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Knuckle draggers. There we go again. Why reduce it to that level? If you can't engage sensibly why post anything?

Mol - its not the calendar at fault though is it, its the commentator. My primary point is that the calendar itself is not sexist. It does nothing directly to encourage sexism and it is education of those who might actually be sexist which is required. Not banning calendars.


 
Posted : 20/12/2015 9:31 pm
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I haven't a clue to be honest. If I had a quick link to one of aracer's straw man pictures, I'd post one though.
no straw man required it was a genuine question.


 
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Knuckle draggers. There we go again. Why reduce it to that level? If you can't engage sensibly why post anything?

Because I think that men who struggle with some of the fairly simple concepts in this debate are knuckle draggers and I'm using the kind of language they might understand. Although, maybe that might be bullying. I dunno...do you?


 
Posted : 20/12/2015 9:37 pm
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And where people realise that models pouting at the camera have absolutely nothing to do with tyres.

Does it have to. There many such calenders. Hollyoaks I think do a babes and hunks calender, what does it have to do with tv soap opera.
It's a slightly sexual calender that just happens to be put togeather by a tyre company.


 
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no straw man required it was a genuine question.

In a separate discussion maybe. The last time I looked at porn, which was many years ago, it wasn't trying to sell anything. Is there product placement these days or something?


 
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Mol - its not the calendar at fault though is it, its the commentator.

It is part of the wider problem. They are all bricks in the wall. Every calendar, every comment on an outfit, every inappropriate lewd comment.. all bricks in the wall, all need taking down one by one. They all support and encourage each other.


 
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[quote=cumberlanddan ]My primary point is that the calendar itself is not sexist. It does nothing directly to encourage sexism and it is education of those who might actually be sexist which is required. Not banning calendars.

It's a subtle issue rather than a direct one, it encourages the idea of women as things which are used as decoration.

banning? Still? Can we ban that word from this discussion?


 
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In a separate discussion maybe. The last time I looked at porn, which was many years ago, it wasn't trying to sell anything. Is there product placement these days or something?

Yes, in a way,it often gets linked to Internet gambling sites plus online, well not quite dating. So I have heard. 😀


 
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My primary point is that the calendar itself is not sexist.

Do you think for a moment that if the female models were replaced by male models in the calendar, that they would portrayed in [u]exactly[/u] the same way (with "come hither" expressions, and scantily clad). If the answer to that is a scoffed, "no of course not"...then the calender promotes sexism.

[b]sexism[/b]
[i]?s?ks?z(?)/m
noun
prejudice, stereotyping, or discrimination, typically against women, on the basis of sex.[/i]

The issue here is that the portrayal of women is used [u]differently[/u], not [u]how[/u] that portrayal is expressed. A non sexist portrayal of women in the calender would have been of both female and male riders using and enjoying Maxxis bike tyres for their intended purpose, or indeed if the calender had both men and women in states of undress, that also wouldn't have been sexist. (it still would have been exploitative and objectifying, but at least it wouldn't have been sexist).

help?


 
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Is a winner emerging yet?


 
Posted : 20/12/2015 9:54 pm
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No bike tyres were harmed in the making of the calendar.
I t was women in short skirts and tight trousers possibly in evocative poses we will never know.
How is that,
prejudice, stereotyping, or discrimination, typically against women, on the basis of sex.

The fact there was no men on it could mean it was discriminating against them maybe.


 
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Is a winner emerging yet?
February for me, but I'm not sure we're allowed to say 😉


 
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Listen. This whole thread isn't covering anyone in glory. One group thinks that the calendar demeans women, and that that's a bad thing, as well as being indicative of an unpleasant attitude in society towards women, by a significant proportion of men. The other group thinks that it's just a few pictures of pretty girls who get paid so are not exploited (as individuals at least) and that it's such an insignificant issue in the grand scheme of sexual equality that it's really not worth worrying about. Both sides are intransigent and have made valid points, and both appear to be displaying a failure of empathy to a greater or lesser extent. It's also patently obvious that neither side is going to change their position one jot. Maybe it's time to let your arguments rest and agree to disagree, before people get all (more?) stroppy and flouncy. It's not going anywhere, time for a step back. Neither side is doing themselves ANY favours, either to their position, or to their own standing. It's a bit cringeworthy to be honest.

Lots of love, V8 xxx


 
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I was asking for clarification, and getting none.

How is that,
prejudice, stereotyping, or discrimination, typically against women, on the basis of sex.

It's *encouraging* it.


 
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Is a winner emerging yet?

No winners here, I am signed off sick at the moment so have to much time on my hands.
And arguing the toss on the internet is vaguely entertaining. keeps me away from porn at least.


 
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You need a calendar.

To tick off the days until you're better - why, what did you think I meant?


 
Posted : 20/12/2015 10:12 pm
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Do you think for a moment that if the female models were replaced by male models in the calendar, that they would portrayed in exactly the same way (with "come hither" expressions, and scantily clad). If the answer to that is a scoffed, "no of course not"...then the calender promotes sexism.

they wouldn't be posed the same way because they wouldn't look sexy that way. You can't pose or use the same type of lighting when you shoot men as you do with woman, it just doesn't work. There are plenty of "hot" or "sexy" guy calandars out there. Men Don't even have to have all their clothes off to appeal to ladies. know your audence.


 
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So in the end, it's all down to lighting.

Well thats cleared everything up then

Can we make this stop now? Please? For everyones benefit?

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Its Monday morning folks, so heres a picture of some kittens with light sabres...

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Oh, FFS. Just walk away.


 
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It's true though isn't it. A sexy man calendar wouldnt have men in exactly the same poses as was ludicrously claimed as a requirement for it not the be sexist. They would equally objectified though.

The fact it takes that degree of explanation suggests either wanton misunderstanding, I.e. trolling or gross stupidity.

And that's this thread in a nutshell, constantly batting away all the strawmen without any engagement with the original issue.


 
Posted : 21/12/2015 9:28 am
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Is a winner emerging yet?

No but a consensus is forming around the idea of a society in which women are protected from being seen as objects of lust. It's working out fine in Saudi Arabia.


 
Posted : 21/12/2015 9:40 am
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Can we make this stop now? Please? For everyones benefit?

well if you stopped trolling it would


 
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I can't believe this drivel is till ongoing!! It's verging on ridiculous! 🙂


 
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[s]well if you stopped trolling it would[/s]No, I want the last word, me me
Seriously, just stop. You're ALL AS BAD AS EACH OTHER. Back away slowly.

I know, let's play the 'next person to post on this thread is a great big eejit' game. Works with my five year old, see no reason it shouldn't work here.

Starting... NOW.


 
Posted : 21/12/2015 9:51 am
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A lady boy calendar by Maxxis is the way forward .


 
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what happen to november and december ?


 
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It's not necessarily about judgement, it's about priorities.

Williams* is there to play tennis, what she looks like is not important. But if a commentator or interviewer mentions it, it's diluting her achievement as a player with her achievements as eye candy.

And it's BECAUSE women have been battling the idea that they are eye candy for men more than they are people for centuries (and still are) this is why it's bad. Because it's reinforcing the negative ideas that other women still suffer from.

Perfectly put, sir.


 
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they wouldn't be posed the same way because they wouldn't look sexy that way.

Yes! And the big question here is WHY?

Take the typical sexy hunk photo from a perfume ad, say. He is commanding, strong, and *dominant*. That lass second from the right in the Maxxis babes, she's presenting her arse, she's *submissive*.

Now look for that body language elsewhere in advertising, you'll notice it all over the place. Men dominant, women submissive. It's so pervasive that people think it's the normal way of the world, even when they are't sexist themselves.

The problem nowadays for feminism is the constant background level of gender stereotyping that's become part of our cultural language over the last century or so. It forms part of our understanding of gender relations.

I did notice one perfume ad this year that features quickfire images of a man ravishing a woman, but it also features an equal number of images of the woman ravishing the submissive man. Nice touch, I thought.


 
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It's true though isn't it. A sexy man calendar wouldnt have men in exactly the same poses as was ludicrously claimed as a requirement for it not the be sexist. They would equally objectified though.

The fact it takes that degree of explanation suggests either wanton misunderstanding, I.e. trolling or gross stupidity.


Sorry but I disagree (my personal viewpoint, I happen to be a woman, no I am not claiming to speak on behalf of all women etc etc). This does not mean I am grossly stupid or a troll and it's not very nice of you to suggest so.

Why? Objectification doesn't happen in a vacuum (where I would agree, if it was a level playing field, 'sexy naked men' would be just as much objectified as 'sexy naked women'). Our society is still fundamentally unequal and that's why this calender is backwards and pitiful.

(If you disagree that society is unequal then the longest thread in the world won't convince you but you could try looking at the Fawcett Society stats on equal pay or everydaysexism.com for starters, or maybe try talking to some actual women.)

I'm not calling for the calender to be banned but I am pretty disappointed and surprised by the number of men on this board who can't conceive of any problems with it. I remember seeing those booby peanut boards in pubs when I was a kid and that's the point - they are relics from the past. Tacky and dated. It'd be nice to get to the point where reputable companies would be embarrassed to put something like this calender out, and that's where journalism like the original article comes in. Suggesting the author should then go and work for Maxxis to help them come up with a better plan is utterly ridiculous and irrelevant, as is pointing at other pieces of her work.

I am somewhat heartened by those men who have made an effort to explain why some people may object to it (thanks binners and molgrips in particular). I had genuinely thought that things were getting better but maybe I just mix with a nicer bunch of chaps and I'm getting a distorted view of the world.


 
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I remember seeing those booby peanut boards in pubs when I was a kid and that's the point - they are relics from the past

Nope, you still see them. Peanuts and tyres are both Products Wot Men Like To Buy.

Fleshy fleshy catchee monkey.

Who wouldn't want a buy a tyre with a tread like this: [url] http://tinyurl.com/zdqo7ve [/url] ?

*warning* NSFW/SFW (delete as preferred)


 
Posted : 21/12/2015 10:52 am
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Yes! And the big question here is WHY

because men and woman are different.


 
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Why? Objectification doesn't happen in a vacuum (where I would agree, if it was a level playing field, 'sexy naked men' would be just as much objectified as 'sexy naked women'). Our society is still fundamentally unequal and that's why this calender is backwards and pitiful.

men are objectified more than woman and woman talk/treat men differently. I'd say woman are worse than men when it comes these kinds of things.


 
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fionap - I think the vast majority of us 'get it', on account of having something between our ears, and the self-awareness to realise that looking to the 70's for your guidance on sexual equality isn't a good thing. Personally I always had a selection of strong female role models since being a kid. Still have. And that formed my opinions. And thankfully informs my daughters. So I've never bothered with the culture that promote this kind of cringeworthy claptrap, that felt past its sell by date 30 years ago!

But It seems those who are wilfully, in fact gleefully hard-of-thinking (or/and terminally insecure)are clinging on to their tired, sad, embarrassingly outdated misogyny, and are just shouting the loudest. Its not really a surprise, is it?

I'm sure your opinions will now be rubbished by the usual parade of Jim-Davdson-alike's now, just as ours have been

After all... what would you know?

i do think its time for the mods to close this thread. Its just become cyclical, and there just appears to be a gang of ****-wits who are clearly revelling in being as crass, sexist and generally objectionable as possible

Pretty tragic really


 
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because men and woman are different.

Expand on that. What exactly are the differences that relate to how people are photographed looking sexy? Because I think the differences are exactly what I am talking about.


 
Posted : 21/12/2015 11:10 am
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So the reason one of these images is sexist objectification and one isn't is because we do not live in an equal society.
So when there is no longer a pay gap will The bottom image be acceptable in a modern society aswell as the top or will the top become as unacceptable as the bottom.


 
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Can you see the different body language there? Serious question.

Ok so that bottom image isn't as bad as the Maxxis one, and in producing two images they have at least made an effort. But even then, they are still demonstrating my point, albeit accidentally (and I'm not blaming them). There is a fundamental imbalance in gender relations.


 
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And another intellectual titan tries to illustrate their flawless, unchallengeable nature of their argument, with reference to.....

Hollyoaks

Genius!


 
Posted : 21/12/2015 11:19 am
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Because if the men were not as muscular and (strong) they would not sell as many because since Michael Angeles David this is masculine beauty.

So if the woman were muscular and the men weedy would that be ok.


 
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So the reason one of these images is sexist objectification and one isn't...

Eh? They both objectify. One submissively sexual, the other aggressively sexual. Both tacky and both unsexy as all hell IMO - but that's another 'discussion'.

Back to the, er, 'babes'. Isnt it fair to conclude that whilst no-one has stated that they want to ban it, some think it's tacky and 70's, others think it's fun, while others think it's a somewhat sinister reminder of the continuation/resurgence of gender inequality in our society today. Others think that others wish to ban it, and others still think that others are thinking something that they themselves really think and are so projecting their thoughts into a comment feedback-loop that makes many people want to chew their own elbow.

And some do not think at all 8)

All very tyreing. < I hate myself for that.


 
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[quote=cumberlanddan]It's true though isn't it. A sexy man calendar wouldnt have men in exactly the same poses as was ludicrously claimed as a requirement for it not the be sexist. They would equally objectified though.

Is it really hard to understand that this is part of the reason for it being sexist? You're agreeing with the point being made here, without seemingly being aware of it.

We've done that there are indeed calendars with half naked blokes on, but where is the Maxxis blokes calendar promoting their tyres? Are there any calendars produced by tyre companies with half naked blokes on? Indeed what calendars are there promoting products with half-naked blokes on? Why is that?

The fact it takes that degree of explanation suggests either wanton misunderstanding, I.e. trolling or gross stupidity.
And that's this thread in a nutshell, constantly batting away all the strawmen without any engagement with the original issue.

I am enjoying your displays of lack of self awareness in your posts. You do realise that you can't accuse every point somebody else makes which you don't agree with as being a strawman, simply because some (most?) of your posts have accurately been described as such? You could always try reading the link you so helpfully provided which explains what a strawman argument is - or simply address the arguments rather than ladling on the insulting language. Lots of us have been busy engaging the issue, but you simply ignore anything you disagree with.


 
Posted : 21/12/2015 11:25 am
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Binners sorry but I am but a poorly educated chav.
But atleast I am trying to understand using what I believe valid points and not just being condescending by posting Sid the sexist.


 
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So if the woman were muscular and the men weedy would that be ok.

If you're looking for me to give you instructions, I'm not going to. I'm not prescribing how society should work, I'm not telling people what to do.

I'm trying to explain the situation. If you disagree, set out your argument.


 
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So the reason one of these images is sexist objectification and one isn't is because we do not live in an equal society.
So when there is no longer a pay gap will The bottom image be acceptable in a modern society aswell as the top or will the top become as unacceptable as the bottom.

They are both objectification, but the female version is probably more damaging to the general perception of that gender and definitely more demeaning - this is partly due to the difference in body language/stance and portrayal as described by molgrips.

Obviously there's more to it than the pay gap (massive oversimplification of inequality) but you raise an interesting question (although I think you may be being facetious). I'd like to think that we will move towards valuing men and women equally for their achievements and actions rather than their muscles or their boobs but that's probably idealistic. Nothing wrong with aiming high though!


 
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[quote=chip ]So the reason one of these images is sexist objectification and one isn't is because we do not live in an equal society.

If we ignore the difference in body language which has been pointed out, then actually in that context there isn't too much difference, and I tend to agree that neither is much different to the other.

So where is the Maxxis hunks calendar?


 
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Lots of us have been busy engaging the issue, but you simply ignore anything you disagree with.

Given he is still saying banning i think getting through to him may be somewhat difficult.


 
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850 posts? C'mon...let's get this to 1000 before Christmas!


 
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[s]851[/s]

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perhaps should have been "smell the tread"


 
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So where is the Maxxis hunks calendar?

It's obvious, Maxxis marketing dept have decided that it's (mostly?) hetero men that buy the tyres around here. Simple. (Not commenting on the desirability of this situation). To engage in some steretyping myself - hetero men presumably like to buy stuff with pics of men on (role-models, ie hunky wholesome guys in Dickies workwear, that handsome pristinely-coiffured dude with those cufflinks etc), but not normally promotional material with semi-clothed naked men?

(Hetero) women get some of it too - we've all seen the fizzy drink male-striptease adverts? (Women gushing over half-nude man)

The subsequent discussion is do the public get what the public want? Or does the public want what the public gets?

What few ask is does 'the public' want 'the public'? Or do we wish to value individuals first, beyond shape and gender? We live in a world dominated by marketing/branding, and they haven't time money or in inclination NOT to simultaneously pander to and reinforce gender stereotypes. They are there simply to make money.

So many shallow product-based orange people of late says maybe not right at this point in history...

To me it feels like the 80s/90s ran its course and we are now having a 50s/70s throwback couple of decades (missing out the 60s)

Its all bloody weird.


 
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So where is the Maxxis hunks calendar?

where indeed? Their competitors are making them...

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So question for everybody on the thread, ignoring any other intrinsic value of said calendar, is the existence of a Maxxis babes calendar and the absence of a Maxxis hunks calendar sexist?

If not, why not?


 
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Can that question exist in a vacuum, though?

...assuming the vacuum is on a treadmill.


 
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I'm saddened and disappointed in myself that it's taken me 25 pages that the reason there's a problem with the calendar is because it's "dated"...


 
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It's not binary, answer could be either, neither or both.

Anyway, here here we go, this is the pic I was looking for of me earlier today contemplating these issues. Can't remember whether I was looking cross with this thread or just suppressing a fart:

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I think this evens everything out...

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^Niche 8O. (Thinks - is 'Mustafa' in fact concealing yet more puppies [i]inside[/i] his arms?)

And not really selling anything other than puppy love and weirdness? Like chaste nearly-sexy fun for plush-toy obsessed US teen girls who like daddy-figures? (Shudder)

I do hope that girls lying back on car-bonnets with their legs open while squirting foamy sponges down their cleavage will one day soon be more niche than not when it comes to selling cars/tyres. I mean, its a simply a product to transport people and stuff? And woman can drive now.


 
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I do hope that girls lying back on car-bonnets with their legs open while squirting...

I stopped reading at this point as the outrage was too much.


 
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Niche

Lol 🙂

The subsequent discussion is do the public get what the public want? Or does the public want what the public gets?

Very good question.


 
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[quote=Malvern Rider ]The subsequent discussion is do the public get what the public want? Or does the public want what the public gets?

I don't get what this society wants


 
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Maxxis babes , PAH!

It seems we haven't moved on much in the 100+ years since this sent gentleman velocipedes riders pulses a-racing

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Sorry that puppies and hot guys has got me thinking. I showed it to better half and she said 'is that for gay men?'

(Thinks further)

Back to 'Mustafa' with puppies for arms - I'm wondering if there isn't a niche Manga-style calendar/comic that has Mustafa vigorously appreciating pubescent Japanese robot-schoolgirls, his arms literally exploding into a flock of winged-puppies at the point of arrival...

(Too much thinking)

Future gender equality (post-feminist/post-reconstructed male) editions will be electronic and interactive where the viewer selects his/herm own characters, character gender/gender-preferences and outcomes ie. 'Mustafa the Transexual saves so many puppies from the evil clutches of marketeers that She explodes into a flock of unicorns!'


 
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One final attempt to explain why I'm not comfortable with the calender (if anyone in this thread remembers what the debate was originally about)...

I've been groped on the tube. I've been flashed at on the train. I've been leered at on the bus. I've been harassed walking down the street. I've had men in cars shout things at me as they drive past. I've had comments when I'm on my bike. None of these experiences are unique - all of my female friends have similar tales.

Do I blame the calender for those experiences? Of course not.
But...
Do I see the calender as both symptomatic and supportive of a society that says it's ok to treat women like that? Absolutely.
Do I want the calender banned? No.
Do I hope that type of marketing finally dies out as support for it dies? Yes.

If anybody is still struggling to understand the above I honestly don't know what to suggest.


 
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Fiona that (thankfully) puts this thread to shame, and (hopefully) to bed.


 
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With you all the way Fionap. As a bloke I had literally NO IDEA that this sort of thing happens (because I wouldn't dream of doing it) until I got to be really good friends with a woman who works in the same role (but as a double female crew) as I have worked (ambo paramedic). Talking about it, I was aghast, literally gobsmacked at the casual and not so casual sexism that she experienced on shift, Every. Single. Day. Likewise, she was surprised that I wasn't aware of it happening. It's shocking, disgusting and endemic in our 'enlightened' society. The only saving grace is that it's becoming less acceptable, evidenced by the fact that it's not even as apparent when she works with a chap, which to me at least, suggests that the sexists know that it's unacceptable, and keep it inside when there's someone present who they can't trust to 'f'nar' along with them. The whole thing really pisses me off.


 
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Good post fionap.

Helps to illustate the point I've been trying to get across. I think that many of the posters here have no idea how society can affect women, because they aren't one. They need to listen to the viewpoints of women rather than dismiss them (as they did with the article on the calendar). As V8 has.

hich to me at least, suggests that the sexists know that it's unacceptable, and keep it inside when there's someone present who they can't trust to 'f'nar' along with them.

Yep. We look to our peers and society for validation when we do things. Things die out when society considers it unacceptable. The calendar helps to validate sexist ideas and actions.


 
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I think with fionap's post I'm out - if some people really don't get it after that, then there's pretty much nothing else which can be said to persuade them.


 
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This

And it's BECAUSE women have been battling the idea that they are eye candy for men more than they are people for centuries (and still are) this is why it's bad. Because it's reinforcing the negative ideas that other women still suffer from.

As the Original poster, this is what I was hoping people would understand, that there are wider consequences for what some would look upon as innocent actions due to an attitude ingrained by society...which is changing, though clearly leaving a significant number behind.

Some here a clearly too intellectually challenged to realise that.


 
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The condescension from this little band above is absolutely incredible. There is nothing to 'get'.

This quote here deserves some more introspection and i think is the heart of this entire debate.

Do I see the calender as both symptomatic and supportive of a society that says it's ok to treat women like that? Absolutely.

Coupled with the notion that men can't 'get it' because we don't experience sexism (that again is another story but we'll not go down that little garden path).

Perhaps women can't 'get' that not all men see the images such as those in that calendar and instantly feel it is their place to demean all women and put them in the kitchen. And don't bother replying fionap - you cant possibly know because you're a woman so if you do your just belittling the opinions of men... (Clearly this little bit is going to be taken out of context. Fill your boots. You'll only look clever to other fools - not aimed at fionap by the way).

Men do get groped by women but as, for want of a better way of putting it, the dominant sex it is far less of a problem, though still pretty unpleasant. No one in their right mind condones gropes or any of the other demeaning behavior you have posted above. My opinion is that calendar doesn't condone, encourage or otherwise validate this nasty behavior by some nasty people. Other nasty people do.

Perhaps the men arguing so strongly against it have to suppress such thoughts whilst others don't? I don't know. Just a theory.

Banning, or if you insist, preventing the sale of, such calendars does nothing to address the underlying issue.

The logical conclusion of your argument by Reductio ad absurdum is that women and perhaps men too wear some sort of form concealing clothing whenever they might be seen in public.


 
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I quite agree with the sentiment binners.


 
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I'm sure we can squeeze a bit more out of this topic...plenty of life left in this thread yet 🙂


 
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And don't bother replying fionap - you cant possibly know because you're a woman

Oh, I can help you there then. Speaking as a man and therefore meeting your criterion for understanding, you're talking absolute bollocks.


 
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cougar - you're a moderator. Care to moderate?

You're not men though are you. You are one man. As am I. I have my opinion, you have yours.


 
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There is nothing to 'get'

Fionap and V8's testimony suggests otherwise - there is an issue.

Coupled with the notion that men can't 'get it' because we don't experience sexism

Several men on here DO get it, so that notion is nonsense. In fact it's mostly men who are trying to explain it to you.

Perhaps women can't 'get' that not all men see the images such as those in that calendar and instantly feel it is their place to demean all women and put them in the kitchen.

No, I'm sure most women do get it. But no-one's alleging that. You're extrapolating what people are saying to unreasonable degree.

1) We all know, men and women, that the calendar isn't going to MAKE anyone suddenly change their minds about women and become a chauvinist. That would be absolutely ridiculous and as intelligent people we know that's clearly not happening. No-one's saying it is.

2) The point we're trying to make is that whilst not converting men into apes, the calendar reinforces bad behaviour. I can't put it any simpler than that.

I'm not trying to be an arsehole here but you really do need to relax a bit and treat this as an intellectual discussion, not a row. I'm not trying to score points over you, I'm just explaining how I see it. I hate these angry fist-swinging fights, all I want is a reasonable discussion.

Perhaps the men arguing so strongly against it have to suppress such thoughts whilst others don't? I don't know. Just a theory.

That doesn't help, and suggests you are either very wound up or you want a fight more than a discussion. Do you?


 
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Mods - I think this thread needs closing. Not because its gone on too long or that Binners has been abusive to Cumberlanddan..but that I fear Binners may have a heat attack in his clearly apoplectic state... 😀


 
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molgrips - I'm not the one getting overexcited here 😆

I've tried to make sensible posts and most of the responses are nitpicked and accusatory beyond belief. People have been taking offence left right and centre over nothing. I might have a had a couple of little digs when provoked but thats all.

As for the point above, it's a serious point. Its not an accusation and someone has already hinted at it back in the thread.

Beyond the immediate "oh look, some girls in bikinis" reaction, the calendar inspires absolutely no further judgment on women from my part. Its all about context innit.


 
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I dunno, it has moments of clarity in-between the rants.

Where are you from edenvalleyboy?


 
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The reason I get so bloody angry is that I don't want my daughters, or anyone elses for that matter, growing up in world with neolithic cockwombles like Dan in it. Where casual sexism is perfectly acceptable, in fact something to be staunchly defended at all costs.Celebrated even. As if being a massively offensive, misogynistic dickhead is somehow a basic human right.

Attitudes like this should have been consigned to the dustbin of history decades ago


 
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I think this has turned into probably [i]the[/i] most ridiculous thread I've ever seen on here and cannot believe it's been allowed to get to 26(!) pages of pointless arguing.

Which is a pity really, as the main subject is quite serious!

My last day at work today though so i thankfully won't be drawn into reading more of this durge!!

Merry Christmas.


 
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