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In light of the excellent news that there has finally been a successful conviction for FGM, which should certainly speed up the eradication of this barbaric practice, I got to wondering why it is specifically female GM in the law, and whether that is really defensible in this day and age. I certainly concede that FGM can be much more traumatic than the male equivalent, but given that it is commonly thought that there are between 100 and 200 deaths per year from botched male circumcision (US figures) done for cultural or religious rather than medical reasons to individuals how are by virtue of being infants unable to give informed consent to the procedure, it cannot be thought of as a harmless act. It seems that we have a legislated inequality that surely weakens the moral standpoint of the existing law.

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Posted : 01/02/2019 4:26 pm
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I agree


 
Posted : 01/02/2019 4:34 pm
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Ditto.


 
Posted : 01/02/2019 4:49 pm
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Yup


 
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You should try having this discussion with Americans, its amazing to them that my knob hasnt rotted off!!


 
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Male circumcision is done for several reasons including religious, cultural and health, according to the NHS there's evidence to suggest that it reduces the risk of HIV infection.
Whereas fgm not only has no benefits for the woman, it's brutally detrimental and harmful. It tends to be more specific to certain communities, such as the south east of Nigeria and its diaspora and is not unique to a specific religion


 
Posted : 01/02/2019 5:04 pm
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Whilst I agree that circumcision shouldn't be done to children but only concenting adults it really doesn't compare in it's reasons for being done or the brutal effects that it has on the person.


 
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Whilst I agree that circumcision shouldn’t be done to children but only concenting adults it really doesn’t compare in it’s reasons for being done or the brutal effects that it has on the person.

Until one is botched of course.


 
Posted : 01/02/2019 5:21 pm
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...we have a legislated inequality that surely weakens the moral standpoint of the existing law.

In what way is there a "legislated inequality"? That's nonsense.
There's absolutely nothing to stop you campaigning to end male circumcision, and no reason why an appropriate law could not be introduced if there was sufficient support for the idea.


 
Posted : 01/02/2019 5:31 pm
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Male circumcision is done for several reasons including religious, cultural and health,

Okay, so let’s ban it except in cases that are for health reasons or that involve a consenting adult, like ear piercing and tattoos. Reasonable?

...according to the NHS there’s evidence to suggest that it reduces the risk of HIV infection.

Controversial evidence, at best.


 
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I don’t think there is much to discuss. It’s an abborant practice and this is great news. I wish circumcision was seen in the same light. Arguments about cultural and religious reasons are horse crap and even the HIV argument is dodgy...use a condom don’t chop your baby’s foreskin off! At least let them grow to adulthood and make the choice for themselves.


 
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it really doesn’t compare in it’s reasons for being done or the brutal effects that it has on the person.

I dont think anyone is suggesting thats not true.


 
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Is that 100-200 deaths per year in the US, or 100-200 deaths worlwide according to US sources? Because the former sounds like bollox - you say it is 'commonly thought' but I doubt that is a consensus view based on solid data - is it?

I mean I agree that infant male circumcision shouldn't be carried out for no reason like it is in the US, but don't think reference to FGM is the way to frame the debate - as pointed out male circumcision has some small health benefits in aggregate so how can that be a point of comparison with something medieval like FGM?


 
Posted : 01/02/2019 5:36 pm
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In what way is there a “legislated inequality”? That’s nonsense.

In that the legislature refers to females specifically, and makes no reference to male genital mutilation. I’m a little disappointed that that had to be spelled out.


 
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Male circumcision is done for several reasons including religious, cultural and health, according to the NHS there’s evidence to suggest that it reduces the risk of HIV infection.
Whereas fgm not only has no benefits for the woman, it’s brutally detrimental and harmful. It tends to be more specific to certain communities, such as the south east of Nigeria and its diaspora and is not unique to a specific religion

This is entirely correct.

And no, the whole reduction in infection risk for circumcised males is NOT dodgy. I know there are disagreements among medical practitioners, but I have two friends who had to be circumcised as adults due to infection. One of them - a Swede - was on a year long trip in Peru where he developed a non-STI under the foreskin. He was 19. They decided to circumcise, and he says it hurt like hell for a long time afterward.

It was a trend in North America to circumcise boys when I was born, so I, along with all my brothers, was done. And seeing what two of my own little guys have gone through with periodic infections makes me glad I was.

I am not an advocate FOR circumcision for boys, but I would object if people said that it should be outlawed. I think it should still be available as an option.


 
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I, along with all my brothers, was done. And seeing what two of my own little guys have gone through with periodic infections makes me glad I was.

I wasn’t done. I’ve never had an infection of note. My two boys weren’t done. They’ve never had an infection of note. Infant boys have, and will continue to die from having it done. It is unlikely that anybody has died from not having it done, except for in cases of medical necessity.

Strikes me that this archaic practice should be left to the the medical professionals and the consenting adults, and shouldn’t be being inflicted upon babies because of superstition and tribalism, by non medical professionals, without analgesia, any more.


 
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certainly concede that FGM can be much more traumatic than the male equivalent,

They're not equivalent.


 
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I certainly concede that FGM can be much more traumatic than the male equivalent

https://www.who.int/reproductivehealth/topics/fgm/overview/en/

Classification of female genital mutilation
Female genital mutilation has no known health benefits. On the contrary, it is known to be harmful to girls and women in many ways. First and foremost, it is painful and traumatic. The removal of or damage to healthy, normal genital tissue interferes with the natural functioning of the body and can cause several immediate and long-term health consequences. For example, FGM can cause excessive bleeding, swelling of genital tissue and problems urinating, and severe infections that can lead to shock and in some cases, death, as well as complications in childbirth and increased risk of perinatal deaths.

Eliminating female genital mutilation
cover interagency statement on fgm
An interagency statement - OHCHR, UNAIDS, UNDP, UNECA, UNESCO, UNFPA, UNHCR, UNICEF, UNIFEM, WHO

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Communities that practice female genital mutilation report a variety of sociocultural reasons for continuing with it. Seen from a human rights perspective, the practice reflects deep-rooted inequality between the sexes, and constitutes an extreme form of discrimination against women.

Female genital mutilation is nearly always carried out on minors and is therefore a violation of the rights of the child. The practice also violates the rights to health, security and physical integrity of the person, the right to be free from torture and cruel, inhuman or degrading treatment, and the right to life when the procedure results in death.

Classification of FGM (2007)
Female genital mutilation comprises all procedures involving partial or total removal of the external female genitalia or other injury to the female genital organs for non-medical reasons (WHO, UNICEF, UNFPA, 1997).

The WHO/UNICEF/UNFPA Joint Statement classified female genital mutilation into four types. Experience with using this classification over the past decade has revealed the need to sub-divide these categories to capture more closely the variety of procedures.

Although the extent of genital tissue cutting generally increases from Type I to III, there are exceptions. Severity and risk are closely related to the anatomical extent of the cutting, including both the type of FGM performed and the amount of tissue that is cut, which may vary between the types.

Type IV comprises a variety of practices that do not involve removal of tissue from the genitals. Though limited research has been carried out on Type IV FGM, in general, these forms appear to be less associated with harm or risk than the types I, II and III, that all involve removal of genital tissue.

Visual Reference and Learning Tool
Female Genital Mutilation: A Visual Reference and Learning Tool for Health Care Professionals
Obstetrics & Gynecology Published Ahead-of-Print - October 06, 2016
The complete typology with sub-divisions is described below:
Type I — Partial or total removal of the clitoris and/or the prepuce (clitoridectomy). When it is important to distinguish between the major variations of Type I mutilation, the following subdivisions are proposed:
Type Ia, removal of the clitoral hood or prepuce only;
Type Ib, removal of the clitoris with the prepuce.
Type II — Partial or total removal of the clitoris and the labia minora, with or without excision of the labia majora (excision). When it is important to distinguish between the major variations that have been documented, the following subdivisions are proposed:
Type IIa, removal of the labia minora only;
Type IIb, partial or total removal of the clitoris and the labia minora;
Type IIc, partial or total removal of the clitoris, the labia minora and the labia majora.
Type III — Narrowing of the vaginal orifice with creation of a covering seal by cutting and appositioning the labia minora and/or the labia majora, with or without excision of the clitoris (infibulation). When it is important to distinguish between variations in infibulations, the following subdivisions are proposed:
Type IIIa, removal and apposition of the labia minora;
Type IIIb, removal and apposition of the labia majora.
Type IV — All other harmful procedures to the female genitalia for non-medical purposes, for example: pricking, piercing, incising, scraping and cauterization.


 
Posted : 01/02/2019 6:47 pm
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In that the legislature refers to females specifically, and makes no reference to male genital mutilation. I’m a little disappointed that that had to be spelled out.

That's not legislated inequality.


 
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I think what's being missed here is that male circumcision does not reduce sexual pleasure, the foreskin serves no real purpose.
I understand fgm to include removal of the clitoris, this will remove the future adult woman from gaining pleasure from sexual touch and orgasm. It's absolutely barbaric of course, to deny a person that is to deny their humanity.
Not saying circumsion is wrong, just that's it different.


 
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My mate got circumcised at the age of 25 because his foreskin was too tight and he couldn't pull it back even erect. He was literally scared of having sex.

In that situation it makes sense.

For cultural or religious reasons, it doesn't, imo.


 
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I think what’s being missed here is that male circumcision does not reduce sexual pleasure, the foreskin serves no real purpose.

I'm told it does. Apparently the 'protection' of the foreskin keeps the gland sensitive so it all feels a bit nicer. Without it you lose sensitivity because the skins toughened up rubbing on your clothes etc.

I've never thought about it 'till today, but now I have I'm in favour of letting people choose for themselves at 18, or perhaps a bit older. (Same with FGM - it shouldn't be illegal for adults, if someone wants to have their body cut up for whatever reason let them.)


 
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And think of the hours of fun playing "how many Smarties can I stuff in my foreskin?" you will deny your child by having him circumcised....


 
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Actually; there’s many different types of FGM, all barbaric and clumsily justified by faith, custom and cultural reasons. It’s certainly true that most FGM is far more barbaric than what we understand to be a western style male circumcision. However, no one, repeat NO ONE tried to argue otherwise. The issue that I feel uncomfortable about with male circumcision is that it occurs, for either no (or dubious) medical reasons, and it happens to infants that CAN NOT CONSENT. We as a society are condoning the cutting of children’s genitals for reasons of custom, faith and tradition, so long as they are boys, and you know, it’s not too traumatic. It’s wrong. Plain wrong.

So far on this thread, we’ve had the ‘didnt do me any harm’ argument (as utilised by the practitioners of FGM, no doubt),
the ‘but FGM is really bad’ argument’ very true but that doesn’t justify male circumcision of infants by priests for no good reason FFS,
the ‘male circumcision is harmless’ argument; well yes if your lucky enough not to be one of the little ones that are accidentally castrated, suffer accidental penile amputation or die from blood loss I suppose that’s true (no wait; you’ve taken away flesh without consent, that’s not okay), and
the ‘it’s not done to inhibit sexual pleasure so it’s not so bad’ argument; well actually there’s a HEAP of evidence to suggest that’s a massive motivator for doing it, at least historically, and maybe still in some parts of the world.

Any I’ve missed?

My mate got circumcised at the age of 25 because his foreskin was too tight and he couldn’t pull it back even erect. He was literally scared of having sex.

In that situation it makes sense.

Even then there are much less traumatic alternatives. But the main thing is that your mate was an adult, and able to give informed consent for the procedure. Something denied to many millions of infants, male and female, in the name of barbaric faith and cultural custom.


 
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I think what’s being missed here is that male circumcision does not reduce sexual pleasure, the foreskin serves no real purpose.

By that logic removing a baby's big toenail is fine too. Maybe it is, but what's the harm in letting the baby grow up and choose for itself?


 
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I think what’s being missed here is that male circumcision does not reduce sexual pleasure, the foreskin serves no real purpose.

It apparently does. Mate had his done in his early 30s after a ripped banjo string. He was very sensitive for a while afterwards and would arrive too soon as a result. This wore off eventually and then he became very desensitised compared to before circumcision.


 
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Whereas fgm not only has no benefits for the woman, it’s brutally detrimental and harmful.

Whilst I certainly and wholeheartedly agree, others don’t. The female gynaecologist Sitt al-Banaat Khaalid, for example, states;

It takes away excessive libido from women

It prevents unpleasant odours which result from foul secretions beneath the prepuce.

It reduces the incidence of urinary tract infections

It reduces the incidence of infections of the reproductive system.

I’m perfectly happy to call bollocks on the above, but it sounds awfully like some of the justifications for male circumcision to me...

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I think what’s being missed here is that male circumcision does not reduce sexual pleasure, the foreskin serves no real purpose.

Of course it serves a puropse, it acts like a bearing for one thing which improves sex for both parties and it protects the bellend for another.

http://sciencenordic.com/male-circumcision-leads-bad-sex-life


 
Posted : 01/02/2019 9:41 pm
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It appears that a pretty small percentage of UK males are now circumcised as children (under 5%?) and the numbers are falling, so I don't think you'll find much opposition to the idea that it is unnecessary and undesirable to chop bits off healthy kids.
Your original question was "...why it is specifically female GM in the law, and whether that is really defensible in this day and age."?
The original legislation was passed in 1985. I would assume that if there had been an attempt to introduce legalisation that banned all forms of genital mutilation for both genders, there is no way it would have passed (because of the greater numbers of people who favour male circumcision for long established cultural and religious reasons). So you would have ended up with no protection against FGM for women.
As I said, there's nothing to prevent the introduction of legislation against male circumcision, but I think it would be an uphill battle. I don't think any country has completely banned it.


 
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I wonder which type of FGM that gynaecologist is talking about, because it's definitley not this.

BBC Anatomy of female genital mutilation

In its most severe form, after removing the sensitive clitoris, the genitals are cut and stitched closed so that the woman cannot have or enjoy sex.

A tiny piece of wood or reed is inserted to leave a small opening for the necessary flow of urine, and monthly blood when she comes of age (most FGM is carried out on infants or young girls before they reach puberty).

When she is ready to have sex and a baby, she is "unstitched" - and then sewn back up again after to keep her what is described by proponents as "hygienic, chaste and faithful".


 
Posted : 01/02/2019 9:44 pm
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I wonder which type of FGM that gynaecologist is talking about, because it’s definitley not this.

No shit. She’s a loony, if she even exists. But her points are analogous with those made defending male infant circumcision.


 
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I think it should still be available as an option.

Whereas fgm not only has no benefits for the woman, it’s brutally detrimental and harmful.

If we are defending circumcision because.....

Clitoridectomy can have perfectly valid medical applications as well.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Clitoridectomy

I have a low tolerance for stupid bullshit, so I find myself in agreement with the OP.


 
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30,000 nerve endings are severed/removed with circumcision (source: a neurologist on Woman's Hour, R4). Who says it doesn't reduce pleasure? American puritans inflicted it on their boys for precisely that reason. Religion poisons everything.


 
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I’ve had this conversation a few times in the past. I’m wholeheartedly with the OP. In the USA circumcision is carried out, in the main, purely for aesthetic reasons. And this is done to infant boys, without their consent. So this is simply cosmetic surgery except in circumstances where it is deemed medically necessary. What would be the thoughts if infant girls were given, say, lip fillers or botox? Still ok?


 
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I suppose it was inevitable that stwers would try to make this issue about men.


 
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It apparently does. Mate had his done in his early 30s after a ripped banjo string. He was very sensitive for a while afterwards and would arrive too soon as a result. This wore off eventually and then he became very desensitised compared to before circumcision.

Why is it always a mate ? A mate does this, A mate says that, my mate can do wheelies ner, ner,nernernerr !

Maybe my lack of any useful input is due to my lack of mates.


 
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I totally agree with OP and most here. In a world of soap and hygiene there's np need to be hacking at the genitals of infants of any gender.


 
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I suppose it was inevitable that stwers would try to make this issue about men.

It’s not. It’s really not. It’s about children of any gender having the right to not have lumps of flesh chopped off them for reasons of superstition and ancient custom. I think that’s fair enough. The only place that gender comes into it is in that I pondered whether it’s right that the legislation was gender specific, when it probably should apply to children across the board. I was also interested in challenging accepted opinion, because I don’t think that ‘because we’ve always done it that way’ is ever an excuse for assaulting an infant.


 
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I totally agree with OP and most here. In a world of soap and hygiene there’s np need to be hacking at the genitals of infants of any gender.

absolutely

When she is ready to have sex and a baby, she is “unstitched” – and then sewn back up again after to keep her what is described by proponents as “hygienic, chaste and faithful”.

'presumably they were stitched up to stop the rapists.So what is it with all these people that believe shes asking to be raped if she shows her face,why do they think every man loses control of himself if a female is present?
So who are all these beasts?
They lock their women away so you can never see them,in case you get so excited that you are forced to rape them. They expect you to live in a world without any normal female interaction?


 
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I suppose it was inevitable that stwers would try to make this issue about men.

It’s not. It’s really not.

But that's how you're coming across. There's a reason world health organisations stopped using the term 'female circumcision'. Use of the word “mutilation” emphasizes the gravity of the act and reinforces that the practice is a violation of women's and girls’ basic human rights.


 
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It’s about children of any gender having the right to not have lumps of flesh chopped off them for reasons of superstition and ancient custom

The conviction was for FGM. If you wanted to talk about something else then you should've used a different thread title.


 
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I know a lot of you are desperately trying to out do each other in search of moral superiority but when it gets to*:

It’s about children of any gender having the right to not have lumps of flesh chopped off them

And discussions about how we can't possibly be as good in bed.

It's actually quite insulting.

*Not the only one on this thread, just an explicit example.


 
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I'm very much against ritual circumcision. It's pointless, barbaric and done without consent. The sooner it's outlawed the better.

However.

Comparing male circumcision with FGM is like, oh I don't know, comparing piercing your ears vs lopping them off. The two things are not directly comparable at all and to suggest otherwise is trivialising the abject horror of FGM. The equivalent to FGM in males would be having your bell end removed as an infant.

I have two friends who had to be circumcised as adults due to infection. One of them – a Swede – was on a year long trip in Peru where he developed a non-STI under the foreskin. He was 19. They decided to circumcise, and he says it hurt like hell for a long time afterward.

Sure, but that's a different scenario. You know two friends who were done as adults (with their consent), how many do you know who weren't? There is a risk of complications sure, I know someone who had it done as an adult because his foreskin was too tight (or as he describes it, his knob was too big), but the likelihood of such things is very rare.

What else should we be doing to infants to lower risks, lopping off one of their bollocks to halve the risk of testicular cancer maybe? Routine appendectomy?

It appears that a pretty small percentage of UK males are now circumcised as children (under 5%?) and the numbers are falling,

It's very much a North American thing. I looked into this in depth several years ago now when an American friend was talking to me about making this decision for her son (and I got quite cross about it). It may have changed now, but back then in the US something like 90-95% percent of baby boys were circumcised, in the rest of the developed Western world it's more or less the same figure who weren't. In the end she decided to have it done, reasoning that she didn't want him to be teased for looking different from the other boys.

It's actually quite bizarre. The foreskin has been almost revisioned out, if you look at a typical anatomy book of the sort of thing used in schools it's usually not even mentioned. I read a fascinating article a while back, I'll see if I can find it.


 
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Here. It's a long read but worth persevering.

http://www.greenmedinfo.com/blog/foreskin-why-it-such-secret-north-america


 
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Why is it always a mate ? A mate does this, A mate says that, my mate can do wheelies ner, ner,nernernerr !

Maybe because random strangers are reluctant to divulge such personal information. It's not my fault if you are Billy no mates.


 
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she didn’t want him to be teased for looking different from the other boys.

Because we all remember those days spent in the playground comparing our willies.


 
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Did your school not have showers then?


 
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That’s a great article, @Cougar. I wish I had have seen it before. I have just shared it with MrsSR.


 
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Yeah, really interesting I thought.


 
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BTW,

I am not an advocate FOR circumcision for boys, but I would object if people said that it should be outlawed. I think it should still be available as an option.

A concern in the US is that it's considered so routine that there's cases of doctors doing it without even asking the parents because it's just What You Do. I've read a few tales of anti-circumcision parents being very cross about this.

I disagree that it should be an option for no reason, but unfortunately banning anything is problematic if people are determined enough. You'll just end up with back-street surgeries and DIY jobs which is a far worse scenario (see what happens in places where abortion is banned). I do believe that there should be tighter control around it at least, it should be discouraged and be something parents actively have to request. Enforcing having it done by someone who is actually surgically qualified rather than exercising religious privilege would be a start.


 
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Did your school not have showers then?

Yes, but I don't recall us standing there comparing our cocks.

Basically, I think her fears were a bit of a moot point.


 
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Yes, but I don’t recall us standing there comparing our cocks.

Kinda hard not to notice though, and it only takes one kid to start taking the piss before they're all at it.

Anyway, I'm only passing on what she said, I wasn't agreeing with it.


 
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Maybe because random strangers are reluctant to divulge such personal information.

Have you actually asked random strangers their experiences or lack of regarding male circumcision ?


 
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Have you actually asked random strangers their experiences or lack of regarding male circumcision ?

Sure. Who hasn't?


 
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You’ll just end up with back-street surgeries and DIY jobs which is a far worse scenario (see what happens in places where abortion is banned).

Better legalise FGM then....

You're just rationalising contradictions in your own logic.


 
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It was a trend in North America to circumcise boys when I was born, so I, along with all my brothers, was done. And seeing what two of my own little guys have gone through with periodic infections makes me glad I was.

Where are you guys putting your penises?


 
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Better legalise FGM then….

You’re just rationalising contradictions in your own logic.

I think that the point is that male circumcision is (rightly or wrongly) widely accepted as acceptable in our society, whilst FGM isn’t. It’s legislation by moral pragmatism rather than moral absolutism, which I expect most legislation has to be in order to pass.

Cougar, thanks for the article, it made interesting reading. Although, it does seem to seek to somewhat narrow the gap between FGM and male circumcision don’t you think? Possibly more than I would want or dare to, for fear of being accused of GeeTeeism, which I think I’m a whisker away from being accused of anyway.


 
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I think that the point is that male circumcision is (rightly or wrongly) widely accepted as acceptable in our society, whilst FGM isn’t. It’s legislation by moral pragmatism rather than moral absolutism.

Well, that and they're not the same.

Saying X is accepted and legal and Y isn't, it doesn't then follow that Y should be legal or X should be illegal just because there's very very tenuous link.

Tobacco and weed
Alcohol and cocaine
Knives and guns


 
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Why is it always a mate ? A mate does this, A mate says that, my mate can do wheelies ner, ner,nernernerr !

Maybe my lack of any useful input is due to my lack of mates.

Ok here goes. I was circumcised when I was about 48-49 as I was having probs with a tight foreskin, used to get really sore for no apparent reason. The girls loved me cos I could go forever but in reality it wasn't good for me. I'm pleased I had it done & there's definately been no loss of sensitivity since! (14 yrs ago)
HTH.


 
Posted : 02/02/2019 9:43 pm
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Well, that and they’re not the same... ...there’s very very tenuous link.

A ‘very very tenuous link’? Come on.

Firstly; I need to emphasise that I am not trying to lessen or take away that FGM is cruel, barbaric and heinous practice. It absolutely is, and I’m glad that there is a specific law against it, and even more so that it has now been successfully brought to bear. Took long enough, sadly.

There are differences between FGM and male circumcision I agree. They are anatomical, of severity of impact on the victim, and of societal blindness to an accepted convention. However the similarities are indisputable, and cannot be described as tenuous; the arguments that can be found both for and against both are remarkably similar, if if made by very different groups of people. The fundamental fact that they are both removing human tissue without the consent of the human in the case of the practice on infants. The fact that they are both advocated largely for custom and religious reasons rather than medical reasons. The fact that they have both been historically justified for reasons of controlling or reducing sexual response. The fact that the advocates of both practices tend to be those who have ‘had it done to them and it didn’t do them any harm’. I could go on.

Please, read Cougar’s linked article. It’s a lot more of a big deal and a lot more traumatic than it’s proponents would have us believe, and than I realised. Just because we happen to accept it as mostly normal in our society, shouldn’t mean that it it remains unchallenged in practice.

Tobacco and weed
Alcohol and cocaine
Knives and guns

How about;
Stealing from a bank and stealing from a charity
Hitting a bloke or hitting a woman
Defrauding your employer or defrauding the taxman

Similar/same crimes, linked more than tenuously. Variations of severity, impact on the victim and societal willingness to turn a blind eye.

An article that expresses my position more eloquently than I could hope to.


 
Posted : 02/02/2019 10:02 pm
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Cosmetic circumcision is banned In Australia for kids and Iceland has proposed it. Religious freedom should not be extend to non-consensual cosmetic surgery. Sooner it is banned the better.


 
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V8ninety, are you saying any of that from personal experience or just campaigning on behalf of "a mate" as someone on the last page put it.

I can't comment on the impacts of fgm from personal experience, they sound pretty horrific. But circumcision, ive had more traumatic haircuts. So based on being 50% more qualified than most to draw a conclusion, they're not the same.

Taken to absurdity, where do you stand on non medical haircuts for under 18's? Sure if the kids got nits or its getting trapped in stuff, but what about just getting a haircut to meet the social norms of your peer group?


 
Posted : 02/02/2019 11:27 pm
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Cosmetic circumcision is banned In Australia for kids

It's banned in public hospitals, but not private hospitals.
I think Iceland is the first country to consider a total ban.


 
Posted : 02/02/2019 11:35 pm
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But circumcision, ive had more traumatic haircuts.

How many nerve endings do you have in your hair? And it must be troublesome having your foreskin resnipped every 8-10 weeks. I’m sorry but that argument doesn’t stand up (so to speak 😉)

they’re not the same.

I have not said that they are. See my previous post.

My interest (I’m not campaigning, I’m just discussing it on a MTB forum) is not personal. As my OP stated, the recent news coverage of FGM got me thinking about what I thought of as a legislated inequality (I was told that was an incorrect assertion, and IANAL, but no reasons were given). My interest is mainly of challenging accepted cultural norms; I tend to think that when society’s position seems to be ‘because it’s always been that way’ or ‘because god says so’, it’s healthy to always ask ‘but why?’.

I haven’t heard a coherent argument in favour of male circumcision of infants for cultural, religious or superstitious reasons yet, but I’m still listening. I do tend to think that the medical principle of informed consent (and if not possible as in the case of an infant, acting in their best interests, doing the least harm possible) should apply, whether the individual be male or female, and I remain interested as to why others disagree.


 
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The only reason ritual male circumcision is lawful is because people would continue to practise it in their own home, in unhygienic conditions.
Ritual circumcision isn't done on the NHS (although some hospitals will do it for free to prevent the risk of it being done at home), Dr's can refuse to consent and it requires the agreement of both parents in writing.
The boy can sue his parents/guardian under the human rights act when he's old enough to think WTF have they done


 
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However the similarities are indisputable, and cannot be described as tenuous

You're both arguing extremes of the same argument.

There is a similarity in so far as they're both non-consensual and unnecessary surgery. However the severity of the procedures is vastly different. Consider that we've mostly stopped calling it "female circumcision" and now refer to it as "female genital mutilation." Think about that for a moment.

Genital.

Mutilation.

Two words that should never be in the same sentence. Two infants are put in for unnecessary cosmetic surgery; one has his little finger amputated, the other has her arm cut off. Are they comparable?

I haven’t heard a coherent argument in favour of male circumcision of infants for cultural, religious or superstitious reasons yet, but I’m still listening.

Speculating: there was perhaps an argument for it for hygiene reasons back in the Middle East where washing facilities weren't great and sandstorms were likely. In the modern day it's probably gained popularity to discourage masturbation.


 
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I have not said that they are. See my previous post.

But you keep talking about them in the same breath.

Can you just stop.


 
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Two infants are put in for unnecessary cosmetic surgery; one has his little finger amputated, the other has her arm cut off. Are they comparable?

And this somehow means the former should be legal, because?


 
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Well, it doesn't, but that wasn't really my point.

In an ideal world I'd like to see it banned and for the practice to stop, at least until the victims are of an age of consent. However prohibition has proved time and again not to work particularly well so whether this would be a good idea in practice or not I honestly don't know.


 
Posted : 03/02/2019 5:13 pm
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Two infants are put in for unnecessary cosmetic surgery; one has his little finger amputated, the other has her arm cut off. Are they comparable?

I’m slightly frustrated at my own apparent inability to express the fact that I completely agree in regard to the differences of severity. However, the article you previously posted has moved my opinion towards thinking that the two procedures are comparable; not the same, but they have parallels that are important, specifically in regard to consent, and in regard to the right of an infant not to be assaulted. I don’t think that ‘it’s only a little bit of skin’ or we’ve always done it’ or ‘God tells us to’ should be adequate defense to what should be an offence against the person. Yet they apparently continue to be so long as the victim is male.

In regards to FGM being termed as such, that is only in our society. You’ll find that in different societies there are people arguing eloquently in support of continued FGM. Also, there are apparently a whole range of degrees of FGM, ranging from ‘just a tiny ritual knick’ to the already aforementioned horrors. The least invasive and often supported forms involve a small strip of skin being cut from the clitoral hood, leaving all other structures unaffected. This is still illegal in the U.K. (and rightly so, for all of the same reasons that I have previously argued) but is actually less traumatic and involves less tissue loss than legal male circumcision. How is that difference due to infant gender morally defensible?

The only reason ritual male circumcision is lawful is because people would continue to practise it in their own home, in unhygienic conditions.

I accept that that is probably true, but it could (and probably is) also be used as an argument to keep FGM (in its mildest forms at least) legal.

prohibition has proved time and again not to work particularly well so whether this would be a good idea in practice or not I honestly don’t know.

But FGM, in all its forms, IS prohibited, and yes it does still occur in back streets. Is this a good argument for it not to be prohibited?


 
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Yeah... no.

There may well be degrees of mutilation but it would be prudent to ascertain which forms are more prevalent before drawing any sort of conclusions as to whether "a little bit of mutilation" should be acceptable (be that legally, socially or morally).

I guess what needs to change isn't the law but rather cultural attitudes. The only way you're effectively going to change behaviour is stopping people from wanting to do it.


 
Posted : 03/02/2019 5:20 pm
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I don’t think that ‘a little bit of mutilation’ of an infant should ever be acceptable, male or female. And for there to be a difference due to gender is just weird, and archaic. I think (hope?) that in one hundred years society will look back on all forms of ritual genital mutilation of babies as unenlightened savagery.

I guess what needs to change isn’t the law but rather cultural attitudes...

I am sure you are right, but the same could be said for FGM, and banning it has been an important step in that direction I think. If the law condones a practice, arguments against it are always going to be weakened.


 
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Vagina surgery 'sought by girls as young as nine'

Girls as young as nine are seeking surgery on their genitals because they are distressed by its appearance, the Victoria Derbyshire show has been told.

Dr Naomi Crouch, a leading adolescent gynaecologist, said she was concerned GPs were referring rising numbers of young girls who wanted an operation.

Labiaplasty, as the surgery is known, involves the lips of the vagina being shortened or reshaped.

The NHS says it should not be carried out on girls before they turn 18.

In 2015-16, more than 200 girls under 18 had labiaplasty on the NHS. More than 150 of the girls were under 15.

Some experts fear that pornography and images viewed through social media are leading young girls to have unrealistic perceptions of how their genitals should look.


 
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FFS! That's messed up, what the hell have we done to this generation?


 
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It's not a generational thing. We've been telling girls that they aren't good enough and need to be thinner / fatter / taller / shorter / whiter / darker for about as long as we've had girls. Cosmetic flange surgery is just another spoke in a way way larger wheel.


 
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(And I suppose the other side of the coin for boys there is, "is it big enough?")


 
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I’m interested to see what sort ofsentence this barbarian will receive.


 
Posted : 04/02/2019 7:20 am
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up to 14 years.


 
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Outrage is a hugely over-used term in this social media age, but I'm outraged about this case. Delighted the first conviction has been secured. I'm not pro or against male circumcision really, indeed until I trvelled to the US, I was unaware it was standard practice there and not here. One of my nephews was circumcised on religous grounds, the one thing my non-practicing sister agreed to. I'm aware of the health debates too (and would have probably benefitted myself in hindsight). It just wasn't a thing.

But the cases of FGM such as this one are in a completely different league. Outrage is the right term. A hefty sentence can be expected.


 
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