[Closed] What film for a two year old?

man bites dog

horton hears a who

tiggers great adventure

schindlers list (as told by dr seuz)

None - plenty of studies are showing that TV is bad for two and unders. Read a book instead and save the films for later...

NOT Pierre Paolo Passolini's 'Salo o le 120 giornate di Sodoma'. 😯

Wait until they're at least 3, for that one.

Ours liked Wall-E (19 months when they 'watched' it) ((ie, it was on and they were briefly captivated by it)).

Today though they mostly liked watching the lambs that have just been introduced to the field next to our house 🙂

101 Dalmations (Disney cartoon one)
Shrek
The Wiggles
Singing Kettle (not movies per se, but...)

All are favourites with Thud (2 1/2)
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My 3 1'2 year old just saw Tangled, and loved it. Lots of singing and action, she has been Rapunzel obsessed ever since..

None - plenty of studies are showing that TV is bad for two and unders. Read a book instead and save the films for later...

Our study suggests that for this little one the TV she watches in the way she watches it is not bad for her.

In any case I am asking about films not TV.

And thanks for the tip, we do read lots of books. She's been 'reading' herself since about 6mo.

Wall-E - of course, good idea.

+1 for Wall-E. My 2yo and 4yo love it, although Octonauts on CBeebies is their current fave.

Toy Story?

My 2 yo is getting into Star Wars. He wants a pink lightsabre

TV, It's the 3rd parent in my house

Ponyo and My Neighbour Totoro are both popular films in our house. Also the Wallace and Gromit shorts.

None - plenty of studies are showing that TV is bad for two and unders. Read a book instead and save the films for later...

Any studies into brain deterioration in parents forced to read The Very Hungry Caterpillar five-hundred times in quick succession? Because I swear I've got measurably thicker as a result of that damn book...

There's only a couple of feature lengths, but you can't beat a bit of the Backyardigans imo.
Great music and a good breadth of stories- worth chasing down the dvds.

How about Madagascar or Ice Age - would the combination of cuddly furballs and slapstick appeal to Lil Grips? Personally, I can't sit through the squirrel piece in Ice Age without wetting myself at his little facial expressions...

5 children and IT

actually maybe not, i think one of the kids gets eaten....

not a movie but my 22mo loves bear in the big blue house...sky+ it off disney channel

Ice age.. yeah perhaps.. Annoys me a lot tho but yeah it's a possibility.

Toy Story - we watched TS3 and she sort of liked it. Didn't sit through the whole thing but did keep coming back to watch some more.

Madagasgar - haven't tried.

Wallace and Grommit is a fine suggestion though, she is even more obsessed with Shaun the Sheep than she is with Monsters Inc.

i have 23 month old boy and a just turned 3 year old girl

Both love toy story trilogy and Shrek 1,2 and 4. They seem to enjoy Ice age I've never seen it but they laugh from the back of the car.

There is a Japanese film called Ponyo which they both really like.

The girl is now getting into classic Disney films with princess in them. Though i find them really repative

Totoro!
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My kids love it.

Kiki's delivery service isn't bad either. But that one above is a most excellent film.

Oh yeah, Ponyo, good too! Same basic genre and I think from the same studio.

In any case I am asking about films not TV

...but seriously, it's the frame rate and speed of movement that is thought to have an adverse effect on the developing brain (as well as advertising). Ours love old school stuff like Mr Ben, The Clangers and Mary Mungo and Midge. They are so much slower than the modern stuff.

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My 2 YO can't get enough of Alvin and the Chipmunks. I thought this would be a little grown up for him but the amount he laughs at the "munks" says otherwise. Plenty of music and slap-stick from the start. Ice Age is another favourite, as is the first 10 minutes of Shrek.

Desperate to find something new to throw in the mix for my own entertainment/sanity!

I'd never attempt to stick a kid infront of a DVD at such a young age.

Bee Movie or rather strangely...Mamma Mia!

I'd never attempt to stick a kid infront of a DVD at such a young age.

No? Why not?

PS we don't restrain her or anything. She actually watches monsters of her own volition. Asks for it too.

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Seen that kind of thing before. Correlation, yes. Causal link - seems far fetched to me. As in, there are lots of other factors that could influence both TV time and school performance.

Toy Story.

Ours love it.

Finding Nemo was an early favourite here, and Cars, Bugs Life and the film length features from Thomas, Bob the Builder etc...

I've found that if a kids film is in the Radio Times and gets 1 star then my kids will love it, the live action Thomas film is a great example.

And Toy Story of course!

PS at what age did people let their kids see Star Wars (the original) for the first time? It's quite dark and people die etc etc...

"I'd never attempt to stick a kid infront of a DVD at such a young age."

Do you have kids? When you are absolutely broken you need that 3rd parent - especially if you don't hav help around.

My daughter loves snow White and Cinderella. I like them now too. Then at bed time she reads the story too.

But she has got a bike so it's not all bad!

trainspotting.

..but seriously, it's the frame rate and speed of movement that is thought to have an adverse effect on the developing brain

Perhaps, but have you seen CBeebies? It's mostly very placid stuff, esp the younger kids shows. Especially the "camera" work.

Do you have kids?

When you are absolutely broken you need that 3rd parent - especially if you don't hav help around.

That's great gw. Do you have 5 kids (?) and they wake at night then you have to go to work ? If you do, hats off!

BEE MOVIE

No, they don't often wake at night. Yes, I get up and work 5 (long) days a week, and at the weekends I can still manage very basic arithmetic 🙄 maybe you should have taken your hat off a while ago?
😛

Ice Age Trilogy, Cars, How to train your dragon, Up, Lion King, Finding Nemo, The Incredibles, Toy Story Trilogy. And my lots personal favourites - Nature programmes.

No, they don't often wake at night. Yes, I get up and work 5 (long) days a week, and at the weekends I can still manage very basic arithmetic maybe you should have taken your hat off a while ago?

What do they do while you're working long hours?

they're either at School or with me. 😉

Lol. 6 kids it is then. If you do that all on your own and they are all young so you have to supervise them (i.e. there are no older ones) at the weekend while you work with no help that is genuinely impressive.

I feel like a bad parent

I suspect that there is more to GW's story than he is letting on.

Thanks GW, you just reminded me why I left this forum. Exactly because of your sort of comments.
Bye folks.

GW - you should be on Mumsnet!

Lilo & Stitch

i agree a two year old should not be watching tv for that lenght of time. 😀

Thanks GW, you just reminded me why I left this forum. Exactly because of your sort of comments.

I also have kids, and I don't stick them in front of a DVD - not a film on a DVD at any rate, it's not like I don't let them watch TV at all. They certainly don't watch TV because I'm broken as a parent (and we don't have any help at all - apart from when they're at nursery, there's not been a single minute one of us hasn't been with them). My oldest at 4 has never seen a film.

Am actually quite shocked at the number of people on a forum full of supposedly very active people who seem to think sitting a <2yo in front of a film is acceptable. Of course she will happily sit in front of something which grabs her attention without having to be forced - doesn't mean it's good for her.

But you carry on - don't think I'm casting any aspersions on your parenting skills, but I have no plans to sit mine in front of a film until they ask to.

Interesting that some people think something they happily do themselves is somehow 'unsuitable' for their little darlings...

Plonking them in front of the telly rather than giving them 'proper' attention is neglectful, possibly, but sitting and watching a film with them is a 'shared' cultural experience. Nowt wrong with that, surely? What's with the snobbishness that books are ok and nice and healthy, yet a film isn't? All forms of cultural reproduction, and equally valid. A film is a visual and audible experience too. Doesn't have to be purely passive consumption; you can chat and discuss things that happen on screen, same as you would with a book.

All about balance, and being open-minded about stuff.

Interesting that some people think something they happily do themselves is somehow 'unsuitable' for their little darlings...

My eldest (2) has just got up 20 mins ago, no tv yet 😉

I think people assume they are plonked in front of a tv all day.

Mines up watching CBeebies

You are going to hell !

I quite like Sarah-Jane honeywell off tikabilla

Isn't hell a 2 year old?

(joke)

if I can entertain a toddler just fine (along with a further 5 kids) without the need for a TV/DVD whether I'm broken or not, so can you!

Hmm.

So let's see. We've got one kid who's still not 2 yet, so she has no-one else to play with apart from Mrs Grips. Mrs Grips is pregnant and doens't have particularly good health currently. She's either been puking her guts or on the point of puking her guts constantly for about six weeks and often can't eat much of anything. So bearing that in mind she has to come up with active constructive play for Lil Grips for 9 hours a day whilst I'm at work, and tidy up after her as she wrecks the house and take her outside to run around regularly, often on the way to or from the shops with shopping.

I think she's entitled to a break now and then. Especially as it's a break where Lil Grips gets to do something she loves.

My oldest at 4 has never seen a film

That really is a crying shame!

but sitting and watching a film with them is a 'shared' cultural experience. Nowt wrong with that, surely?

Absolutely. Personally I love films, and I hope my daughter grows up with the same sense of excitement and happiness and pure joy in the medium that I myself cherish.

What's with the snobbishness that books are ok and nice and healthy, yet a film isn't?

Erm, it's to do with neurological and psychiatric research about how babies perceive the world and how they develop. If you want to argue about it, you could argue about how valid the psychiatrists and neurologists research is, but to write it off as snobbery is silly

Is a 2 year old still a baby? And what kinds of films are bad?

Got any links?

Maybe we should bookmark this thread and come back in 18 years or so and see whos kids got the better degree and see if any correlation between viewing Mr Tumble or not.

Or maybe some things over the next 18 years of life might have bigger impacts.

Who do so many of your threads descend into petty fights? I can't understand it...

my daughter has been up since 6.00am with Chicken Pox and has watched Disneys Cinderella and is just starting Sleeping Beauty i dread to think what physiological and neurological damage this is doing to her or it could be making her feel better and distracting her from the fact she is covered in itching spots and has a temperature of 39C.

Some of you should get of your high horses, a child watching a film doesn't preclude them from doing crafts, baking or reading or going out in the countryside or riding a bike its about balance and giving them a rich mix of experiences.

I'm with Molgrips its your children that are missing out not yours that are suffering.

Nick

It would be funny to bookmark the thread and see what happens.

I love the fact people will dump their kids in a nursery, yet scoff at others letting their kids watch a bit of tv 😆
I have an 18month old and 3 week old, mum stays at home with them and will do until school time. Shock, horror we let the eldest watch some tv!!!! He likes CBeebies, he also plays with toys, listens to music and is very loving (gives awesome hugs)
All these no to tv lot are not to disimilar to this pair.
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Mine are watching Ice Age for the umpteenth time. It's grim outside just now.

My 2.5 year old daughter seems to like a mix of stuff -

Ratatouie (or however it is spelt)
Hercules (Disney cartoon)
Basil the great mouse detective
Dinosaur
The Water Horse (a good film I reckon as well)
Monsters Inc
Madagascar
Madagascar 2
The Incredibles (and the 2 wee short films on the DVD)
Antz
Robin Hood (Disney)
Home and Find (but only in small chunks...I think she thinks it is me riding a bike...haha, how disappointed she'll be when she finds out it isn't!)
Peter Kay's Comic Relief DVD with all the cartoon characters - christ she goes daft for that and does the dancing as well!
Babe
The trailers for UP! on YouTube
Lion King
101 Dalmations

Pretty much all cartoons but they all have slightly different stories (although they are all very similar about love/adventure and all that!)...the Dinosaur one has a scene where the T-Rex kills a dinosaur - no blood or gore, T-Rex just bites the dino and that is it but it's clear what is going on...she seems to like watching it...

She doesn't watch much tv but she does watch it...we'll put the tv on in the late afternoon/evening and we'll play in the living room so it is on but isn't always the reason for being in the room.

I think everything she has watched, she has watched with us and there has been some kind of interaction and I think the ones where everyone interacts or laughs are the ones she likes to watch again and again and again and again...

It is funny listening to her chatting to her grandparents and she starts on a story about a character and they are clueless about it all...very funny to see as she gets very serious about it and they are left like wee kids stuck as they don't know what to say or what is going on...

ours (2 y old) loves monsters inc. too but requests jungle book a lot as well. its a classic from my childhood but it still grabs em and keeps them quiet ...... report me to the parent police !

"Television is a new, hard test of our wisdom. If we succeed in mastering this new medium it will enrich us. But it can also put our minds to sleep. We must not forget that in the past the inability to transport immediate experience and to convey it to others made the use of language necessary and thus compelled the human mind to develop concepts. For in order to describe things, one must draw the general from the specific; one must select, compare, think. When communication can be achieved by pointing with the finger, however, the mouth grows silent, the writing hand stops, and the mind shrinks."

Rudolph Arnheim in 1935

Am I the only parent who breaks the day down into 15 minute chunks of trying to keep them occupied while waiting for bedtime?!

"My oldest at 4 has never seen a film"
That really is a crying shame!

I love the fact people will dump their kids in a nursery, yet scoff at others letting their kids watch a bit of tv

we'll put the tv on in the late afternoon/evening and we'll play in the living room so it is on but isn't always the reason for being in the room

or it could be making her feel better and distracting her from the fact she is covered in itching spots and has a temperature of 39C

You're so right, elf. Tomorrow night I'm going to sit my kids down with a nice glass of wine. That's after taking them whitewater swimming earlier in the day, and getting them to chainsaw the bits of tree we need to get rid of. Then later we'll snuggle up and watch Reservoir Dogs, or maybe Clockwork Orange. Finally a late night game of poker before tucking them up in bed.

Or of course you could just be sensible about things and not get quite so hysterical if someone ever challenges your model of Perfect Parenting... 🙄

I watched that 'Madagascar' nature docu on BBC the other day. I can't imagine anything more suitable for a little child; loads of colours, shapes, sounds, funny animals like monkeys and stuff. Fascinating. I'm sure kids would love stuff like that. Maybe they wouldn't. Maybe they'd prefer Pingu or ITNG or whatever. Who knows. All kids are different. I've seen young 'uns sit there transfixed by horse racing and adverts for 'I can't believe it's not Butter'. Tinies are weird like that.

I don't think Molgrips is on about plonking his little 'un down in front of the telly and just ignoring her. But maybe I think that because I read his OP propply, and din't go off on one about the horror and injustice of it all...

Erm, it's to do with neurological and psychiatric research about how babies perceive the world and how they develop. If you want to argue about it, you could argue about how valid the psychiatrists and neurologists research is, but to write it off as snobbery is silly

I'm sure other Psychos and Neurotics have done research that might suggest a bit of televisual stimulation can actually be quite good for a developing mind, too...

We're talking about an hour or two watching films, in a family group or with adult supervision close at hand. Got any Psychoneurotic 'evidence' that this is harmful?

Loads of info (with links to studies) [url= http://www.tvsmarter.com/documents/brainwaves.html ]here[/url] about TV and its effects on everyone from tiny ones to adults. Perhaps an ironic medium for anti-TV propaganda, but this video is also quite interesting:

Maybe you need to explain to me what he is missing out on if you think it is such a shame, as I don't get it.

Stories (different to those in books), fun, character tracking, involvement, learning to understand cultural forms. But mainly something that gives enjoyment along with books and whatever else.

I don't think Molgrips is on about plonking his little 'un down in front of the telly and just ignoring her. But maybe I think that because I read his OP propply, and din't go off on one about the horror and injustice of it all

Thanks Elf, quite right 🙂

The frequent "formal features" such as camera cuts and zooms, trigger the viewer's "orienting response" over and over again.

Right. Have you ever actually watched CBeebies? Have a look at the camera work and production next time and then re-read that article.

What makes me very sceptical about these studies is they talk about TV like it's one thing. What I want to know is what were they actually watching?

There's TV and there's TV, obviously, and we put a great deal of thought into what's good to watch and what's not. Surely anyone who reads my posts on here would've expected that?

Not all TV is bad, not all TV is made with whizzy visuals, and you know what? Not all books are good either.

That's a pretty anti-tv website, not sure why they'd be so dead against all kinds of TV. Our kid goes out and runs about, plays with toys all day, reads books, and sometimes wants to watch tv or a film. Just like me. That site shows that brainwaves are lower when watching tv, indicating relaxation and inactivity. That's exactly how I feel when watching TV, and I like it. It's good to chill out sometimes.

(posted from a house where the TV is currently off)

Right, ok, now explain how this differs from watching a play or ballet, or looking out of the window on a car journey, or something like that?

Too much TV, as with most things, probbly is bad, speshly for soft spongy absorbent little minds.

I don't think Molgrips is arguing this.

He asked what films would be good for his little girl to watch. Then someone got a bit precious and started banging on about 'TV is baaaad, M'kay?' Which is a bit of an overreaction to say the least...

Tell you what, let's do an experiment. Let's come back in 20 or 30 years time, and see wether Molgrip's kid/s are significantly 'damaged' compared to Aracer's...

I'd like to add ..
all the toys storys
how to train your dragon - awesome
ant bully also very good

i would have to say tv has also helped my kids with counting and letters. Also they have a very extensive vocabulary for their age which I feel this has also helped with.

everything in moderation their not plonked in front of the tv for 4 hrs at a time neither do I take them on 40 miles epic bycle runs.

I wondered when I opened this thread how long it would take for people to comment on the evils of children watching t.v. it surpassed my expectations 😀

Or of course you could just be sensible about things

I still think the most interesting comment from molgrips is:

Our study suggests that for this little one the TV she watches in the way she watches it is not bad for her

Hmm.

So let's see. We've got one kid who's still not 2 yet, so she has no-one else to play with apart from Mrs Grips.

stick your young kids infront of your TV/DVD as much as you like, I honestly couldn't care less.. I simply said, "I wouldn't" and in typical STW style some random tool flounces off in the huff never to return, the OP takes my simple comment to heart and backtracks with a multitude of excuses to back up their decisions when there's no need at all and everyone else is at each others' throats. 😆
Hope the Mrs is feeling better soon Molgrips and may I suggest "Getta" as a prospective name for baby Grips No 2?

I simply said, "I wouldn't"

No, you didn't. You said you wouldn't, and came up with loads of reasons why we were neglecting our kid's upbringing. If you can't see how insensitive that is you need to have a bit of a think.

Now it's a valid point that there are other kids in the neighbourhood, but I honestly don't think I am capable of walking up to strangers and asking if they'll play with us. There might be toddler groups in the area but we are having some language difficulties currently. The thing is, Meg doesn't necessarily need anyone else to play with right now since she's still at the spectator or parallel play stage so I'm not sure how much she'd get out of it. The issue is more about Mrs Grips than it is Lil Grips, and if she has to go out and force herself to socialise with strangers then it isn't going to help her relax much.

gw , the thread title is 'what film for a 2 year old ' and if you go back to page 1 you'll see that molgrips was getting the replies he asked for until you blundered in with your views . why don't you start a thread about raising kids without tv then i can come and tell you what my kids favourite film is !

and came up with loads of reasons why we were neglecting our kid's upbringing.

WTF? Where did I come up with ANY reasons? or accuse anyone of neglect? You deluded fool!

I'd never attempt to stick a kid infront of a DVD at such a young age.

This is fairly negative, isn't it? You choose the phrase 'stick in front of' rather than 'show' or 'offer', which strongly implies that we are making her do it and not bothering to do anything else for her. Which is a bit insulting.

I'm actually a single parent and if I can entertain a toddler just fine (along with a further 5 kids) without the need for a TV/DVD whether I'm broken or not, so can you!

This is insulting because it implies that we're not trying.

Now I don't know if you meant to imply those things. If you did, then that wasn't nice, if you didn't then choose your words more carefully!

To be fair aracer was more offensive, coming on with the 'evidence' of how we are terrible parents and hurting our kids' brains. Of course like most intelligent parents we are taking a great deal of care and going to great lengths to ensure our child is as stimulated and has a good productive life. Of course he apparently chooses to not even ask about any of that and make a judgement then and there, so it seems.

Bear in mind of course that this is a forum and I might be replying to the thread in general and not you specifically GW.

How about the chuggington film or bob the builder?

And as for aracer we dont rely on paying a nursery to let someome else do the interacting for us. My wife takes our nipper to mother and baby groups where he has friends.
Call me old fashioned but having a member of family staying at home looking after the children, is better for them than a stranger in the early years.

Anywho, some tv is ok I dont get why there is an issue.

OMG step away from the computer you poor fragile paranoid little thing!

This is fairly negative, isn't it?

Call me old fashioned but having a member of family staying at home looking after the children, is better for them than a stranger in the early years.

I read a review of the research in the paper, but haven't read any of the underlying research, and it said that having a small number of constant care figures is best in some ways, with few advantages of nursery. Although also evidence that going back to work can be better for parents if they want to, in the long run happy parents probably makes more of adifference than nursery vs child minder vs stay at home mum.