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were you working through the pandemic

Yes, although it was my partner picking up the childcare or we had to tag team it. I was working for a very demanding digital agency with still crazy deadlines so couldn't really drop things to look after kids


 
Posted : 12/11/2024 10:56 am
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 it’s the one and only reason that productivity was down during the pandemic.

I dont recall anyone saying it was the only reason. but it was visibly obvious within our organisation that individuals productivity was down comparative to their peers doing the same job function without kids - and not for lack of them trying, But working round the kids at odd hours and playing catch up into the night was not a viable solution either.


 
Posted : 12/11/2024 11:00 am
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I dont recall anyone saying it was the only reason.

It was the thing I quoted in the post you objected to.


 
Posted : 12/11/2024 11:02 am
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ah ok so it was inferred as oppose to written.


 
Posted : 12/11/2024 11:11 am
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We all muddled through lockdown but productivity was down in my team due to the lack of childcare.

Seems pretty "written" to me.


 
Posted : 12/11/2024 11:14 am
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I don't think anyone ever said it was the one and only reason, did they? I must have missed that post.


 
Posted : 12/11/2024 11:17 am
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I would have had no comment had the phrasing been "..., in part due to the lack of childcare"


 
Posted : 12/11/2024 11:17 am
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Someone’s never had to look after. A toddler long term and it shows.

It was a question not a statement. Can they still do the job? "No" is a viable answer.

There's three in the house right now. I get shouted to come monitor them if my partner needs a wee. I know it's hard work, I can't get away fast enough. If I was sole carer even for one then my work would be impacted, but I'd have the luxury of offsetting that by working later. YMMV.

It’s not the same, that’s the issue with plenty of roles. The staff in question are on the phones. We have opening hours people call us, wiping arses and not answering the phone is a problem. Sitting at the phone when we’re shut not actually speaking to people is a problem.

I 100% agree with you here, I said this earlier I think. Some roles are time-sensitive such as answering phones during regular office hours, some are not.

But, if there's two adults at home, or child care is in place, is this not a prefect candidate for a home-working role? The question from an employer shouldn't be "do you have children?" (and you'd probably be on shaky legal ground there were you to ask) but rather as I said, "can you do your job just as effectively?"


 
Posted : 12/11/2024 2:54 pm
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No-one ever went into an office because they wanted a cuddle. Well, almost no-one. ?

@Cougar2 - I think I would strongly dispute this - both literally and metaphorically.  Literally - been a few threads on here over the years where young people are saying "how do you meet people without using dating apps".  But metaphorically when I talk to my team what they miss most about the office is the social interaction, not just work but also pleasure, as simple as going to lunch with people and a chat, even meeting managers to talk through problems or concerns.  We've not lost many people since WFH became the norm but those we have I've felt "building up" to it because they had internal project, leadership or other challenges where actually a pint/coffee and a chat or even a hug would have avoided it.

Pre-covid it would not have been at all unusual for one of our nights out to end in entirely plutonic "hugs and goodbyes".  Now, even if we do meet up that doesn't happen, I miss it, not in some weird letching way (hugs were just as likely to be between hetrosexual colleagues of the same gender as any other combo) but just being in a team that was that close rather than functional drones sitting in front of laptop screens.


 
Posted : 12/11/2024 5:07 pm
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when I talk to my team what they miss most about the office is the social interaction, not just work but also pleasure, as simple as going to lunch with people and a chat, even meeting managers to talk through problems or concerns.

That sounds ****ing awful to me ? I'm pretty old fashioned and compartmentalised when it comes to work and social life. I like the people I work with but not to the degree where I'd miss them if I got the opportunity to work remotely full time.


 
Posted : 12/11/2024 5:57 pm
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Respectfully disagree.

I only started my “proper” engineering career about 16 months ago.

So you've not been accountable for the design of a large complex multidisciplinary system then? Or the development and mentoring of multiple early career employees and seen how their behaviours can be shaped by the interactions in the office?

Once you have then I'd be keen to here how you found trying to do that with the team rarely, if ever, seeing eachother in person.


 
Posted : 12/11/2024 6:50 pm
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Im with the funkmaster on this.


 
Posted : 12/11/2024 7:32 pm
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entirely plutonic “hugs

Remote and icy?


 
Posted : 12/11/2024 7:38 pm
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And smelling of methane


 
Posted : 12/11/2024 7:44 pm
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It also means I get more done as the two hours a day I’d spend commuting can be spent on working if needed. If I was forced in to the office then certain things just wouldn’t get done as I’d strictly stick to my hours.

Agree again.

When I'm office based I will be looking to leave 5pm sharp to avoid as much traffic as possible. Leaving at 5:10pm put an extra 15-20 minutes on my already 50 minute commute.

So things get delayed from around 4:30pm, whereas WFH I will often still be working until 5:30pm.


 
Posted : 12/11/2024 7:45 pm
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That sounds **** awful to me ? I’m pretty old fashioned and compartmentalised when it comes to work and social life. I like the people I work with but not to the degree where I’d miss them if I got the opportunity to work remotely full time.

Im just back from a holiday with 4 former colleagues I last worked with 6 years ago. Some folk do form really strong bonds with colleagues, some don't.

Personally, the strong relationships I've built with colleagues over the years, both professionally and personally, has opened multiple doors for me when it came to career progression, so I've always seen the value in it.


 
Posted : 12/11/2024 8:04 pm
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I like the people I work with but not to the degree where I’d miss them if I got the opportunity to work remotely full time.

over the years I’ve come to regard you as people I met…


 
Posted : 12/11/2024 8:36 pm
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Seems pretty “written” to me.

Sigh. It was the case that most members of the team with young children were unable to work their contracted hours because of childcare. Me included. The idea that someone can wfh and look after a baby is for the birds.


 
Posted : 12/11/2024 8:56 pm
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nonsense

Ok maybe.

A young family makes most people a bit less productive WFH or commuting, probably more the former but on the other hand WFH has let us keep a couple of incredibly good members of my team we'd otherwise have lost post mat leave

We're meant to do 60% office which I do,, but don't insist on beyond show your face enough that everyone knows you who needs to and get seen a bit. Unless there's a specific deal.


 
Posted : 12/11/2024 10:08 pm
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Sigh. It was the case that most members of the team with young children were unable to work their contracted hours because of childcare. Me included. The idea that someone can wfh and look after a baby is for the birds.

So... pretty much as written and interpreted then? No inference (as trail_rat suggested) required.


 
Posted : 12/11/2024 10:19 pm
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fwiw I have no particular horse in this race. No children, nor plans to have any, so, if anything, it suits my narrative better if all/any wfh productivity impairments could be put down to parenting.


 
Posted : 12/11/2024 10:28 pm
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Funkmaster & TJ - do you want to be be treated by your employer as automatons or have them understand you as an individual.  Have you never had a work related problem (technical or human) that was resolved by sitting down with your boss and discussing it?  Have you never gained some insight into other people’s lives from a chat whilst waiting for a meeting to start, the kettle to boil, etc?  That small talk can actually be triggers for solving problems, understanding people’s personalities, etc.    when I worked in an office I could tell you the names of all my staff’s partners, children, pets.  I could tell you roughly where they lived how they commute, what they were doing after work etc,  now I can tell you what is on the wall in their home office.  I’m not hankering after going back to the office but the grass is not always greener.  There have been weeks where I have not left the house at all.


 
Posted : 13/11/2024 12:19 am
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I had good work relationships with folk at work.  They were not my friends, I kept my work and home life completely separate.  Work is work and home is home and never mix the two.  All that info about colleagues.  None of mine would know that about me, I knew none of that about them, I find that borderline creepy

Very different working environments tho


 
Posted : 13/11/2024 6:47 am
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There have been weeks where I have not left the house at all..

I genuinely miss lockdown for this reason. Just me, Mrs F, the kids and the dog. Finish work, walk downstairs and get to spend quality time with my family. I'd take that over listening to Geoff from accounts talking about football.

I have great working relationships with the people I work with. They know some stuff about me and vice versa. I'll go out for a drink after work occasionally. I'm doing so tonight actually as some people are leaving.

I'll talk through work related problems with my boss and colleagues because it is part of work. I'd never discuss personal issues in any real detail. I've seen what can happen as a result at several places I've worked at.


 
Posted : 13/11/2024 7:06 am
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It's as if every person is an individual and blanket decrees about working patterns won't suit everyone....


 
Posted : 13/11/2024 7:23 am
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So… pretty much as written and interpreted then? No inference (as trail_rat suggested) required.s

He still hasn't said all of his teams productivity dip has been down to that but he has quantified why he knows there was a productivity dip attributed to that single factor.

But as it suits your narrative as you have written. I can see why you are forcing that connection


 
Posted : 13/11/2024 7:27 am
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It’s as if every person is an individual and blanket decrees about working patterns won’t suit everyone….

Bingo!


 
Posted : 13/11/2024 7:48 am
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Not WFH exactly, but three remote sites that used to have monthly in-person meetings, now due to Teams and budget caps for travel, done via Teams. There is a definite silo mentality creeping in, and no longer feels like a team. So in-person has some benefits IMHO.


 
Posted : 13/11/2024 8:54 am
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From my experience the people who campaign for working from home are the lazy work shy ones who will literally try anything to avoid doing any work. Seems there's a lot more of these than I thought.

Its unhealthy in many ways and is another dreadful hangover from over zealous draconian covid "rules" where some people obviously had it way too good and don't want to go back to actually having to do some work.

Not many if any will admit it but this is what wanting to work from home boils down to. No believes you, especially when you say things like "i get more done when I work from home". Big red flag right there.


 
Posted : 13/11/2024 9:05 am
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There's some lazy workshy folk going under the radar in offices as well.

I'm wfh today - waiting for someone on my team to respond to my Teams request on how to resolve a problem, may take a reminder later to get a response.

At least when I was in the office yesterday and needed help the response was immediate. Even if it was still "not got a clue mate"


 
Posted : 13/11/2024 9:18 am
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But as it suits your narrative as you have written. I can see why you are forcing that connection

Um, no? That's the opposite of what I said.


 
Posted : 13/11/2024 9:19 am
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The "we know what's best for your social life and want to control it on your behalf" argument is uncomfortably dystopian for me. What next, are you going to arrange the seating plan on the basis of which friends you think I should make? Am I going to be overlooked for promotion if I don't want to spend six hours every day smiling and nodding as tony from operations drones on about his personal life while distracting everyone from their work?

If people want to chose lines of work and workplaces on the basis of the potential for social interaction then that's obviously fine, but mandating office attendance for that reason feels very weak.


 
Posted : 13/11/2024 9:39 am
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Just wanted to add it has been an interesting thread to read and refreshing that for the most part people are willing to try and understand the pros and cons of both sides of the argument.


 
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From my experience the people who campaign for working from home are the lazy work shy ones who will literally try anything to avoid doing any work. Seems there’s a lot more of these than I thought.

Its unhealthy in many ways and is another dreadful hangover from over zealous draconian covid “rules” where some people obviously had it way too good and don’t want to go back to actually having to do some work.

Not many if any will admit it but this is what wanting to work from home boils down to. No believes you, especially when you say things like “i get more done when I work from home”. Big red flag right there.

That's in the running for biggest load of bollocks I've ever read on here and there is some stiff competition for that honour. Out of curiosity, what do you do for a living? What's unhealthy about it exactly? Why do you think it is lazy/workshy people?

I definitely get more done when working from home. Especially when it comes to writing reports or those shitty tasks that you always put off. Music on, head down, no distractions and get shit done. Trying to do that at work (office or warehouse) ain't happening. That's why hybrid works well for me. Add in the fact that I'm not commuting two hours each day and can have an extra hour in bed and I'm more refreshed and relaxed when starting work too.


 
Posted : 13/11/2024 8:33 pm
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Clearly a troll post. 3/10 .. poor effort


 
Posted : 13/11/2024 8:49 pm
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Um, no? That’s the opposite of what I said.

You do seem quite keen on continuing an argument based on a false premise. I guess you have plenty of time while working from home.


 
Posted : 13/11/2024 9:26 pm
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No-one ever went into an office because they wanted a cuddle. Well, almost no-one.

@Cougar2 – I think I would strongly dispute this – both literally and metaphorically.

What I meant was, few people go into an office solely because they want a cuddle. They go in primarily to provide a service in exchange for a salary.

Riddle me this. How many former work colleagues are you still in regular contact with?

I was with the same company for 16 years and was well-liked (I know, I was shocked too), but everyone leaving a company always says the same thing, "keep in touch, here's my personal email address" and are never heard from again. Despite having left several months prior I got invited to the informal Christmas do last year, but beyond that and impersonal 'likes' on Facebook I can probably count former colleagues who are friends without running out of fingers.


 
Posted : 13/11/2024 11:52 pm
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There is a definite silo mentality creeping in, and no longer feels like a team.

The problem I hit here was, for a while I was a Northerner in a team of Southerners. It wasn't an issue that I was remote from my team, rather it was an issue because I was the only remote worker. We'd have Teams meetings specifically booked to thrash out jobs for the week / month, but they'd all sorted it out over the brew round ahead of the call so I got left with the scraps no-one else wanted.

From my experience the people who campaign for working from home are the lazy work shy ones who will literally try anything to avoid doing any work. Seems there’s a lot more of these than I thought.

I'm quite bad at keeping track of usernames. But sometimes a post appears which gives me pause to look back at who posted it. When I do I'm rarely shocked.


 
Posted : 13/11/2024 11:54 pm
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In the 21st century is it really reasonable to still insist that people endure this?

Really depends on the Job TBH, I can't do my job with less than about 80% presence, my missus can do hers 100% from home but they have started insisting on whole team attendance on Mondays, which she keeps swerving and is increasingly getting bollocked for.

The thing is I don't think I would enjoy 90 - 100% WFH, at the same time presentisim (a very specific form of bullying IMO) can seriously erode morale. People need to want to be in a work place, create the right environment/culture with a lack of judgement around how much time is spent in the office/at home and people will be able to strike the balance and work efficiently (IME/IMO)...


 
Posted : 14/11/2024 12:09 am
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I was with the same company for 16 years and was well-liked (I know, I was shocked too), but everyone leaving a company always says the same thing, “keep in touch, here’s my personal email address” and are never heard from again.

Oh. Maybe it's something you said... or didn't say?

I (and i'm sure many others here) have got lifetime friends that I met at workplaces i've left in previous decades. In one case, one of my best friends now I met on recommendation of a colleague I worked with (remotely - he was in a different office)15 years ago.


 
Posted : 14/11/2024 1:21 am
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This might sound weird, but I work better when I have people around me, even if I’m wearing headphones to block them out. I took a desk in one of those work hub places when I was self-employed because I was so much more productive. There’s something about going to a different place where all I do is work.

My current full-time employer is one of those 100% at the office outliers. The CEO says he wants us talking and collaborating face to face, as in his opinion that’s what makes a company productive and sustainable. In reality we do about 80%, as there’s still flexibility and a lot of people spend a day a week at home. We’re a manufacturing (hardware and software) business.

Obviously experienced staff work well from home, but I can see how the younger, less experienced ones are developing much quicker now than they did during covid times. The ones who started then still talk about how they struggled at home.

But the other thing I think about is that a company that encourages working from home is in a stronger position to hire their workforce wherever it’s cheapest, so I do see greater job security in my company’s approach.


 
Posted : 14/11/2024 8:07 am
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If the work environment is big enough, then i guess by the law of averages its quite normal to find someone you have enough in common with to actually become friends with.

My former work environment was 30:2 in favour of the opposite sex; the majority 25yrs older. The only other male was very neuro-divergent, and probably a nice guy if you could get more than a grunt out of him .. which I failed to do in the 3 years I was there. There were a handful I could have a giggle with but nobody I would want to give up my private time for.

I always find those people in work who try arranging work nights out every month or so a bit sad, you just know they stalking social media every evening to add you to their fake friends list.


 
Posted : 14/11/2024 8:09 am
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Benos hits the spot with me up there. We might be a minority but at least we're not alone!


 
Posted : 14/11/2024 8:12 am
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I dont think you're in a minority, and what you say seems perfectly reasonable if your wired that way.

But were not all wired that way, and you lot do my head in 😉  Fortunately for me, my employer is good enough to have honest conversations with and flexible enough that accommodations are made if a work pattern/set up isnt going to result in a content and productive employee.


 
Posted : 14/11/2024 8:19 am
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Over the past few years I've worked in a few different offices for extended periods of time and noticed definite geographic differences in the level of social interaction amongst colleagues. This is across teams of 10-20 folk

18 years working in Glasgow - party time. Everyone gets on, constant social stuff outside work

6 months in Farnborough - zero social interaction. Very much turn up, do the job, leave at 5pm. They didn't even have a Xmas lunch or night out. My leaving "celebration" was 3 of us going to Wimpy!

6 months in central London - Massively sociable, almost something going on every night of the week even if it was just a couple of post work drinks

6 months in Brighton - not particularly sociable despite being a much younger team than I had worked with previously. I took them out for a team lunch one day and it was very awkward

Last 3 years in Manchester - when I joined it was very unsociable..everyone was a bit insular. I've introduced a once a month night out after our monthly team meeting. Each person takes a turn organising an event and a meal somewhere. Attendance isn't mandatory, but it's been hugely beneficial for building team spirit and bonding, which has seen huge benefits in work during particularly busy or successful times


 
Posted : 14/11/2024 8:25 am
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Whilst WFH widens the gap between office and hands on workers, it does also have a lot of benefits for reducing inequality. All the people moving away from e.g. London to WFH are taking London salaries and spreading that wealth to the rest of the country. Of course that leads to house price rises but it also pays a lot of people's wages everywhere they spend their money. Must also be good for fertility rates if people are able to live closer to their parents for childcare help, rather than chasing southwards for jobs.

I would never have been able to take my (not London) money back to Yorkshire if WFH hadn't become a thing


 
Posted : 14/11/2024 9:03 am
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Each person takes a turn organising an event and a meal somewhere. Attendance isn’t mandatory, but it’s been hugely beneficial for building team spirit and bonding, which has seen huge benefits in work during particularly busy or successful times

would this work to the detriment of folk like me?  Or folk who have caring duties outside of work?  ie being left out of the team / being an outsider?  I would find this both coercive and exclusionary.  Want team bonding?  do it in work time!  IMO you are using peer pressure to make folk work outside their hours - just another take on it.


 
Posted : 14/11/2024 11:13 am
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So you’ve not been accountable for the design of a large complex multidisciplinary system then?

I do a lot of project work, our "clients" are 8 nuclear power stations sites dotted around the UK coast served by two offices at opposite ends of the country. One projects stakeholders included stations themselves, technical directorate, engineering (mechanical components, mechanical systems, structural, chemistry) OEM's, internal regulator and ONR. Is that complex and multi-disciplinary enough for you?

Maybe not accoubtable overall but certainly have had my own area of accountability that was critical path and required a lot of collaboration. Hybrid working hasn't really changed much other than where you sit and take a call, we don't just pop out to stations every time we need to speak to someone or see something.

Or the development and mentoring of multiple early career employees and seen how their behaviours can be shaped by the interactions in the office?

No but I've been on the other end of that as I already said.

Once you have then I’d be keen to here how you found trying to do that with the team rarely, if ever, seeing eachother in person.

Did you read my post at all or just go straight for the froth? I have done it. It had challenges but nothing that wasn't easily overcome. As a team (group head, mentor, mentee and others) everyone knew what was expected and it worked fine. I can count in one hand how many office days I've had with my team.

Maybe you should be asking yourself what you can do better instead of moaning at folk who have done it.


 
Posted : 14/11/2024 12:15 pm
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Over the past few years I’ve worked in a few different offices for extended periods of time and noticed definite geographic differences in the level of social interaction amongst colleagues. This is across teams of 10-20 folk

I've noticed these differences working in different teams even within the same company in the same location!

I'm not sure you could put it all down to geographic differences.


 
Posted : 14/11/2024 12:18 pm
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would this work to the detriment of folk like me

We definitely don't employ anyone like you TJ


 
Posted : 14/11/2024 1:58 pm
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You don't employ introverts?  Those who do not drink? What about those with caring responsibilities?  Can you not see how this would discriminate against them?  being frozen out of the team?  This is how the "old boys network" operates to the detriment of diverse and well functioning teams


 
Posted : 14/11/2024 2:23 pm
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Look at it from the other side TJ, is nobody allowed to have fun just because you don't want to? Where I work we are 90% WFH but try to have unit meetings in person, and somebody generally organises a social event afterwards.  Attendance is entirely voluntary.  One of my staff is a bit "I don't come to work to make friends" (yes, I had noticed) but I will put forward that it makes work a more pleasant place if people interact on a human person level.


 
Posted : 14/11/2024 8:33 pm
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social activity is fine to an extent - but if it becomes team building and networking its discriminatory against those who do not drink and those who have caring responsibilities - ie mainly women and muslims.  It creates an "old boys network"

but I will put forward that it makes work a more pleasant place if people interact on a human person level.

thats bang out of order.  You are creating pressure on that person to spend time with colleagues when not being paid.  You want them there you pay their time.


 
Posted : 14/11/2024 8:39 pm
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I’ve introduced a once a month night out after our monthly team meeting. Each person takes a turn organising an event and a meal somewhere.

That genuinely sounds awful to me. When work is done I want to be with my family. I have to spend somewhere between 40 and 60 hours with people I work with each week. That's enough for me. I'll go on works do's, attend conferences, leaving drinks etc but that sounds like some Butlins level enforced fun.


 
Posted : 14/11/2024 8:44 pm
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Maybe not accoubtable overall

So that'll be a no then. Delivering small parts that are already well defined and highly driven by strict standards like the nuclear industry can be done like that but the concept phase in less rigidly regulated industries is very difficult to do fully remotely.

As you have come in to engineering late as you said was your early career in whatever field it was done in person? Could it be that you already have learned the behaviours that are expected through your earlier experience hence now just doing some cpd which can be done remotely?

We have a lot of grads and the difference in confidence, behaviours, ability to be in front of suppliers and customers is markedly different between those that do come in the office by thier own choice even a few times a month over those who won't and have either never been in or only once or twice over the year.

I work for a very flexible company and we have no obligation to come in at all and I do cater for those who choose not to but I am beginning to escalate the issues this causes and the delays to work when we don't get through the same amount of work in remote sessions that we do in the in person ones. These are quantifiable metrics that can be reported.

Where we will probably get to is come in for specific meetings and session and attendance in person will be non negotiable. That may be 2-3 days a week for 2-3 weeks at critical points of the project and then no requirement for attendance for a few months.


 
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I’ve introduced a once a month night out after our monthly team meeting. Each person takes a turn organising an event and a meal somewhere.

Haha , get ****ed. I'm an extrovert by nature with 24 years in the Army where team is everything and even we didn't have this sort of bollocks.

I'd rather do Christmas day guard duty than that utter Webster's bollocks.


 
Posted : 14/11/2024 8:49 pm
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Oh. Maybe it’s something you said… or didn’t say?

I (and i’m sure many others here) have got lifetime friends that I met at workplaces i’ve left in previous decades.

Well, you could read the other half of that post but OK. So have I. But would you consider it to be a large number?

Each person takes a turn organising an event and a meal somewhere.

Back to mine for take-out from the Indian and then board games followed by a movie?


 
Posted : 14/11/2024 9:09 pm
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Read what I said properly TJ,  attendance at the in person work meeting is not mandatory can do hybrid, and the staff organise the social stuff themselves.   Nobody is making anybody do anything,  all I am saying is human interaction can be good, no need to call the unions.


 
Posted : 14/11/2024 9:15 pm
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TJ, your point re drinking and exclusion is utter tosh. One of my team is Muslim and is at every social event, doesn’t drink (obviously). Religion has nothing to do with attending social events. If you’re an introvert then the likelihood is you won’t be bothered either way about attending social events anyway.


 
Posted : 14/11/2024 9:27 pm
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One of my team is Muslim and is at every social event, doesn’t drink (obviously). Religion has nothing to do with attending social events.

... anecdotally.

I have a friend who is Muslim (well, I have several), he refuses to set foot inside a pub because within whatever strain of Islam he prescribes to the default assumption is that if he does then he will be drinking (or I suppose, exposed to or tacitly condoning alcohol). It's caused... not a problem exactly, but it's a consideration we have to accommodate when organising get-togethers involving Saj. We'd just go to Pizza Hut rather than the Cockwell Inn.

Also, other religions are available.


 
Posted : 14/11/2024 9:35 pm
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spooky - there have been tribunals and court cases over this.  Its discriminatory IF attending these events gets you in a better place at work.  What about those with childcare commitments?  I have worked with muslims who would never go to a place serving alcohol

hels - I read this as you were suggesting that person should go on the events

but I will put forward that it makes work a more pleasant place if people interact on a human person level.

I can see thats got an alternative reading perhaps as you meant ie a general point to us 🙂


 
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Haha, fair point. Does Pizzahut not sell alcohol though?


 
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TJ, I’m sure there has been. I think for the most part though the days of the ‘old boys club’ are pretty much over. Not saying certain people don’t get preferential treatment when it comes to promotions etc but it’s not because you happened to attend a social event or 2. I attend all of them and haven’t got anywhere!


 
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You get the promotions because you are "one of the lads, a good one at that - you know the type you can have a  beer with at the end of the week"

Its just an insidious side effect.  As I say if its just socialising then not too bad but if its about team bonding / building / networking then its discriminatory.  You will be seen as not a team player


 
Posted : 14/11/2024 9:51 pm
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Yeah it's not like the good olde days when you had to be a paid up member of the union to get the promotion.


 
Posted : 14/11/2024 10:01 pm
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From personal experience it’s not about being able to have a beer or whatnot, it’s about being able to schmooz with the upper management that gets you promoted. Being able to sound like you know what you’re talking about or voicing an opinion (even though it might be sh*te) and putting yourself in their faces gets you noticed. Not being genuinely good at your job, unfortunately.


 
Posted : 14/11/2024 10:23 pm
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So that’ll be a no then. Delivering small parts that are already well defined and highly driven by strict standards like the nuclear industry can be done like that but the concept phase in less rigidly regulated industries is very difficult to do fully remotely.

"Well defined" . L. M. F. A. O.

The standards may be. The problems absolutely are not. They're baked into 40 year old systems which differ from station to station. Our concept phases are probably even harder as we can't just throw stuff and see what sticks. We also have to justify absolutely everything

As you have come in to engineering late as you said was your early career in whatever field it was done in person?

Yes because I was a plant operator, kinda hard to do from home. Previous to that I did a merchant navy cadetship, see above.

I've done both extremes so I get that not every job is suited to it. I also get that you have to approach it with an open mind to make it work.

Look, you made an absolute statement, I gave you my experience which is at odds with that statement. Almost like, as already pointed out, this could be situational.


 
Posted : 14/11/2024 10:50 pm
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You don’t employ introverts? Those who do not drink? What about those with caring responsibilities? Can you not see how this would discriminate against them? being frozen out of the team? This is how the “old boys network” operates to the detriment of diverse and well functioning teams

All of that

Plus you've been very vocal in your pride at never working a second past your contracted hours.

I've been recruiting for the past few months. Got a recommendation for a candidate. Someone I actually recruited to a different company 6 years ago. Loads of experience. Way more qualified than any other candidate we'd seen a CV for or interviewed.

We interviewed them and it went great. Everyone really liked them. Then at the end of the interview they announced that they were only willing to work their contacted hours and not a minute more. Their work life balance was the absolute non negotiable for them. We completely respected that, and declined to make them an offer. The search continues.


 
Posted : 14/11/2024 11:14 pm
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We completely respected that, and declined to make them an offer.

Why?

You had the perfect candidate and expected them to work for free?


 
Posted : 15/11/2024 12:17 am
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"Engineers were delayed in fixing an air traffic control meltdown that stranded more than 700,000 passengers because a critical member was working from home, an inquiry has concluded."

"“Having exhausted remote intervention options, it took 1.5 hours for the individual to arrive on site to perform the necessary full-system restart, which was not possible remotely.”

https://www.thetimes.com/uk/transport/article/air-traffic-control-nats-caa-report-louise-haigh-252sxqtbf


 
Posted : 15/11/2024 2:33 am
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You had the perfect candidate and expected them to work for free?

if the role requires flexibility, they’re not perfect for it. Extra hours may well be compensated/given back in lieu?


 
Posted : 15/11/2024 4:56 am
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Boarding bob - if you cannot complete your work in your working hours you have much bigger issues than refusing to employ a good candidate because they will not work for free.


 
Posted : 15/11/2024 4:56 am
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Doesn't it depend on what contracted hours means to Boardinbob? I'm not automatically assuming that means "you have to work extra hours for free" (although that seems likely) and that it could mean working the number of hours in your contract flexibly to meet the needs of the business. My employer has a number of teams that need to work as much put of normal office hours as in them, and would be impossible for someone to do their jobs if they stuck to our normal office hours.


 
Posted : 15/11/2024 7:04 am
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I would find it unlikely that somebody who held their work life balance so dear would apply for a job knowing that it required such “flexibility” - especially if they have as much experience as stated.  Obviously we don’t know the full picture here, but in situations such as this, I think management don’t like the prospect of employing somebody who will refuse to be a yes man/woman, despite the fact that they know for a fact that they can do the job.


 
Posted : 15/11/2024 7:15 am
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I’ve been recruiting for the past few months. Loads of experience. Way more qualified than any other candidate we’d seen a CV for or interviewed.

We interviewed them and it went great ... We declined to make them an offer. The search continues.

Oof! That foots going to really hurt.

And I guessing your other employees will continue to hurt too as they absorb the extra work the person is being employed to do.

Unfortunately this is typical of how employers work, so full credit to BoardingBob for saying it aloud.

Unfortunately BoardingBobs work place sounds a great environment to build a toxic workplace where each employee tries to out do the other to gain BoardingBobs favour .. ouch!!


 
Posted : 15/11/2024 7:43 am
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Boarding bob – if you cannot complete your work in your working hours you have much bigger issues than refusing to employ a good candidate because they will not work for free.

I must have missed the part where he said they were expecting it for free. Although given the comprehension of others on this thread. Perhaps I'm missing it in native English.

I'm contracted 8-4.30 but will regularly work on into later to accommodate occasional operational issues then take time back in lieu and I expect my team to do the same and its made clear for interview But I guess that's because on many things a 12 hour delay till the next shift would be roughly $300k-1mil  in time cost alone due to 100-150 people being static as well as the machinery.

Although those with regular/anticipated OT are cash  compensated.

I do realise things were different in NHS. But we all know the mess that's in.

And in interests of being transparent. I've a team of 14 - 2 who work from home -arranged under me with my support to do so both against an upper management who didnt want it to be so. I am also fully flexible with others in the team if they need to work from home occasionally for -appointments /boiler services/deliveries etc. The work gets done.  I find the shirkers show up in other ways..... - they usually show in the office shortly after probation so never get the memo about the flexibility..........


 
Posted : 15/11/2024 7:47 am
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So you’ve not been accountable for the design of a large complex multidisciplinary system then?

It's all i've done for the last 10 years, usually working ~2 days a week from home, and almost 2 years doing 4 or 5 days a week from home.

It's been no problem at all for me and my teams. It has for many others though.


 
Posted : 15/11/2024 8:16 am
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I absolutely want an employer that supports protecting my working hours but that is more from the insidious bleed to require just a few hours extra every week as par for the course, that is where you can point to a need for additional resource requirement.

If there is a specific project driven need to be somewhere else or push to get a thing completed to hit a timetable complete then that's different. I'm contracted on 37.5 hours/week, this week I'll be on 50 by the end of today, stuff to get done, need to align to a wider multi company team demand, has to be me there, and that's fair enough, I'd not do it every week. i've had a couple of weeks like that this year. I'll not get compensated with lieu payment but there is a recognition that at other points I might be  working "softer" to make up for things like this.

It's a professional respect thing that, if both parties are comfortable to provide it, should run both ways in a good company/organisation. In Boardinbobs example company needs flexibility but employee won't/can't provide it then there isnt a fit, equally the employee may want flexibility and if the company won't/can't provide it it doesn't work, it doesn't make either party unreasonable as long as it is works both ways. People being argumentative about different ways of doing things is daft though.


 
Posted : 15/11/2024 8:19 am
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“Engineers were delayed in fixing an air traffic control meltdown that stranded more than 700,000 passengers because a critical member was working from home, an inquiry has concluded.”

““Having exhausted remote intervention options, it took 1.5 hours for the individual to arrive on site to perform the necessary full-system restart, which was not possible remotely.”

So a management failure, insufficient critical cover? You need more than one person able to do the job and make sure there's always someone on shift/on site. Not rocket science.

I mean, we have a legal obligation to make sure there is a first aider in each landscape. So we do.


 
Posted : 15/11/2024 8:20 am
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Then at the end of the interview they announced that they were only willing to work their contacted hours and not a minute more.

Good on them. It sounds like they picked up on toxic culture during the process and made it clear they weren’t up for that. You made it clear in not offering what your workplace is really like. Likely a bullet dodged I’d say.


 
Posted : 15/11/2024 8:24 am
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