What things that yo...
 

  You don't need to be an 'investor' to invest in Singletrack: 6 days left: 95% of target - Find out more

[Closed] What things that you like have you successfully introduced to your partner?

58 Posts
51 Users
0 Reactions
149 Views
Posts: 91000
Free Member
Topic starter
 

Following from the other thread.

Cycling, of course. She now has an MTB and a hybrid. She was really getting to grips with singletrack, and complaing that fireroad/towpath/green routes were too boring, but then we had kids and some health issues and it all went to pot.

She's creative and artistic, so the other day I got her a cheap used SLR, she seems to be enjoying it despite having shown no interest in mine. This is good 🙂

She also now likes coffee, although that may have a lot to do with the kids.


 
Posted : 31/01/2013 11:21 am
Posts: 56564
Full Member
 

naked paragliding and dogging


 
Posted : 31/01/2013 11:22 am
Posts: 0
Free Member
 

cricket
mountain biking
badger baiting


 
Posted : 31/01/2013 11:23 am
Posts: 770
Free Member
 

This thread isn't going too end well....


 
Posted : 31/01/2013 11:23 am
Posts: 770
Free Member
 

How many posts till someone mentions the "oxo tower" 😀


 
Posted : 31/01/2013 11:25 am
Posts: 0
Free Member
 

Mountain biking
Outrageously spicy food
Tech


 
Posted : 31/01/2013 11:26 am
Posts: 8819
Full Member
 

Mountain biking and kayaking.

I agree that this is not going to end well, but I'm going to sit back and enjoy the journey anyway!


 
Posted : 31/01/2013 11:26 am
Posts: 4607
Free Member
 

Bicycles, pork chops, the Waterboys, the guitar playing virtues of Slash in Guns n Roses


 
Posted : 31/01/2013 11:26 am
Posts: 2
Free Member
 

I'm not very good at this.

Cycling was a failure, as was skiing. Although I did manage to get my wife to go camping quite a lot.


 
Posted : 31/01/2013 11:27 am
Posts: 0
Free Member
 

Misery.


 
Posted : 31/01/2013 11:28 am
Posts: 0
Free Member
 

This really isn't going to end well!

EDIT: I have no useful contribution to make!


 
Posted : 31/01/2013 11:28 am
Posts: 27
Free Member
 

that valid opinions exist outside and contrary to those of her parents


 
Posted : 31/01/2013 11:28 am
Posts: 4607
Free Member
 

Oh yeah. I forgot camping. She loves it more than me, now.


 
Posted : 31/01/2013 11:28 am
Posts: 91000
Free Member
Topic starter
 

Oh she's also quite into rugby.. and she likes caravanning too 🙂


 
Posted : 31/01/2013 11:29 am
Posts: 4143
Free Member
 

I don't get wanting your partner to like the same past times as yourself. My past times are MY time and hers her own ? Absense makes the heart grow founder and all that.

But anyway ... Meat Pie... My mum's meat pie used to be my death-row meal. But now the Mrs makes it much better ... Happy days


 
Posted : 31/01/2013 11:29 am
Posts: 0
Free Member
 

Okay what he get me into:
snowboarding
Spicy food ....

what did I get him into:
eating peas and carrots with EVERY meal!


 
Posted : 31/01/2013 11:29 am
Posts: 251
Full Member
 

tinsy wins 🙂


 
Posted : 31/01/2013 11:30 am
Posts: 0
Free Member
 

olives


 
Posted : 31/01/2013 11:45 am
 ton
Posts: 24124
Full Member
 

real ale......she was a lager drinker
the idiet.....she lost a stone


 
Posted : 31/01/2013 11:49 am
Posts: 91000
Free Member
Topic starter
 

I don't get wanting your partner to like the same past times as yourself

It's about sharing what you love with the people you love.


 
Posted : 31/01/2013 1:29 pm
Posts: 0
Free Member
 

Other women.


 
Posted : 31/01/2013 1:31 pm
Posts: 1
Free Member
 

Curry
The Inbetweeners


 
Posted : 31/01/2013 1:33 pm
Posts: 7540
Full Member
 

Mountain Biking

She rides a Superlight now and sneers at the idea of a hardtail

Curry


 
Posted : 31/01/2013 1:36 pm
Posts: 0
Full Member
 

Meat
Centerparcs


 
Posted : 31/01/2013 1:36 pm
Posts: 0
Free Member
 

Anthrax


 
Posted : 31/01/2013 1:37 pm
Posts: 21016
Full Member
 

Chloroform.


 
Posted : 31/01/2013 1:38 pm
Posts: 20675
 

Me?

JK.... Single here...


 
Posted : 31/01/2013 1:43 pm
Posts: 39449
Free Member
 

cycling .....

when we first met she had had a bad crash on the bike and it took alot of work to get her feeling safe on a bike again

Now she kicks my arse and is winning events left right and centre


 
Posted : 31/01/2013 1:47 pm
Posts: 0
Full Member
 

Sailing.
Windsurfing.
Kiteboarding.
Getting sand between Yer Toes.


 
Posted : 31/01/2013 1:47 pm
Posts: 0
Free Member
 

XC skiing, cycling. Admittedly I didn't do XC skiing when we met, and the first trip might even have been her idea but it's something I'm more into than her (though she also enjoys it). She had a bike when we met and actually rode quite a bit, but not really seriously - pre-kids we went on 1000km+ tours on the tandem.


 
Posted : 31/01/2013 1:53 pm
Posts: 107
Free Member
 

@binners - you've made my day!


 
Posted : 31/01/2013 1:55 pm
Posts: 811
Free Member
 

Violent Femmes, cats, Wales.


 
Posted : 31/01/2013 2:00 pm
Posts: 0
Free Member
 

Indian food.


 
Posted : 31/01/2013 2:03 pm
Posts: 0
Free Member
 

Violent Femmes, cats, Wales.

Do you mean whales?

When you spell it with a capital letter and no h it means the place.

You're welcome.


 
Posted : 31/01/2013 2:15 pm
Posts: 8835
Free Member
 

Perhaps Tom actually meant Wales? My ex had never been to Wales until I took her to Snowdonia for the weekend.


 
Posted : 31/01/2013 2:25 pm
Posts: 4325
Full Member
 

Having a cat as a pet.


 
Posted : 31/01/2013 2:28 pm
Posts: 0
Free Member
 

brakes - Member

that valid opinions exist outside and contrary to those of her parents

Right, consider me self-inviting ourselves to your house so you can recalibrate my wife in the same way! (no euphemism intended...)


 
Posted : 31/01/2013 2:29 pm
Posts: 0
Free Member
 

Perhaps Tom actually meant Wales? My ex had never been to Wales until I took her to Snowdonia for the weekend.

That place where it rains all the time and they have retained their own language specifically for slagging off non welsh people?

Come on pal. Don't insult the guy.

I am only joking of course. I had a cracking weekend in Swansea recently. The people there were incredibly friendly. I ended up speaking to more stranger in a weekend than I would in a year in any of the towns round here (Yeovil being my closest).


 
Posted : 31/01/2013 2:32 pm
Posts: 27
Free Member
 

you can recalibrate my wife in the same way

I only have acceptance that alternative opinions can be valid ones, I'm still a long way from acceptance that things can actually be done differently to they way that her parents do things...
but I'd happily euphemise your wife either way.


 
Posted : 31/01/2013 2:52 pm
Posts: 4097
Free Member
 

Magic mushrooms

(see also: things-that-you-used-to-do-but-don't-now-you-have-kids)


 
Posted : 31/01/2013 3:00 pm
Posts: 7540
Full Member
 

-


 
Posted : 31/01/2013 3:05 pm
Posts: 5787
Full Member
 

What things that you like have you successfully introduced to your partner?

A certain part of me...

erm... it's a weird list, including things like:
music, generally, beyond Bob Marley
films that aren't romcoms
The idea of actually knowing what you might want for dinner during the week, so you can buy the necessary ingredients, rather than just eating variations on spag bol for a week.


 
Posted : 31/01/2013 3:07 pm
Posts: 0
Free Member
 


 
Posted : 31/01/2013 3:08 pm
 emsz
Posts: 0
Free Member
 

Oh god, list is quite long.

The pub is not just for chavs, chips are a food group, "I don't mind" is not an answer to the question" what dyou want to do this weekend "

Edited: don't wanna get banned


 
Posted : 31/01/2013 3:47 pm
Posts: 0
Free Member
 

"I don't mind" is not an answer to the question" what dyou want to do this weekend "

That's because the real answer is something she knows you definately don't want to do!

Like when my wife asks and all I really want to do is sit and play PS3 cos I'm knackered.


 
Posted : 31/01/2013 6:26 pm
Posts: 1828
Full Member
 

cycling
wine without lemonade....shudders at the thought(though haven't managed red wine yet)


 
Posted : 31/01/2013 6:29 pm
Posts: 0
Free Member
 

Decent music.


 
Posted : 31/01/2013 6:33 pm
Posts: 0
Free Member
 

Biking = we now own an equal amount of bikes.... 3 each.

When we met she hand a knackered old BSO - but is now the proud owner of a classic Pashley, Spesh Dolce roadie, and Orange full bouncer (complete with full face lid, armour and DH pants).

I think mentioning illegal substances might get the ban stick waved my direction..

Oh, and super-clubs (Fabric, MoS, Heaven, Matter, etc)


 
Posted : 31/01/2013 6:45 pm
Posts: 18073
Free Member
 

I don't think I've introduced her to anything mentionable, however, we're about to go out rock and roll dancing, something I'm sure I'd never have done without her.


 
Posted : 31/01/2013 6:51 pm
Posts: 0
Free Member
 

Camping hiking skiing (which became her obsession) and reason.


 
Posted : 31/01/2013 7:16 pm
Posts: 2609
Full Member
 

Whisky
Surfing
Slobbishness


 
Posted : 31/01/2013 7:41 pm
Posts: 0
Free Member
 

Having a cat as a pet.

As opposed to a meal?


 
Posted : 01/02/2013 9:48 am
Posts: 0
Free Member
 

Skiing...or at least she pretends she likes it 😆


 
Posted : 01/02/2013 10:03 am
Posts: 0
Free Member
 

Critical thinking, truth seeking, cynicism, scepticism, logic.


 
Posted : 01/02/2013 11:27 am
Posts: 7846
Free Member
 

Running and drinking on a school night!


 
Posted : 01/02/2013 11:31 am
Posts: 0
Free Member
 

Single Malt
Medium rare steak
The Yorkshire Dales
Wildlife watching
Walking for fun
Studying
Horses
The concept of having parents that aren't ****s
Skate shoes

The list could go on for some time.....


 
Posted : 01/02/2013 6:16 pm
Posts: 0
Free Member
 

England ( she's foreign)
Music
Paleo eating
Telemarking


 
Posted : 01/02/2013 7:11 pm
Posts: 487
Free Member
 

Exercise other than walking, the countryside, watching any sport,


 
Posted : 01/02/2013 7:44 pm
Posts: 0
Free Member
 

being common
arguing


 
Posted : 01/02/2013 9:35 pm

6 DAYS LEFT
We are currently at 95% of our target!