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hi my ex who just is a top woman and mountain biker is 40 but keeps getting messaged by much older guys 50 plus

she is wondering is it ok to put that she is 37 just to attract right age group guys
i think it is ok ( as long as she fesses up soon after meeting someone)
what do u think
cheers


 
Posted : 21/10/2012 2:11 pm
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That post is all sorts of wrong. I do however, have beer, cake and nothing better to do today, so fire away.


 
Posted : 21/10/2012 2:14 pm
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Oooh!, ooooh!!! [runs to put kettle on]
these ones are generally good.. 😀


 
Posted : 21/10/2012 2:18 pm
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as someone very much in the dating game atm, i'd be a little put out by someone faking their age.

i'm not put off by people a little older than me at all, i recently went on a date with someone 7 yrs older than me and had a great time. perhaps she needs to change her profile in different ways to come across a bit younger, and just needs to wait for the right guy to ask.

alternatively, maybe she just needs to say on her profile the age range she is interested in.


 
Posted : 21/10/2012 2:18 pm
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without a picture of her, i'm not sure that any of us can properly advise you.


 
Posted : 21/10/2012 2:22 pm
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Obvious question but if she is a top woman AND your ex, is there are a reason you are so keen to fix her up?

If she is on dating sites why not just say the max age she is interested in when she sets her criteria?


 
Posted : 21/10/2012 2:23 pm
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Posted : 21/10/2012 2:24 pm
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cheers monkey thats a good idea to say prefered age range

i think guys tend to look a bit younger than their own age
and i know i did a have that tendency when i was on dating sites.


 
Posted : 21/10/2012 2:24 pm
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Don't ever lie on a dating site, as soon as folk find out, they think that you're hiding something and you're possibly married or in a relationship!


 
Posted : 21/10/2012 2:25 pm
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This site gets stranger by the hour!


 
Posted : 21/10/2012 2:26 pm
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just wanted to get some feedback from real guys
i am happily hooked up but its interesting to hear opinions

she has got a broken collarbone at mo so cud post x ray ha ha


 
Posted : 21/10/2012 2:28 pm
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Top Man is usually next to, or upstairs from Top Shop, possibly near Dorothy Perkins.


 
Posted : 21/10/2012 2:32 pm
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just wanted to get some feedback from real guys

And you came here?


 
Posted : 21/10/2012 2:33 pm
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If she is still fertile with child bearing ability than that should be advertised as younger male species might be interested in those info.


 
Posted : 21/10/2012 2:41 pm
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good point , i told her that


 
Posted : 21/10/2012 2:44 pm
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Does she like Star Wars , Audi's , Singlespeeders and beards?
If Yes She will fit right in on here , if no then send to Fitness Singles ( and tell us the URL )
As for lying about age , I reckon no. Just put in the ad strict instructions like.- No one in any sort of relationship , and preferably between 36 and 44 . Sorted .


 
Posted : 21/10/2012 2:54 pm
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Put a disclaimer,
"no coffin dodgers" 😀


 
Posted : 21/10/2012 3:07 pm
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Haha 😆 uselesshippy


 
Posted : 21/10/2012 3:11 pm
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How young a guy is she looking for? 😉


 
Posted : 21/10/2012 3:14 pm
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its not the age thats the problem its the attitude. people over 40 are lazy, screwed up, baggage bringers

ahem......genreally like.....not that I have any knowledge of this at all 🙂


 
Posted : 21/10/2012 3:15 pm
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As someone in my 50s, I am greatly offended by such discrimination.
If I divide my age by 2 and add 7, she is well within my parameters and therefore me hers 😉

(Although my wife may have something to say about the matter... 😳 )


 
Posted : 21/10/2012 3:18 pm
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As a 44 year old real guy, I really need pictures to decide whether she should go with 40 or 37.
Any pic of her doing some boom knarly hip off a tabletop should do it.

/serious mode
Age / looks come a distance second to a GSOH.


 
Posted : 21/10/2012 3:22 pm
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I forgot to say, I'm not prepared to travel more than 10 miles, unless she's a bit depraved.


 
Posted : 21/10/2012 3:25 pm
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As someone in my 50s, I am greatly offended by such discrimination.
If I divide my age by 2 and add 7, she is well within my parameters and therefore me hers

(Although my wife may have something to say about the matter... )


Ditto......

Me yesterday 😆 Just old enough to be her dad 😉
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Posted : 21/10/2012 4:16 pm
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she has got a broken collarbone at mo so cud post x ray

I'm sure there would be plenty of interest - fire away.

Though the thing we need to know is if she's such a top woman, why is she your ex?


 
Posted : 21/10/2012 5:42 pm
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Though the thing we need to know is if she's such a top woman, why is she your ex?

Good point, well made.


 
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Posted : 21/10/2012 5:47 pm
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Though the thing we need to know is if she's such a top woman, why is she your ex?

Hmmm good question.


 
Posted : 21/10/2012 5:50 pm
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ok here's a pic or two of the aforementioned ex
she is fit ie can beat me up any hill !
she is a top girl really
be gud if she found a gud man too
please keep your comments respectful ha ha
any way i am very sorted with new model!
happy viewing!

[img] https://picasaweb.google.com/100931595855670482033/MTBPics#5801832089562864274 [/img]
[img] https://picasaweb.google.com/100931595855670482033/MTBPics#5801832214249517042 [/img]


 
Posted : 21/10/2012 6:44 pm
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we split over five yrs ago but she is a gud friend and mate
we are dissimilar in temperment so all gud now
top people are worth knowing

anyway i prefer short dark haired women now! not that i just go on looks ha ha but a gud rider is always a bonus too


 
Posted : 21/10/2012 6:48 pm
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My lovely man wasn't too bothered to find out I was actually 5 years older than I said! I did confess on our first meeting.


 
Posted : 21/10/2012 6:49 pm
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You do realise "top women" has certain connotations in modern dating parlance?


 
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[img] https://picasaweb.google.com/100931595855670482033/MTBPics#5801832214249517042 [/img]


 
Posted : 21/10/2012 6:50 pm
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[img] https://picasaweb.google.com/100931595855670482033/MTBPics#5801832089562864274 [/img]<


 
Posted : 21/10/2012 6:54 pm
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You do realise "top women" has certain connotations in modern dating parlance?

enlighten me?

btw, are pics up?


 
Posted : 21/10/2012 6:57 pm
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I'll give her a bash...where she live? I'm 41 btw


 
Posted : 21/10/2012 6:59 pm
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Nice pedals! Proper old school red DX!

Oh, and does she know you're pimping her out on STW? I'd certainly hope so, given that you're posting pics...


 
Posted : 21/10/2012 7:15 pm
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Is she aware you're posting this?


 
Posted : 21/10/2012 7:16 pm

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