19/04/2018 12:14 pm
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Did you ever have to help your Uncle Jack off a horse?


 
Posted : 19/04/2018 12:15 pm
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1989


 
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Not sure if this is "inexplicable" but...

Most of July 1996 to July 2000 when I was in a terrible state with booze and drugs. If I played all my memories of those years in a continuous stream it wouldn't last more than an hour or so at a guess.

July 2009 to Oct 2009 when I was off my dial on prescription drugs this time, lots and lots of Tramadol, which only came to an end when my GP questioned why I'd 'lost' my painkillers twice and needed more.

How to ride a motorbike, I completed a DAS course and passed my test(s) with flying colours in 2009 (which was unrelated to my need for massive doses of painkillers before anyone assumes) I rode a bike for about a year on/off, I was never Rossi, but I could pottle about in control and was told by my instructor, the test bloke and my biker mates I was very smooth, but I haven't so much as sat on a bike since 2011 and whilst I remember where all the controls are, I can't remember how the gearbox on a bike works for certain (bottom up it's 1, N, 2, 3 I think and I don't remember how many gears my bike had) and I'm almost certain I couldn't pull away without stalling.

How to index a derailuer, used to be good at it, now I need a friend to help.


 
Posted : 19/04/2018 12:21 pm
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How that blood stained meat cleaver got in my hands and who is this dismembered body in my kitchen?

#notagain


 
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I had a seizure on Friday 21st October 2016, so anything from 1984 up to the day of the seizure is gone. According to my neurologist, I've had a "factory reset", back to a time when my life was a happy place. It's terrible having 32 years of my life missing.


 
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Funny how amnesia affected a lot of people in the 90s!! 😊 There were quite a few times when I woke up not remembering what had happened the night before or even where I was and sometimes even who I was! 😳

Also in the noughties I lost a complete hour of memory after crashing and knocking myself unconscious whilst mtbing in Epping Forrest somewhere. Luckily I was found by two nice old ladies who called the ambulance. I can remember leaving my flat in London but after that it’s a complete blank until I woke up with an oxygen mask over my face and several people standing over me.


 
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Has anyone ever tried to improve their memory or worked out a method of helping? Joking aside it is a bit of a worey sometimes (when I remember). Admittedly it is better than it was, when the kids were born/younger and working shifts there was a time that a full night's sleep seemed like something other people did. My memory was really really bad, I lived with little paper lists in my pocket.


 
Posted : 19/04/2018 12:43 pm
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Why I opened this thread.


 
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Posted : 19/04/2018 12:57 pm
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Hmm...........?...nope....it's gone


 
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Has anyone ever tried to improve their memory or worked out a method of helping?

Like i said, it's not the memory that's the issue, it's the indexing. And yes there are ways of remembering stuff, that involve for example creating a narrative.

I too am worried about my memory (my grandfather had quite early onset Alzheimers) so i try to keep it agile by doing puzzles and sudoku, etc., but on memory specifically I try to create mental lists (but my wife forces me to write them down too when she sends me to the shops) and I try to use imagery and narratives.

FOR EXAMPLE

you know this Barclay's advert -

I set myself a task to remember them. So the second part, blue beetle, orange key is easy cos a beetles a car you unlock with an orange key.

But blue shoes / red ball / green rabbit.....?

Well.... Stuart Broad used to have these bright blue bowling boots, and of course the ball would be red, and I can picture a green rabbit batting at the other end. Doesn't particularly have to make sense, just stick in the mind.


 
Posted : 19/04/2018 1:09 pm
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I had a seizure on Friday 21st October 2016, so anything from 1984 up to the day of the seizure is gone. According to my neurologist, I’ve had a “factory reset”, back to a time when my life was a happy place. It’s terrible having 32 years of my life missing.

Crumbs!! And i was miffed i couldn't remember shoes.


 
Posted : 19/04/2018 1:22 pm
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Face planted into some rocks after a bad landing from a drop at Stainburn, realising I needed to get back to my car sharpish I went to set off, but couldn't remember where to go. Eventually decided to set off and can't remember anything from that point on until I got back to my car about 10 minutes later (I think) apart from a very small bit where I remember looking at a bunch of trees and thinking I should either be going towards them or away from them, can't remember which but I do remember thinking something about the trees!! All very weird.

I didn't drive home BTW. My wife came to get me, which was a farce as I couldn't remember the unlock code for my phone either.....


 
Posted : 19/04/2018 1:24 pm
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Although none of that is inexplicable either!!


 
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Early 90's are very much a blur! The last blur being when I woke one morning excited about an event I thought I was going to that day, only for it to slowly dawn on me that is already been and couldn't remember jack. That was my turning point.

Things have been clearer since, but my memory is still carp. I just can't seem to take things in and get them to stay very well anymore 🙁


 
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I can’t remember most of my semi-pro cycling days, the only bits I remember racing were the skanky tuna sandwiches and bruised bananas and tin foil. I can remember a lot of the training routes I used to do across Shropshire though, but then it was just me or me and a mate..

Sailing, we had a Chinese Gybe incident where I lost my top row of teeth and a broken jaw.. I remember the start of the race, I don’t remember the incident, I do remember being dragged out of the water but then it all goes blank for about 2-3 months whilst surgery was performed.. then I have a vivid memory of being taken to a restaurant and trying to bite into lasagna and chips.. blimey 🤬🤬🤬 all I’d eaten for the previous months was soup.

I can remember the late 90’s 🤩🤣🤣🤣


 
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40 minutes every day according to some 'experts' on chronostasis.

https://computervisionblog.wordpress.com/2013/06/26/visual-illusion-saccadic-masking/


 
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Legionnaire's desease nearly did for me in France about 10 years ago.  All I can remember about the 2-3 weeks or so was the bits that didn't actually happen.  The going to alternative realities and trying to save mankind. You know, that kind of stuff.  I also rang my then boss and accepted the position of worldwide sales manager which didn't exist and told her to f off when she told me apparently.

My wife thought i was  suffering from a touch of heat stroke and allowed me to drive to Cherbourg from Bordeaux.  I reversed into the same  lampost twice and almost pulled into the motorway the wrong way.  I remember none of this.

<span style="font-size: 0.8rem;">.Possibly not unexplained but still bloody weird.</span>


 
Posted : 19/04/2018 4:40 pm
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Most of the late 80’s,90’s and some of the 2000’s!

Sometimes whilst cycling I can forget where I am. Totally lost for a split second despite knowing exactly where I am.


 
Posted : 19/04/2018 9:04 pm
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I know I lived in Edinburgh for a year or so. But I can’t figure out exacty where.


 
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My memory is so good I even remember things that never happened.


 
Posted : 19/04/2018 10:22 pm
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Huge amounts, most of it inconsequential, so no great loss, really.


 
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There’s a couple of minutes missing from Friday 17th July 87.

i was heading along the road on my brothers motorbike heading towards “whiskey throttle“ and there’s this slight corner coming up fast and I can’t turn the bike, thinking ‘oh shit’...

...and im standing up at the side of the road, helmet in my hand, things aren’t quite right and there’s blood starting to run down my arm.

I mean I know what happened, I just can’t remember it.


 
Posted : 20/04/2018 6:34 am
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Massive bits of the 90’s

Thankfully there were no camera phones in those days, so I’m unlikely to ever be forced into remembering it either.

Same as neil


 
Posted : 20/04/2018 8:54 am
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I had Meningitis when I was 5. I remember being in hospital, the room, its general layout and contents, the boredom, they toy my parents bought me, not liking bed baths and stuff like that. Until speaking to my parents about it a few years ago I had absolutely no idea that I was getting lumbar punctures for it, in fact I have no memory whatsoever of the treatment I received (or even of feeling unwell). All I remember is being a bit bored and stuck in a room rather than on a ward.

It's hardly inexplicable as I imagine a 5 year old really doesn't want to remember anything like lumbar punctures but it is rather odd how I remember the general event fairly well but I have completely blanked out one set of significant details.

About 10 years ago I had a weird moment at work, where it felt like my mind had reset. I don't feel like I'd lost anything but what I'd been working on minutes before suddenly felt like an old memory, not something current. It was very unsettling.

cyclingwilly's experience sounds horrible. 🙁


 
Posted : 20/04/2018 9:32 am

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