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My two girls are getting to the curious stage where they know how to google stuff and I caught one of them and her wee pal searching for sexy bums a few days ago.
The ipad stays in the same room as us, but even so, they can clearly land on some very dodgy sites within a few clicks.
We're on Plusnet, and they have a parental control in conjunction with macafee. A quick google recommends Net Nanny as the one to get.

My experience with stuff like macafee and norton in the PC past was dire, slowing everything down.

Any recommendations?


 
Posted : 21/12/2014 9:26 pm
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Tell them not to do it.


 
Posted : 21/12/2014 9:28 pm
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Scotroutes - have you ever met a child?!


 
Posted : 21/12/2014 9:31 pm
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Tell them not to do it.

Lots of stuff I was told not do as a kid, I did anyway and was a master at not getting caught. I worry they may have inherited my ninja stealth brat skills.


 
Posted : 21/12/2014 9:41 pm
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[quote=bedmaker ]Lots of stuff I was told not do as a kid, I did anyway and was a master at not getting caught. I worry they may have inherited my ninja stealth brat skills.Would you be disappointed if your children grew up to be like you?


 
Posted : 21/12/2014 9:47 pm
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Would you be disappointed if your children grew up to be like you?

No, I wouldnt. But I'm asking the original question simply because I think six years old is too young for my child to watch video footage of a girl choking on a hiuge cock being rammed down her throat, along with the other joys one can find on the internet if access is uncontrolled. 🙄


 
Posted : 21/12/2014 9:56 pm
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It can't be controlled. It's the world. Accept that.
Best you can do is mitigate it by talking to them and giving them a framework for reference.
Not an easy thing to do.


 
Posted : 21/12/2014 10:32 pm
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Have you considered OpenDNS?

https://www.opendns.com/

By changing your DNS servers to theirs you get fantastic control over content. And it's free, FWIW.


 
Posted : 21/12/2014 10:50 pm
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I'd recommend opendns. It's easy to set up, it's free and works very well IME.

Edit: Beaten to it by the post above.


 
Posted : 21/12/2014 10:53 pm
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We talk to them about it, and lay down law about what.
Open DNS
Computers/phones/wahatever in public rooms.
Router shut down at 11, not on until 7am.
No TV's in their rooms.
I have all their passwords.
We limit screen time.
I accept they will do it at somepoint.

Sadly, we have a friend who has a 13 year old addicted to porn already.
It is a scary online world out there.


 
Posted : 21/12/2014 11:23 pm
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Thanks for the suggestions guys. Will check out opendns in the morning


 
Posted : 22/12/2014 12:02 am
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Another vote for opendns here.


 
Posted : 22/12/2014 8:10 am
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OpenDNS here as well. Some routers have it built in now which makes it easier if you don't have a fixed IP address.


 
Posted : 22/12/2014 8:26 am
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Sadly, we have a friend who has a 13 year old [s]addicted to porn already.[/s]

The rest of that sentence is redundant.


 
Posted : 22/12/2014 9:23 am

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