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I have had enough.
Bolster my resolve to walk with your tales of unending joy. Or on the flip side temper my enthusiasm with your tales of regret.
Go.
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Posted : 07/04/2022 8:15 am
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bin dun....

...and...

and also....


 
Posted : 07/04/2022 8:18 am
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i finished a year ago, on a very small pension. but i would rather live on beans on toast that have carried on working.
spend my days looking after 2 toddler grandkids and riding my bike.
you only need a big pension if you have big plans. my plans are small, cheap and easily attainable.

so no regrets whatsoever from me.

enjoy.


 
Posted : 07/04/2022 8:21 am
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Absolutely none! Retired at 53, lucky enough to be financially secure and had a great time ever since. Luv getting up in the morning and saying "what shall I do today?", the options are endless.


 
Posted : 07/04/2022 8:25 am
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No regrets at all.... Never even thought about work since I left ..


 
Posted : 07/04/2022 8:44 am
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It's my first week,can I get back to you on this?
Cheers.


 
Posted : 07/04/2022 8:47 am
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I’m 32 so early retirement for my generation will probably consist of having a week off before your funeral

Jokes aside, my grandad retired early, early in his 50s I think, and hanging out with him as a kid are some of the best memories I have. He basically instilled my passion, and now career, for engineering in me back then and a tonne of other stuff my parents failed in

I’m sure he is glad he retired early so go for it, I think Ton gets it, better to have freedom and easy goals than work till you can’t just so you can afford a bigger house to retire in

Good luck!


 
Posted : 07/04/2022 8:59 am
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17 months in and I have no regrets. It is worth you having a browse of the three threads liked by @sadexpunk (I started the first one when I was trying to decide if it was time for me to retire), a lot of the potential issues are discussed there.

I'm lucky in that I earned and saved enough that the money isn't anything I need to worry about. TJ and Ton have shown that you don't need loads, but you do have to be realistic about how you want to spend your time. A friend of mine retired last year and got her calculations wrong and now needs to do various bits of soul destroying gig-economy work to finance the lunches and cocktail lifestyle that she'd like.


 
Posted : 07/04/2022 9:09 am
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I’m 32 so early retirement for my generation will probably consist of having a week off before your funeral

A whole week off! The youth of today - absolutely no work ethic.


 
Posted : 07/04/2022 9:33 am
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My plan's to see how long it takes payroll to notice.


 
Posted : 07/04/2022 9:40 am
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The financials are important but for some (me) there is a psychological impact. After working 40+ years its quite a bit change...


 
Posted : 07/04/2022 9:54 am
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My dad retired after 30+ years in the police in his early fifties. Since then he has help build a steel blue water yacht, been a school groundskeeper, handyman and mini bus driver, lifeguard at the local pool and now in his 70s actually stopped paid employment. He still can't sit still but don't think he has any regrets.

I'm targeting a late 50s retirement and pretty sure I will not be bored.


 
Posted : 07/04/2022 9:56 am
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My Dad died 6 months after retiring and 3 months before his 'big retirement adventure' began.

Not sure if he had any regrets but Mum was a bit pissed off as she was also part of that big adventure but it lost its appeal and a fresh widow on her own.


 
Posted : 07/04/2022 10:01 am
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I'm not retired but got this week off to do stuff with my kid.....im bored to tears already...I don't plan to retire....I will work till I drop...or win the lottery


 
Posted : 07/04/2022 10:01 am
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I have 1 midweek day a week with my young grandson, just us 2. I love it.


 
Posted : 07/04/2022 10:04 am
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I have two colleagues that retired slightly early, only in their early 60's but haven't regretted it. Main issues were both their partners had cancer, so life expectancy was shortened, so they've taken advantage. Both loving life though.

I'll probably plan 60ish - see how things pan out/what get's offered at work. We've had rounds of VS, but at 52 I'm too young and they said I'd not get it. I year's salary would have been nice. I've two private pensions that could be accessed from 55, on top of two final salary schemes (that I'll continue to pay into) so will have to do the numbers.

I could easily fill my time with gardening, DIY and cycling.


 
Posted : 07/04/2022 10:09 am
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Plan to go in 9 years aged 62 (wife's 60th birthday). Finances should be in place by then to see us through by then. Can't see me having any regrets!


 
Posted : 07/04/2022 10:14 am
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I have 2 kids at school, have not worked since the eldest was born 11 years ago when I was 33, luckily the wife went back to work, does that count as retired?


 
Posted : 07/04/2022 10:17 am
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I’m not retired but got this week off to do stuff with my kid…..im bored to tears already

How old is the kid?


 
Posted : 07/04/2022 10:17 am
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I’m planning to retire eight years this week. I’ll be 56. We had kids late so not a great deal of point retiring whilst the youngest is still at school and funding the two older ones through Uni. I was originally going to go once the youngest has finished uni but the above threads convinced me otherwise. Plus I’ve watched all the our parents and friend decline so quickly in their 70s that I want to maximise the time I’m actively retired rather than just waiting to die and watching homes under the hammer.

I’m lucky barring anything random happening in the next five years or so we will retire comfortably but convincing the Mrs S we won’t be on the breadline in our 80s is difficult, but I’m working on her


 
Posted : 07/04/2022 10:18 am
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I'm now 50 and planning on going at 55. My partner will be going at 59. She's a few years older than me and will retire the year before i do.

My biggest issue is trying not to focus on the finish line and wishing the next 4 years of my life away.


 
Posted : 07/04/2022 10:21 am
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My biggest issue is trying not to focus on the finish line and wishing the next 4 years of my life away.

Target fixation...


 
Posted : 07/04/2022 10:22 am
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I’m definitely suffering from target fixation, will probably change roles to address it.

Bored with the kids get new kids, this what we are doing this week and have been doing since they were toddlers.

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Posted : 07/04/2022 10:23 am
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I love the idea of retiring early but sadly not even being a homeowner in my forties means that's highly unlikely!

If I could, I think I'd spend my time riding, walking the dog and finding something enriching that helps others - possibly even riding related. Think I'd go crazy sitting still for too long!


 
Posted : 07/04/2022 10:25 am
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A friend retired at 40ish, after <=5 years he's got a job again. I think the jist is when none of your friends are retired it's kind of boring/ lonely. Obviously most of us won't have that problem to deal with.


 
Posted : 07/04/2022 10:31 am
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Target fixation…

100%. I need to find a way of stopping my mind focusing on this. A lot can happen in the next 5 years.

Any tips?


 
Posted : 07/04/2022 10:35 am
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Just coming up to 12 months for me and not missing it a bit although I do miss my old colleagues/friends who I see quite often and they all tell me I got out at the right time. 5 of us went at the same time and are all keeping busy in some shape or form. One guy volunteers at the RAF museum in Hendon a couple of times a week, another helps out with tree planting and maintenance around Rivi. A third plays a lot of golf and a fourth is loaded so spends most of his time snowboarding and windsurfing. Riding and fishing are keeping me busy in between trips to the hospital for chemo, but the latest scan results are very good so I will hopefully be putting a large dent in the kids inheritance.


 
Posted : 07/04/2022 10:44 am
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Retired at 52 (was lucky enough to get redundancy) and never been happier. Countless things to do and haven't regretted it for a millisecond. Go for it.


 
Posted : 07/04/2022 10:52 am
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Any tips?

Sorry no. I had exactly that but I stopped work unexpectedly early so I didn't have too much time for it to fester. I am seeing it in some of my mates though and my slightly earlier than planned retirement has seen a real change in them. One of them has really backed himself into a corner with his lifestyle and I think my retirement has really brought this into focus. Interesting to see his reaction to this.....


 
Posted : 07/04/2022 10:54 am
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A friend retired at 40ish, after <=5 years he’s got a job again. I think the jist is when none of your friends are retired it’s kind of boring/ lonely. Obviously most of us won’t have that problem to deal with.

At 40????

They must have been absolutely ****ing minting it up to that point, which suggests a high-powered/fast paced work life. I can imagine the transition to gardening and Werthers Originals would be quite the contrast in that case.


 
Posted : 07/04/2022 10:59 am
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They must have been absolutely **** minting it up to that point,

Or inheritance?


 
Posted : 07/04/2022 11:01 am
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One of the "things to do" is to learn to appreciate idleness* and to recognise those thoughts that you need to do something productive every day for the imposters that they are.

*Obviously you need to stay healthy.


 
Posted : 07/04/2022 11:07 am
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Or inheritance?

That makes more sense. I'm 42 and if I inherited a million quid now I'd retire before lunch. People who earn millions, OTOH, often tend to quite like their jobs.

Or an elite athlete?


 
Posted : 07/04/2022 11:11 am
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One of the “things to do” is to learn to appreciate idleness*

He said, to a bunch of people posting on a message board at 11am on a weekday 😉


 
Posted : 07/04/2022 11:11 am
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My biggest issue is trying not to focus on the finish line and wishing the next 4 years of my life away.

Be very aware of this. A colleague was counting down to retiring at 55 literally knew how much the price of a Starbucks a day made to his pension, and ended up having a breakdown at 52, just so fixated on his retirement he lost touch with the present.

I'm 53 this month. 7 more years if we fund youngest through uni, and I can claim a couple of my early private pensions at that point, but my main civil service pension is no use till I hit state pension age.

We've both worked part time around kids and now elderly parents, so funds not huge


 
Posted : 07/04/2022 11:17 am
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but my main civil service pension is no use till I hit state pension age.

No early option? Always assumed civil servants could go early....


 
Posted : 07/04/2022 11:25 am
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No early option? Always assumed civil servants could go early….

Yep, up to 10 years, which about cuts your forecast in half.

my main civil service pension is no use till I hit state pension age.

[EDIT - wrote this before the above] I plan to take my CS pension as early as possible i.e. 10 years before state pension age. Which for me - as a relative youngster - will be at least 58 (probably 60-61 by the time I get there).

It'll cut it in half from what it would be 10 years later, but I figure that is going to be worth it, as I'd rather have freedom in my 60s than be wealthier in my 70s.


 
Posted : 07/04/2022 11:27 am
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i finished a year ago, on a very small pension. but i would rather live on beans on toast that have carried on working.
spend my days looking after 2 toddler grandkids and riding my bike.
you only need a big pension if you have big plans. my plans are small, cheap and easily attainable.

so no regrets whatsoever from me.

enjoy.

Everything is relative. What a small pension means to one person means something very different to another. I wonder how many people took that approach a few years ago and worked out what they could just about get away with but cut the margins so tight that they are about to get dry bummed by the increase in fuel bills we are currently enjoying. That's just swapping the stress and boredom of work with the stress of not knowing how you are going to pay the bills and the boredom of not having any spare cash to do anything too interesting with your time.

I'm 50 in a few weeks. I feel I'm the inter generation between the milk and honey retirements of my parent's generation (that they collectively don't seem to appreciate how lucky they are) and the long years of work that the generations behind me are going to be having to struggle on through. My retirement would be pretty financially comfortable if I could keep going until 67. But I won't - partly because I think I'd be rubbish at it by then and also because I'll be bored out of my mind if I do this for another 17 years. So I plan to go another way - do what I do for another 5 years whilst actively working on skilling myself up for a last career. That career (it'll be a portfolio of jobs I suspect) will earn less but I hope will give me a new lease of life and also enough flexibility to slowly drop a day or two a week.

My two priorities over the next 5 years are to keep on chipping away at preparing for career 3.0 and also enjoying still being alive now- young and active enough to do what I do. Wishing away your one life feels like such a trap. My FiL did it - he was utterly tedious through the last 10 years of his working days with "when I retire I'll....." and "I'll wait to retire before I do that"s. Then he retired (a few years young) and has done precisely zero of the things he waxed on about. He is alive, functioning and seemingly happy; just leading a very small life.


 
Posted : 07/04/2022 11:33 am
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My Dad died 6 months after retiring and 3 months before his ‘big retirement adventure’ began.

I used to work for a guy whose mum retired on the day before his wedding. She died on the morning just before he got married. That really sucks.


 
Posted : 07/04/2022 11:39 am
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My parents’ next door neighbour retired at 58 from Fawley power station. He had been an apprentice engineer on Cunard ships and became a senior engineer on the Queen Mary before going into power generation. He absolutely hated his retirement as he felt he had no focus and it caused a real strain on his marriage as she wasn’t used to him being at home and moaning all day long. Then, after about three years he was called out of the blue by the company who runs the Queen Mary in Long Beach who invited him to help set up the replica engine room on the ship. It changed his life, he loved going over there all expenses paid for two months a year and he was so much happier.

Short version: it can be dreadful for the whole family if you don’t have a focus, if you can find one go for it.


 
Posted : 07/04/2022 11:53 am
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He absolutely hated his retirement as he felt he had no focus

I suspect this is common. Whether we consider ourselves dynamic outdoor people its hard to know how you will react at the end of your traditional working life. Its fine to say I have a million things to do and I will never be bored (and mean it) but after many years of being gently socialised into going to work every day some of us may find it disorientating.

Another consideration is drink. It has had no negative impact on me and over the 8 months since I stopped work I think I have stopped for a pint on one midweek dog-walk (often have a Sunday afternoon beer garden stop when out for the afternoon with my wife) but I know of friend's of friends who drink a lot more after retirement.


 
Posted : 07/04/2022 12:00 pm
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Boredom is being anchored to a job 8 or more hours a day.


 
Posted : 07/04/2022 12:17 pm
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Been retired nearly 3 years, @ 55

My only regret/wish, is that I wish I'd been born a few years earlier, so I could have retired at 50. But they moved the goalposts.

On the plus side, my salary increased due to moving to a 12hr 4 on/4 off shift pattern, and my pension got a much appreciated boost


 
Posted : 07/04/2022 12:23 pm
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Boredom is being anchored to a job 8 or more hours a day

It depends on what you do.


 
Posted : 07/04/2022 12:37 pm
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Boredom is being anchored to the wrong job 8 or more hours a day.

FTFY


 
Posted : 07/04/2022 12:39 pm
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My only regret is that I couldn't afford to do it earlier, the freedom to be able to live life at my own pace is the biggest plus for me it's also nice to learn new things (Spanish among other things)


 
Posted : 07/04/2022 12:53 pm
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No early option? Always assumed civil servants could go early….

The penalties are huge, both on my original pension from 2003 and the reduced one that replaced it in 2015. Those cushy civil service pensions had gone before I joined in 2003, and a lot who were on those have retired already.


 
Posted : 07/04/2022 12:56 pm
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Countdown is progressing. I'm 60 in 8 months and plan to be job free from 1 January 2023.

I have a work target of getting the customer database complete before I go and my replacement(s) trained also. I plan to visit my father in his French place by bike at some point next summer, possibly with minimal luggage. There's a huge cycling tick-list ready to go and a wife to cook and bake for. (Thank you Lord Rank for your forward thinking pension arrangements for your staff. Best 20 year instalment plan I ever joined, plus a pay-rise due at 67!)


 
Posted : 07/04/2022 12:59 pm
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None at all. I thought I might, and I was a bit concerned, as I guess you are, but I never ever think about work now.


 
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They must have been absolutely **** minting it up to that point, which suggests a high-powered/fast paced work life. I can imagine the transition to gardening and Werthers Originals would be quite the contrast in that

My bestman took a sabbatical in his late 30's turns 53 this year & still hasn't gone back to work, I never appreciated how wealthy he was, all self earned, he manages to fill his time extremely well 👍 me I'm gonna go down to 4 days at 60 but expect to work until 70 🙁


 
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I'm aiming for retirement when I'm 64 (6 1/2 years time)

I'll see how I am financially but maybe do a few days work if they're short staffed if I fancy it.


 
Posted : 07/04/2022 1:16 pm
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Surely you are better to regret taking early retirement and possibly having to get another job again than staying in work for years more and then wishing you'd retired early.

If you can afford it just do it.


 
Posted : 07/04/2022 1:30 pm
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He is alive, functioning and seemingly happy; just leading a very small life.

We visited some friends who retired to France last year, we asked them one day what they were up to (we were off for a ride). Thet replied 'going to the chemist'.

Was a fascinating insight into their life as 'going to the chemist' is the sort of thing I fit in on the ride back from work to the gym. Whereas it had now been promoted to the day's major activity.

Absolutley nothing wrong with that, just thought it was very illuminating.


 
Posted : 07/04/2022 1:40 pm
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Thet replied ‘going to the chemist

My MIL is the same. The days are booked up with largely unnecessary doctors appointments, insisting on going to shops to collect minor items that could be part of a weekly trip. So many trivial things that barely make my todo list for them are the focus of a whole day.


 
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Today's activity has been buying a 70p artisan baguette. This involved walking 6 miles and listening to two podcasts. It's really nice not to have to worry about being efficient with your time. I'll tinker with one of the motorbikes this afternoon, so maybe today will have two activities.


 
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I took redundancy in 2018 at 53 and decided I didn’t want the hassle and stress of going back to a ‘corporate’ job. Took financial advise and the conclusion was pensions were OK and to leave them be, just needed an income to support us until then so decision to sell our house in Hampshire, build a cheaper house in Scotland and live off the house sale proceeds. COVID messed up our plans to self-build, but we found a suitable plot and builder who built us a house to our design on the Isle of Mull - now been here 9 months. Also have a small, online business that I run from home and sell some stuff to local businesses and at local markets. Money’s going to be tight but absolutely no regrets - more important is our health and keeping active. Living on the islands is more expensive, but we’re planning on growing a lot more food, keeping chickens and there’s always some wild venison outside…
Daily routine involves a lengthy dog walk, make/post any online sales and try and squeeze in a run or bike ride. OK, won’t be going on any fancy holidays, but given that folks are paying up to £1000/week to stay in the house next door, it’s not a bad place to be.


 
Posted : 07/04/2022 2:46 pm
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Surely you are better to regret taking early retirement and possibly having to get another job again than staying in work for years more and then wishing you’d retired early.

If you can afford it just do it.

add into that ill health. struggle to keep working through your 50's with ill health and miss all the good stuff with grandkids. then retire at 67 and be ****ed and unable to do anything at all.


 
Posted : 07/04/2022 2:59 pm
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I'm 58 in a few weeks, I was lucky enough to retire at 52.  I've never regretted it for a second.  I did work for a charity part time for a few months and have done some voluntary work.  My wife has a part time business which I help with a little.  Other than that, I look after our (very) small holding, our dog and indulge myself in lots of hobbies.

I'm very outdoorsy but have had a few health niggles recently which have impacted on that, which has taken the edge off things as I've been going a bit stir crazy indoors - but that's not due to retirement per se, and thankfully things seem on the up a little in that regard.

IME, as long as you have lots of interests and things you don't currently have time for due to work - you will love retirement.  People who are a bit one dimensional, live for their job and think it defines who they are, with few hobbies or outside interests are the ones that struggle with it.


 
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Regrets after early retirement?

All my friends who retired early are enjoying life to the maximum. They get bored sometimes but other than that all are enjoying life! If I can afford an early retirement I would do it in an instant.

One friend after his retirement signed up for an OU UG degree as a hobby! He is bored.

Retire if you can afford to because you work to live and not live to work.

Life is too short.


 
Posted : 07/04/2022 3:19 pm
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Surely you are better to regret taking early retirement and possibly having to get another job again than staying in work for years more and then wishing you’d retired early.

Don't be like one workmate who joined Ranks at 14 and was determined to get his 50 years watch and certificate. Likely to be the last one in the company. Booked a fortnight off at 62, first day of his holiday and he dropped dead in the corner shop before he went away.

My MIL is the same. The days are booked up with largely unnecessary doctors appointments, insisting on going to shops to collect minor items that could be part of a weekly trip. So many trivial things that barely make my todo list for them are the focus of a whole day.

There's no need to rush when retired and more than one thing at a time may cause mental overload if your marbles are going.


 
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Those cushy civil service pensions had gone before I joined in 2003, and a lot who were on those have retired already.

@MoreCashThanDash I take issue with that - I joined the Civil Service in 2013 (just after the [url= https://assets.publishing.service.gov.uk/government/uploads/system/uploads/attachment_data/file/1004636/McCloud_Update_-_July_2021.pdf ]McCloud[/url] judgement for pension schemes applies - gutted) and the terms of my pension are very generous compared to any private ones (and various quasi public-sector ones - it's certainly better than USS). You'll have a fair few years in 'Premium' which you can claim from age 60 for a start!


 
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I'm 50 at Christmas and would retire tomorrow if i could.
However, my youngest daughter is only 11, our mortgage has about 16 years to run (although we are over-paying a little)
Its unlikely we'll inherit anything life changing, so can't see any way out before our mid-60s really.
Only things in our favour are we both earn decent money, are both paying a decent amount into workplace pensions, and could always downsize our house to kill off the mortgage/release funds.
Lots of people in my industry (Defence - Engineering) do a bit of contract work post-retirement so thati s always an option.


 
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I would do BBQ everyday if I retire ... 🙂


 
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There’s no need to rush when retired and more than one thing at a time may cause mental overload if your marbles are going.

Its not the same thing in this case (and the latter is not the case either in this instance) Your right though there is no need to rush which is a wonderful thing but I know even younger retirees who have few interests outside work and seem to struggle to "fill" that ex-work time. Thats not to say that people should always be motivated to be hyper active and embracing the idleness is no bad thing to an extent but at what point does being enjoyably idle become going to seed...
I do think for me there needs to be "intention" and that can be spending the morning walking the dog and the afternoon reading a book. There doesn't have to be urgency unless you want it.


 
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There is of course a broader societal question about in a sustainable society what proportion of a life should be spent growing/learning/preparing, what proportion serving/contributing, and what proportion being supported or 'treading water'. Of course just because you are not working for money doesn't mean you are not being productive, you could be looking after grandkids, supporting others or doing voluntary work, but a lot of most retirees time is spent indulgently. I do wonder if in time society will have to concern itself with how much of a life can be spent as a passenger. 50 odd years ago with the invention of more labour saving devices and great ter automation, I think most would have thought we were moving towards increased retirement leisure. And we did, but now we appear to be going the other way again.


 
Posted : 07/04/2022 4:30 pm
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You’ll have a fair few years in ‘Premium’ which you can claim from age 60 for a start!

So 60 is the absolute earliest I could retire or partially retire - in the context of examples on here, and my faltering health and mental health, that's not early enough


 
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I do wonder if in time society will have to concern itself how much of a life can be spent as a passenger

The state pension was designed when men were expected to only claim it for 3-4 years, iirc - it's a very valid point about how we can afford to support ever larger numbers of retired people with ever growing lists of medical conditions and care needs.

Certainly, health permitting (and bearing in mind if I could somehow retire at 60, I may well have caring responsibilities for my parents in their 90s and a wife who's disability will impact her more as she gets older) I'd intend putting in 2-3 days a week in some sort of voluntary capacity as long as I can, for the mental and physical benefits as much as anything else


 
Posted : 07/04/2022 4:36 pm
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So I’ve got 3 weeks left before retiring at the age of 63. I enjoy the work but I don’t think I’ll miss the social side so much because the last two years has been WTF because of Covid. I went down to 4 day weeks about 3 years ago and am looking forward to spending all my time on travelling, riding,learning to play the bass competently and DIY/Gardening/pottering around the house. I also have in mind that one of my predecessors retired from the job and was dead within a year - it certainly makes you think.

One friend after his retirement signed up for an OU UG degree

I can imagine doing this, not because I’d be bored but because there are so many things I find interesting it would be good to pursue one in more of a focused way.


 
Posted : 07/04/2022 4:55 pm
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Hadn't really given it much thought, I don't think we'll be in a position to retire early (already had and long since spent my small inheritence, earning ok now but not mega money, and I've spent a long time earning not very much at all!) but I would if I could. My dad didn't retire early but he pretty much stopped living when he DID retire, and he didn't last very long, so I hope to keep myself busy (although I'm fabulously lazy by nature) - did some seasons as a campsite courier and would love to go back to something like that, if they'd take old gits (and I can get a fricking visa).


 
Posted : 07/04/2022 4:59 pm
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Alot depends on health and how you are planning on going into retirement. Health good here, and I think early 60's is best for me to maximise the current pension schemes - we shall see. In laws, especially MIL wasn't in good heath as it was when they retired, and after a heart attack then stroke in her late 60's has been a bit knackered since, she's 85 now.

My folks retired around 65, and so far, so good, have had a good 10 years enjoying themselves and are in reasonable condition. Dad can't walk as far as he'd like due to dodgy knees, but he won't get them replaced. He can walk to the pub for a couple of pints, so he's happy.

I'm not going to inherit anything, but I've been in a pension since I was 18. Whilst my pension will be OK, MrsF's won't - all low return private stuff.


 
Posted : 07/04/2022 5:29 pm
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So 60 is the absolute earliest I could retire or partially retire – in the context of examples on here, and my faltering health and mental health, that’s not early enough

Remember that STW posters (at least the ones who'll publicly discuss their finances) tend to be unusually wealthy! In the UK, average retirement age for men is 64.7, according to the latest stats I can find. So 60 is considerably better than most. My folks recently retired at 67.

Totally sympathise with the health concerns tho. It's a worry for me too.


 
Posted : 07/04/2022 5:41 pm
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The state pension was designed when men were expected to only claim it for 3-4 years, iirc – it’s a very valid point about how we can afford to support ever larger numbers of retired people with ever growing lists of medical conditions and care needs.

Also a function of improving medicine / health care. Each time you cure one age realted issue, you just allow the patient to live longer and thus increase the likely hood of more issues down the line. Eg Statins / stents etc, rather than drop dead in their 50s from sudden heart attacks they now spend decades deteriorating with dementia, arthtitis, diabetes, etc.


 
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Remember that STW posters (at least the ones who’ll publicly discuss their finances) tend to be unusually wealthy!

Hardly surprising though on a forum where push bikes costing £10k+ get reviewed!


 
Posted : 07/04/2022 6:02 pm
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Retired a year early at 52 due to osteoarthritis. Even with a new hip they wouldn’t have me back. I worked for a couple of years after I had it replaced but once the twins graduated we worked out we were financially secure so my wife retired as well.

There is a risk of slipping into a sort of drifting mediocrity, but I devote my time to my hobbies, one of which can be made to pay, and music. I’d had to give up singing while I worked due to shifts and now sing in two choirs, and am back to playing bass and guitar. Mrs Scape volunteers for Victim Support, a food bank and as a school governor.
We can drop everything and travel (pandemic permitting).

It ain’t boring, I don’t think I’ve ever been busier.


 
Posted : 07/04/2022 6:42 pm
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I plan on a possible change in direction, and a pension would help with loss of income. Surprisingly, so many people have asked if I could help them, I’d probably be able to do whatever work that I fancy. Then it feels more like play than work.

Getting the kids off the payroll and making a dent in the mortgage would be a good start. The pension pot will help with the latter.


 
Posted : 07/04/2022 9:29 pm
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I'm finding this thread very interesting, my wife and I have been thinking about our future a lot recently. We're only 42, but we've lost 3 out of 4 parents in the last 5 years (2 within just the last year) and now the 4th is in hospital.

It's a cliche, but this sort of thing just gets you thinking. Time is invaluable.

We've done no serious financial planning yet. My wife has just taken another job with less hours meaning she can pick the little one up from school every day. At some point in the near future I'd like to drop a day.

I'm lucky I'm in a good job, I'm good at it and I enjoy it, my colleagues are sound and i don't have a commute. But I know I could walk away tomorrow without a second thought.

I don't want to stick it out for another 20 years and then something happens and I'm physically ****ed or worse.


 
Posted : 07/04/2022 10:20 pm
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My dad 50 retired at 50, I'm 51 and feel like I'm only just starting to get good at what I do and I think the most interesting bit  of my career is yet to come. I've never given any thought to retirement in the sense that I don't plan for it (I don't think I really ever plan more than a fortnight into the future) I don't imagine it  and I don't feel like theres an aspect of my life that is on hold or deferred til I retire.

My girlfriend's mum waited til she'd put her own children through their educations before going to uni herself at 55 and is still working with fierce enthusiasm at 85.


 
Posted : 07/04/2022 10:41 pm
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Also finding this interesting. 50, with 2yrs left on the mortgage but probably 10 years of funding children and hoping to stop work at 60. I’m currently shoving money in places to have a decent retirement fund and then hoping to ease off work a bit when the mortgage is gone.

Mrs K at 44 is one of these people that takes every day as it comes… but only up until today. She utterly refuses to thing about the next few years which makes planning a vision of our retired future a bit one sided.


 
Posted : 07/04/2022 10:47 pm
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Retire when you are financially able with a healthy body.

Work until retire and with all the stress, you might get the money but you might also drop dead within a short time.

Just remembered a colleague of mine who was nearing his retirement at that time (we could see his health deteriorating) but continued to work until his actual retirement, within two years his health deteriorated badly and died.

Look at you family members' age when they died and their health, perhaps that is a good indication of your life as well. i.e. you have their genes.


 
Posted : 07/04/2022 11:36 pm
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Does anyone else find it a little sad that retiring at 60 odd counts as early retirement?


 
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