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If you were saying in discussion something like, your a very outgoing .....

Is it Woman, Girl, Lady?

Note this isn't a chat up, I'm just wondering which would be received in black and white as "flattering" rather than "insulting"?


 
Posted : 14/09/2016 5:25 pm
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Bit of crumpet?


 
Posted : 14/09/2016 5:28 pm
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How about "friend" or her name?


 
Posted : 14/09/2016 5:28 pm
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You're would be better


 
Posted : 14/09/2016 5:30 pm
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Person?


 
Posted : 14/09/2016 5:30 pm
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Bird!

Surely it depends on age and, possibly, your relationship with her?


 
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Clunge?


 
Posted : 14/09/2016 5:36 pm
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Doris?


 
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I knew this wouldn't start, let alone end well...


 
Posted : 14/09/2016 5:38 pm
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Unit. Totally gender neutral and impossible to cause offense.


 
Posted : 14/09/2016 5:42 pm
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Sheila ?


 
Posted : 14/09/2016 5:43 pm
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Bit of..stuff,love receptical, baby maker, crumpet, skirt...etc.


 
Posted : 14/09/2016 5:44 pm
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How old are you? I'd go for 'woman', but if you're both very young then that might be weird. Or 'character'. More neutral. 'Individual'? Or just go with the catch-all solution of 'dude'.


 
Posted : 14/09/2016 5:45 pm
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Lass


 
Posted : 14/09/2016 5:46 pm
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You're very outgoing?


 
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Posted : 14/09/2016 5:49 pm
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Just told my wife she was a very outgoing wasp-duck.

Not impressed. 😥


 
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Unit. Totally gender neutral and impossible to cause offense.

POSTED 9 MINUTES AGO # REPORT-POST

Genuine LoL!


 
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[s]Penis docking station?[/s] Girl


 
Posted : 14/09/2016 5:54 pm
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Under 45=girl
Over 45=lady
But it really depends on how well you know her, and to an extent, what type of friend she is,
Example: i went to school with a girl, we have been friends for 40 years, and I wouldn't even flinch if she asked me how my love life was going, but other 99% of friends id be mortified if they said that.
Only you can decide.


 
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Posted : 14/09/2016 6:01 pm
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I can't believe this hasn't been asked already....

Is she fit?

Standards are slipping around here....


 
Posted : 14/09/2016 6:03 pm
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you're very outgoing...

...for a fat lass.


 
Posted : 14/09/2016 6:04 pm
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I think its the "very outgoing" bit that's your problem. Could be read as negative ie "you are loud and inappropriate"

What are you really trying to say?


 
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" for a bit of totty"


 
Posted : 14/09/2016 6:12 pm
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Well firstly it's "you're".
How about You're very outgoing?


 
Posted : 14/09/2016 6:18 pm
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Probably doesn't matter now. Question was 3/4 of an hour ago. Moment's passed.


 
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Sugar tits


 
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bit a poontang.


 
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'sugar chebs' is my goto for this


 
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Sausage park


 
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A nice bit of grip.

'Hen' is the Swedish gender neutral pronoun used when the gender is not known or is not desirable to say. Ironically to us like chick or bird . Go with that ?


 
Posted : 14/09/2016 6:30 pm
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Why are you texting her if you're not chatting her up?


 
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He's taking things slowly


 
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of similar age

To whom? I don't know if you're 14 or 85, I imagine the answer would differ slightly across that range.


 
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I predict this thread will either be 6 pages or closed by the mods. Possibly both 🙂


 
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Are you aiming to get out of the 'friend zone'?


 
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I recently had to state on a form my relationship to the women I've lived with for 20 years, best I could come up with was "Lady-friend".
Not sure if that helps.


 
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bint. Always works


 
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dp


 
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Darling


 
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Are you aiming to get out of the 'friend zone'?

[url= http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/blogs-trending-37363350 ]Sign language. [/url]

dp

At least wait until the second date.


 
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Woman.
Or just her name?


 
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Why are you texting her if you're not chatting her up?

You know, its possible to talk to a woman/lady/girl that you don't want to shag.

Yes she's fit, I'm 44 she 35, so actually not similar ages. Not aiming to get out of the friend zone I'm married with kids and wouldn't be asking this on a public forum.

Context is I've known her through work for as long as I've known my wife, who also knows of her btw. So just chatting. Started cause I'm working in Dorchester and she suggested I go and see the Cerne Abbas. 😯


 
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I knew this wouldn't start, let alone end well...

Middle is good though


 
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*unzips*


 
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Cerne Abbas...?

He's got a huge willy..

Could be a metaphor ... You never know.


 
Posted : 14/09/2016 7:58 pm
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Show your wife this thread and let us know when she stops breaking bits off you


 
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Bubbly personality?


 
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Me duck


 
Posted : 14/09/2016 8:17 pm
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Person seems good to me.


 
Posted : 14/09/2016 8:17 pm
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You can solve the problem by taking out the 'a'

"You are [b]a[/b] very outgoing ......"

be comes

"You are very outgoing."


 
Posted : 14/09/2016 8:19 pm
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PS does she know you're the obsessive type of dork that researches how to word a text to her?


 
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If that's the engineered compliment Rohypnol is your best bet.


 
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cocksocket


 
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stw at its [s]best[/s] [s]worst[/s]......no best....definitely best 😆


 
Posted : 14/09/2016 9:01 pm
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you'd think a man with a penchant for designer glasses that compliment his pretige italian motor wouldn't have to ask the forum about such things.....


 
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Shagging bracket.


 
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you'd think a man with a penchant for designer glasses that compliment his pretige italian motor wouldn't have to ask the forum about such things.....

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Addressing the womenfolk is a lot like making love to the beautiful womenfolk.....


 
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Cockwomble, and you can be uncle Bulgaria


 
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Ruca


 
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Where's she from?

If Cornish, then 'proper maid!' is preferable.

If anywhere else then anything could be a slappable offense.


 
Posted : 14/09/2016 9:25 pm
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Splitarse or flossy are my go to in this scenario.


 
Posted : 14/09/2016 9:27 pm
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just text her a picture of the knob ffs.


 
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Yes she's fit, I'm 44 she 35,

I call troll. Either that or a terminal case of wishful thinking.


 
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This thread went [s]from a question about political correctness[/s] to a load of tosh in seconds.

I didn't really need to ask, but for some reason I thought the thread would go differently.

You live and learn.


 
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You know, its possible to talk to a woman/lady/girl that you don't want to shag.

That would be my mum.


 
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Show your wife this thread

She says "at my age, woman."

There you go.


 
Posted : 14/09/2016 9:51 pm
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It is possible to talk to a woman/lady/girl that you don't want to shag.

Your wife would be proud of that.

Yes she's fit.

D'oh!!


 
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Unit. Totally gender neutral and impossible to cause offense.

Unless you're calling her a C-Unit...


 
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Mark90,

Pics?

(Sorry!)


 
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Good Luck


 
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You know, its possible to talk to a woman/lady/girl that you don't want to shag.

hahahahaha. That's just crazy talk right there... crazy crazy talk.


 
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your a very outgoing .....

Lass
But dropping the "a" makes it end just there. But you should really follow with "bust just make sure my tea is on time"


 
Posted : 15/09/2016 6:31 am
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You can solve the problem by taking out the 'a'

Perhaps he wants the A?


 
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[i] for some reason I thought the thread would go differently.[/i]

A triumph of hope over experience.


 
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Why are you texting when one phone call could have the 'conversation' done in about 1 minute?

You- hello
her- hello
your wife- who's that on the phone?
you- oh, er, wrong number dear (hangs up)...

😆


 
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Most amusing thread I've read in a while. Trying hard not to genuinely LOL as I'm at work

brilliant, keep it up


 
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MILF.


 
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