You don't need to be an 'investor' to invest in Singletrack: 6 days left: 95% of target - Find out more
The beauty of recognising that they are mature enough to take into account a broad church of views.
So the beautiful organ music, signing and reading they experience in school worship comes from a range of faiths and tradition?
Well I can. We all discusses this over lunch in Monday. Every person around the table had their own views and had made up their own minds.
How many decided they were Muslim?
So, accepting that fact that my kids would be entitled to spend part of their school day passively ignoring the singing and prayers, is it a good use of their time* and should it be something in which the state is engaging**?*ten minutes per day is around 33 hours of school time per year, which is 400 hours over their school life
**active promotion of one (version of one) religion over the others
Many parents would say the same about sport I suppose?
Others would say the same about Music, Drama, or Art ?
Others may say the same about RE in general.
You can't please everyone 100% of the time.
nealglover - MemberNo child is "forced" to take part, or even be present at an act of worship in school.
No, but no young child wants to be the one kid that's taken out of class while all their mates are doing something else. And the parent needs to be aware of what's actually happening, which this thread shows won't always be the case.
Many parents would say the same about sport I suppose?Others would say the same about Music, Drama, or Art ?
Others may say the same about RE in general.
You can't please everyone 100% of the time.
And those people are free to argue as to why these subjects should/shouldn't be included in the curriculum. Isn't it wonderful to live in a democracy?
Every lesson of those subjects will have a learning objective, with each child being set objectives which are specific to their aims and targets. They will be delivered in either age or ability groups.
What is the learning objective for a worship session? To recite the Lord's Prayer, again. To sing All Things Bright and Beautiful, again.
The curriculum lessons are aimed at education. The worship session is aimed at indoctrinating (however effectively/subtly).
I would think for the vast majority the "choice" is to either follow their parent's/peer group's/school's religion or don't bother at all.
Fortunately good education has ensured that this was neither my case nor my children's. We all have different views. Mine is probably the most eclectic (I reject the idea of religious exclusivity but find great wisdom in many religious texts), #1 the most knowledgeable by far and the most questioning.
Organ music is predominantly "Western Christian" - so a relief that is not forbidden. Readings etc from a wider base. Given that some of the most beautiful organ music was written under patronage of the church, it would be hard to avoid this. But I wouldn't want to avoid it anyway, it's remarkably inspiring.
Cougar - Moderator
How many decided they were Muslim?
All knowledgeable about Islamic theology, art and culture. None took the time to fully convert!
reading this made me remember this http://www.27bslash6.com/easter.html
do not follow the link if you believe religion is not a suitable subject for levity .
Why is it then that at primary school they just default to Christianity?
the holidays and their education revolves around the Christian calendar.
My eldest is in P5 and they learn about the major religions and their festivities which is a good thing. However, they don't have any sort of religious teachings. I don't see what the point is you are trying to make other than you are pissed off at having to take time off work to sit through a boring play lol
And those people are free to argue as to why these subjects should/shouldn't be included in the curriculum. Isn't it wonderful to live in a democracy?
You seem to be trying to suggest I'm not allowing you the same freedom (but without actually saying it)
Of course you are free to to argue whatever you like, and I'm free to disagree with you.
(or point out inaccuracies in your argument)
As it happens, I don't disagree with you entirely, but I think that the perfectly viable "opt out" option covers anyone who doesn't want their kids to take part.
At school I mostly was "present but not taking part" for any sort of worship anyway. Not because I knew my rights, or because I officially opted out, just because it didn't interest me. Nobody seemed to care, and it didn't separate me from my peer group, or single me out in any way.
And that was Catholic Schooling, taught in part by Nuns, located in a "working" Nunnery, so if you can get away with "not participating" there without issues, I can't see it being a problem anywhere else.
[url= http://www.independent.co.uk/news/education/education-news/birmingham-council-investigates-muslim-fundamentalist-plot-to-take-over-local-schools-9177506.html ]Religion in schools is a good thing eh?[/url]
I think that the perfectly viable "opt out" option covers anyone who doesn't want their kids to take part.
And round and round we go. We've already explained the issues with this.
Opting out would be viable if it was normalised; as it is, it's a special exemption which singles out individual children as 'different', which is just what you want to be as a schoolkid.
Why not have it 'opt in' instead? So worship time is available to those who actively want to take part (or rather, their parents do, of course), and the rest can do something else constructive rather than sit on their own with a box of crayons for twenty minutes? Hell, if there's demand you can even have sessions for different faiths then.
The attitude persists that people in this country are Christian by default unless proved otherwise. I'd quite like to see that change.
Didn't know about the opt out, not sure I'd put kids through the issues with being singled out, as cougar says better to have an opt in, you would get a proper idea of numbers (of actual practicing) christians then. Quite possibly something the CoE don't want
And that was Catholic Schooling, taught in part by Nuns, located in a "working" Nunnery, so if you can get away with "not participating" there without issues, I can't see it being a problem anywhere else.
Except for the people who've already told you that it was a problem at their school of course.
Hi, my name is Lionel Hutz. Hearsay and conjecture are [i]kinds [/i]of evidence.
the holidays and their education revolves around the Christian calendar.
Not really - we have holidays for the winter solstice, Oestre and to get the harvest in. Seems reasonable to me 🙂
I read the 27b/7 link. I have to admit, the bloke who writes it seems like a right obnoxious ****. The chaplain seemed to come out of that alright - "Just tick the ****ing box and leave me alone" 🙂
A lot of David Thorne's output is, shall we say subject to "artistic licence." They're funny stories, but take them with a pinch of salt.
Except for the people who've already told you that it was a problem at their school of course.
Who's first hand experience of their kids not partaking have I missed ?
I've heard people saying they would imagine it to be a problem, but I haven't spotted anyone with any real world experience of it.
I will ask my OH later how the kids at her school cope, she has kids in her class that don't participate in music at school due to religious beliefs (Muslim) and two kids that don't participate in the "worship" or religious education based trips (Sikh I think)
Wait, Islam is opposed to music?
and art Cougar - they have adapted syllabuses to cope with this
I have had problems with it neal but i generally dont discuss my kids on here
Basically being out meant sitting on your own in a room [ a lower class - he used to try to do the work in higher classes so they stopped him going there- this is only ever used a punishment FWIW- so he could be supervised] and the exclusion meant he felt isolated and away from his peers and friends as he was. Its exactly the same as exclusion but through choice and it has some stigma about it as well as they believers in his school gave him some grief and called him stupid [ kids being kids though not a religious point]
It is a less than perfect solution and electing for this is far from ideal. It would be better and fairer if entire schools could opt out as everyone should have the right to choose and opting out is dooable but not in a practical manner.
he now goes as it less stressful and kids leave him alone.
he does not engage
Who's first hand experience of their kids not partaking have I missed ?
I've heard people saying they would imagine it to be a problem, but I haven't spotted anyone with any real world experience of it.
You're moving the goalposts again. You talked about your experience in school and extrapolated that to claim that if it wasn't a problem for you it probably wasn't for anyone else either. I've already mentioned my experience of school where it was an issue.
Why are you now talking about other people's children?
Why are you now talking about other people's children?
Well isn't that what we are talking about in general ?
Children at school. (I thought I had missed something relevant, so I asked what it was)
My own experience is just that, personal experience. Same as yours.
Without first hand experience of a child currently in school who isn't partaking and the effect it has on them, I only have my own experience to rely on.
As I said, I will ask my OH how the kids in her class get on. As she has current and direct first hand experience.
just to clarify, whilst opting out of the religious bobbins your child tried to get on with some work so they bumped him somewhere where he could basically sit down and do nothing?Basically being out meant sitting on your own in a room [ a lower class - he used to try to do the work in higher classes so they stopped him going there- this is only ever used a punishment FWIW- so he could be supervised]
I thought idle hands were frowned upon in religion
he now goes as it less stressful and kids leave him alone.
he does not engage
This was my point earlier.
Opting out "light" if you like.
The parents let the school know that their child will be attending, but not participating. Nobody needs to make a fuss, and the child appears (to his peers) to be the same as they are.
The school has met its legal obligation.
That seems a good way of dealing with things as far as I can see?
That seems a good way of dealing with things as far as I can see?
No, it's a weaselly way of dealing with it.
Not religious? That's ok, just sit there and pretend that you are. With a bit of luck when you're all growed up you'll do the same on census forms.
apart form kids being present to some (no doubt varying degrees of*) indoctrination you mean? The stigma attached to being singled out as different could also have quite an effect. Praying and singing to god is normal, you don't want to? well go and sit in that room on your own. Awesome.That seems a good way of dealing with things as far as I can see?
*I'm not suggesting every school is trying to brainwash children into following a religion.
The parents let the school know that their child will be attending, but not participating. Nobody needs to make a fuss, and the child appears (to his peers) to be the same as they are.The school has met its legal obligation.
That seems a good way of dealing with things as far as I can see?
Or, we don't have religion in state-funded schools? That seems a good way of dealing with things as far as I can see.
Britain is the [i]only[/i] Western democracy to require worship in non-religious publicly funded schools. More info [url= http://www.secularism.org.uk/collective-worship.html ]here[/url].
The stigma attached to being singled out as different could also have quite an effect. Praying and singing to god is normal, you don't want to? well go and sit in that room on your own. Awesome.
So you didn't read [b]any[/b] of what came before the bit you quoted then ?
No, it's a weaselly way of dealing with it.
You might not like it, but If you are actually in a position where you need to deal with this, it's one of only 3* options you have for your kids.
1. Go along with it and join in.
2. Attend but don't participate.
3. Sit out completely.
*(Or change schools and go for an academy that don't have any communal worship)
Britain is the only Western democracy to require worship in non-religious publicly funded schools.
Except not in practice. How many schools have been pulled up for not doing it?
You might not like it, but If you are actually in a position where you need to deal with this, it's one of only 3* options you have for your kids.1. Go along with it and join in.
2. Attend but don't participate.
3. Sit out completely.
4. Campaign for change.
4. Campaign for change
Go for it.
But...
...... If you are in a position where you actually need to deal with this...
Won't help much if you are in a position to deal with the decision now though, because it's not going to change soon, if ever.
Britain is the only Western democracy to require worship in non-religious publicly funded schools.
Except not in practice. How many schools have been pulled up for not doing it?
That's part of the argument for abandoning the requirement altogether.
I've not had lunch yet, so I'm not going to spend ages researching figures, but [url= http://www.theguardian.com/education/2004/jun/11/schools.uk ]this article[/url] quotes the former head of Ofsted as saying "76% of secondary schools were already failing to provide for daily worship", in 2004.
In the same article, Canon John Hall, the Church of England's chief education officer said "I believe that there are not many secondary schools where there is nothing like a daily act of worship".
So, in secondary, it's somewhere between "not many" and 75% 🙂
Won't help much if you are in a position to deal with the decision now though, because it's not going to change soon, if ever.
The curriculum is currently being reviewed, so now would be an excellent time to consider its official removal.
Then fire up your campaign !
I would be interested to see how it goes.
If you are actually in a position where you need to deal with this, it's one of only 3* options you have for your kids.
If I'm ever in a position where I need to deal with it, I'll be naming him Jesus.
But yes. Those will only ever be the three options available if we just nod and smile and go along with it. That's why I said it was weaselly; the last thing the Church wants is to be challenged on stuff like this, far more preferable for us all to conform (or pretend to conform).
In the same article, Canon John Hall, the Church of England's chief education officer said "I believe that there are not many secondary schools where there is nothing like a daily act of worship"
Is he saying most do, or hardly any do ?
Then fire up your campaign !I would be interested to see how it goes.
There's already [url= http://www.secularism.org.uk/collective-worship.html ]an ongoing campaign[/url].
I saw that site earlier in another post.
How long happen they been campaigning, and what's been achieved so far ?
In the same article, Canon John Hall, the Church of England's chief education officer said "I believe that there are not many secondary schools where there is nothing like a daily act of worship"
Is he saying most do, or hardly any do ?
He's saying that most secondaries do something that would be classed as a daily act of worship.
Don't worry, Sharia law will soon be the de facto in this country.
He's saying that most secondaries do something that would be classed as a daily act of worship.
Righto. Strange double negative threw me a bit. Couldn't work out if it was intentional or not.
I saw that site earlier in another post.How long happen they been campaigning, and what's been achieved so far ?
The organisation has been around for [url= http://www.secularism.org.uk/history.html ]a long time[/url], not sure how long that particular campaign's been going for though.
How long did the campaign for equal marriage take?
Righto. Strange double negative threw me a bit. Couldn't work out if it was intentional or not.
He's spent too long worshiping and not enough in English lessons.
The organisation has been around for a long time, not sure how long that particular campaign's been going for though.
Ok, just trying to judge timescales, and they have been around a while obviously.
How long did the campaign for equal marriage take?
Why ? Is this something I should know ? 😕
Why ? Is this something I should know ?
Being gay was illegal until 1967, just ten years before I was born. In 2014, the first same sex marriages took place.
Sometimes, change takes a long time to happen. That's no reason to not campaign for it.
Strange double negative threw me a bit
You were expecting iron cast logic from the religious dude then 😉
Britain is the only Western democracy to require worship in non-religious publicly funded schools.Except not in practice
Despite your caveat the fact is still true so either negate it or accept it..how many pages have you been doing this for now?
I will accept some break the law but it does not negate the fact it is required.
You were expecting iron cast logic from the religious dude then
I liked the fact that he stated his belief, but then there was no evidence to back it up 🙂
neal or the canon 😉
No offence neal just a joke I accept you are one of the logic botherers on here.
Sometimes, change takes a long time to happen. That's no reason to not campaign for it.
You seem to be reading things into my posts that aren't there.
Where did I say there is no reason to campaign for change ?
molgrips - MemberExcept not in practice. How many schools have been pulled up for not doing it?
So the law is an ass, and the school guidelines are widely ignored- all sounds like good reasons to change things. Rules that nobody listens to are worse than no rules at all.
Won't help much if you are in a position to deal with the decision now though, because it's not going to change soon, if ever.
I think I misunderstood "if you are in a position to deal with the decision now" and read too much into "it's not going to change soon, if ever", and thought you were saying there's no point in campaigning.
Fair enough.
What I meant was, if your kids are at/about to be at school, you have 3 options.
Campaigning won't change anything fast enough to change your options.
Worship in schools helps prop up the whole Bishops in the Lords, unelected head of state, established church thing by way of subtle indoctrination leading to ticking the CofE box on the census form and a vague sense of the belief that there's a heaven and you'll meet grannie again.
Thankfully, this seems to be changing.
Fair enough.What I meant was, if your kids are at/about to be at school, you have 3 options.
Campaigning won't change anything fast enough to change your options.
My two are in Y3 and Y6.
I'm stuck in education for the foreseeable future though so it would/could affect me for longer.
Thankfully, despite being in possession of a rather lovely pipe organ in a grand Victorian wood-paneled hall, complete with stained glass windows, sixth-formers are exempt from enforced worship and we're a very secular place.
The problem with campaigning though, is that any government that needs to make the decision will have one question in their minds.
Which will cost fewer votes, keeping it as it is, or changing it.
I think I know what the answer is.
I honestly don't think it's a vote winner or loser, which is partly why it'll be hard to get it changed.
The best thing would be a coordinated opt-out campaign.
Just to tangent for a second, have we had many vocally Atheist senior politicians?
miketually - Membersubtle indoctrination leading to ticking the CofE box on the census form
And let's not forget the leading question, or the followup surveys that showed that 50% of people who identified themselves as christian when asked the census question, about half don't believe in christ and a little under half don't believe in god 😉
(it's not a conspiracy mind; the question's been kept the same for many censuses, so that it's useful comparatively. Changing from a leading question to a neutral one would wreck the usability for trends.)
Cougar - ModeratorJust to tangent for a second, have we had many vocally Atheist senior politicians?
Nick Clegg! Alistair Campbell as well, ironically he's quite good evidence for the existance of satan.
Could ask two questions, one leading and one not? Maybe.
i read it all, your method still involves them sitting through the "god is great" mantra being repeated over and over. I then pointed out the alternative, opting out, is made very unappealing, no doubt intentionally.So you didn't read any of what came before the bit you quoted then ?
In answer to my earlier question, a quick Google revealed this (emphasis mine):
The Test Act 1672 formerly made it illegal for a Roman Catholic to hold high political office in the English Parliament. It has, however, long since been repealed, but that's not really the end of the story.Given that one of the functions of the Prime Minister is to recommend to the monarch who should hold the offices of Archbishop of Canterbury and Archbishop of York, both of which carry with them both primacy within the Church of England and seats in the House of Lords, constitutional convention suggests that the PM should not be perceived as possessing bias against the Established Church (Church of England/Church of Scotland). [b]Every PM has officially owed allegiance to one or other of the established churches[/b] - Benjamin Disraeli had to evidence family conversion from Judaism before holding office in the 19th century as far as I can recall.
This is comment rather than a reputable source. Is it true? That to be PM, you [i]have[/i] to align yourself with a Church? (Wasn't John Major Atheist?)
hmm maybe I've misunderstood your posts but the earlier ones seem to be saying "if you don't have school age kids why are you getting your knickers in a twist about it?" Now you're saying "if you do have school age kids its too late to do anything so don't worry"What I meant was, if your kids are at/about to be at school, you have 3 options.
Did I read that right?
Is it true? That to be PM, you have to align yourself with a Church? (Wasn't John Major Atheist?)
His religion is listed as Anglican on Wikipedia, but I don't really know that much about him. He certainly wasn't a "good Christian" while he was [i]aligning himself[/i] with Edwina Curry.
I'd not be surprised if there was some 'rule' like that. The leader of the party most able to form a government is invited to be Prime Minister by the Queen, who is both head of state and head of the established church. If (by some 'miracle') the Lib Dems won the next election, she could refuse to ask atheist Nick Clegg to form a government as it would/could lead to a constitutional crisis.
One of the arguments against making same sex marriage legal was that it would create conflict between church doctrine and national law, so there could be a similar issue. It just shows how ridiculous it is to have an established church.
hmm maybe I've misunderstood your posts
Looks like you have misunderstood yes.
I've said neither of the things you mention.
(You could probably twist what I said if you really wanted to and tried hard enough, but either way, that's not what I said)
Edit- I suppose, if you do have school age kids right now, it's probably not going to change in time for it to make a difference to them, but I didn't say that means you shouldn't "worry" or try to change things still.
It just means that you are protesting to try and change things for future generations, which is fine obviously.
what I want to know is if religion in schools is worthwhile, how come whenever I go to a wedding, funeral or turn on songs of praise, they never do any of the good hymns from "Songs of Praise" (circa 1986).
I'm fairly against anybody wasting to much time on montheistic RE at secondary level but at primary school, christianity is just a set of half decent parables with all of the "be excellent to one another" good stuff and none of the "except those guys" that religion seems to entail for grown ups.
miketually - MemberHe certainly wasn't a "good Christian" while he was aligning himself with Edwina Curry.
While it might not be essential to be religious to be a politician, it certainly is a requirement that you be a lying hypocrite.
That would be everyone but AS then 😉
it certainly is a requirement that you be a lying hypocrite.
Why's that NW ..... aren't voters interested in electing a politician if he or she isn't a lying hypocrite ?
You could be right about the voter appeal of lying hypocrites.
Voters don't want to hear the truth ..... they want to be seduced !
Look at this guy, being a lying hypocrite never did him any harm.
Three general election wins and a few £millions stashed away in various bank accounts.
just looked back and no you didn't say the first thing, pretty sure someone did and I thought it was you but CBA re-reading* the previous 9 pages, so apologies for that. You did say something [i]similar[/i] to the second on this page tho. But meh, I think this is dying down now.nealglover - Member
I've said neither of the things you mention
*properly this time 😉
Yes I did say something [b]similar[/b] to the second one, but without the "so don't worry about it"
Just that things won't change fast enough to have a direct effect on your kids if they are already school age now.
But regardless, without the first thing, which I didn't say, there is no contradiction is there 😉
Can I have a mid-season "Previously on..." recap, please? I've completely forgotten what Brian was doing in Los Angeles and thought that they'd killed off Jennifer three episodes ago.
Okay stand down, nothing to see here.
Today was the day of reckoning, the day of the church thing with school.
I skulked along but it was actually really good. Was not really religious at all, no mass, no bowing heads, minister did not even put his costume on. The kids did a play, which was intersected with lots of 'Christians believe such and such.' There were not even any prayers. Minister spoke for about 1 minute at the end to say well done and invite people along to the eater service which, weather dependent will be held out on the hill top, he then mentioned that other churches will also welcome people along if they wish (plugging the local competition.)
All much of a moan about nothing, it was done really well.
Now back to your arguing!
nealglover - do you accept the idea that it's possibly to imply things without directly saying them?
nealglover - do you accept the idea that it's possibly to imply things without directly saying them?
Of course it is.
Just like its possible to read things that aren't there because you really want to argue with someone.
In this particular case, what do you think I was implying when I said "go for it" and "I'd be interested to see how it goes" with regard to a campaign against compulsory worship in schools ?
All much of a moan about nothing, it was done really well.
Sounds like a good result.
(although STW is disappointed with the lack of "brainwashing" and "indoctrination" obviously.)
😉
