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Shibboleth - Member

the diabetic who insisted on injecting herself in full view in a busy restaurant,

Quite right too, nothing shameful about it and nobody will see who isn't looking.

Too young for me MnTax I'm old enough to be the winking OAP 🙂

I got 'winked at' by a 62 year old over the weekend (i'm 37) which made me laugh - he might be being a tad optimistic. I can also read some negatives into that but i'm resolutely ignoring them!!! (although I did put up some more youthful looking photos!).

One of the girls I met online showed me some of the emails she'd received from other guys on the same site.

One guy who freely admitted wanting "a bit on the side while he was working away from home", someone who'd sent through an itemised list of requirements for a first date (right down to exactly how she would be expected to suck him off), all sorts of right weirdos.

Reading it was very entertaining but I can see why she wasn't impressed!

If you have seen my photo and think I look older, I don't want to know

I wouldn't. Email in profile 😎

I was recently "matched" with some nutter who's profile included some very random text about how she was looking for someone to set her heart free from the tower in which it was imprisoned. Really made me want to contact her for a date!!

Another one had loads of photos with her pet rabbits "who she lived with" - the way it was all written she clearly treat them as housemates rather than fox-fodder...

One of my girly mates has set up her own website to post up the messages and photo's received from various losers, weirdo's and perverts who proposition her on dating sites.

I'd post the link up, but I fear some of them may be recognisable 😆

Is she fit?

You know her. She abuses you on a regular basis

😆

Need. URL.

[i]You know her. She abuses you on a regular basis[/i]

He's got his own sub-site, hasn't he?

Quite right too, nothing shameful about it and nobody will see who isn't looking.

Nothing shameful about diabetes, but injecting whilst people are eating is downright disrespectful and rude.

binners
She abuses you on a regular basis

I think you'll find that's an entirely different and somewhat more, er, specialised, website.......... 😉

Hold on a minute, Binners knows [b]GIRLS[/b]?? really?? Poor girls!! 😉

Poor girls!!

I gather he'll shag rich ones too.

Nothing shameful about diabetes, but injecting whilst people are eating is downright disrespectful and rude.

deliberate troll surely?

[quote=Shibboleth ]
Nothing shameful about diabetes, but injecting whilst people are eating is downright disrespectful and rude.
Really?

[i]deliberate troll surely?[/i]

Don't think so Phil. I agree with Shibboleth. Wife had a woman at work who used to inject herself at the lunch table.
Well, wouldn't say disrespectful & rude - just no need for it.

This thread needs one of these..

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It wouldnt personally bother me but not everyone likes needles / injections so I'd agree that I think it's a bit rude shooting up in a restaurant, whatever the reason. Easy enough to be done with a bit of subtlety...

I hate needles and injections but thankfully my neck and eyes remain fully usable so I've retained the ability not to look directly at things that my "upset" me.

[i]wouldn't leave my house for 2 days![/i]
😯

[i]Oh... they're all ba5tards. [/i]
Err, I wouldn't go there if I were you. Not after what happened to me a few pages back.
😉

Why inject at the dinner table at work? Its not one of those 'freedom/lifestyle choices' that needs to be vaunted. For some people have a needle phobia, cleanliness etc etc. Just no need.

I was in the pub once and a mates husband did this infront of us. He said when you need to go you need to go. True and tbh in a pub where else is clean? However work......

It's like taking a piss or being naked, both healthy and hygenic, but probably liable to make people uneasy in a public dining room.

[i]I hate needles and injections but thankfully my neck and eyes remain fully usable so I've retained the ability not to look directly at things that my "upset" me.[/i]

You guys kill me 😆

or breastfeeding??

however i would say g do as druidH says and avert your gaze if the view offends

Would not bother me tbh

deliberate troll surely?

Absolutely not, I'm needle-phobic ever since I got a knife pushed right through the back of my hand. Can't ever watch a needle going in, can't even look at hyperdermics without feeling queasy.

I'd explained this to her but she told me it was just because I wasn't used to it, then made a big song and dance about doing it in full view, drawing attention to herself in the process.

I excused myself - rather than be made to feel ill - and the date never really recovered. This resulted in her getting paralytic. The woman was a complete tool and is still single.

She was fit though, so I did the decent thing and knocked the back out of her. 😉

True gent 😉

Can't ever watch a needle going in, can't even look at hyperdermics without feeling queasy.

So look the other way? Fair enough if she made a big scene to get everyone's attention, but that would be rude regardless of what she was doing. Normally I'd go somewhere out of the way, but sometimes needs must. I can't think of a place I wouldnt inject, as I am fully and acutely aware of the consequences of not.

So look the other way?

Erm, how about having enough respect for the person that's taken you out to dinner and maybe just finding a quiet corner if it was absolutely necessary???

Or does diabetes have direct impact on manners and social skills as well as an inability to produce insulin?

No, but I (and I imagine others do) value my health over other peoples view of my 'manners and social skills'. Like I said, I'll try to be descreet, but that's not always possible. It's not as if she asked you to inject her.

Yep, tool. 🙄

Absolutely not, I'm needle-phobic ever since I got a knife pushed right through the back of my hand. Can't ever watch a needle going in, can't even look at hyperdermics without feeling queasy.

I'd explained this to her but she told me it was just because I wasn't used to it, then made a big song and dance about doing it in full view, drawing attention to herself in the process.

I excused myself - rather than be made to feel ill - and the date never really recovered. This resulted in her getting paralytic. The woman was a complete tool and is still single.

She was fit though, so I did the decent thing and knocked the back out of her.

Looks like there was more than one prick on that date then 😆 😉

Would a breast feeding woman feel comfortable if a man stared?

I think this attitude is symptomatic of a modern society where everyone is hell-bent on exercising their "rights" without a second thought to their responsibilities or other people's feelings.

I'm perfectly within my rights to defaecate in my own hand and smear it all over my face, but I wouldn't do it on a first date or in a busy restaurant.

Shibboleth - Member

I'd explained this to her but she told me it was just because I wasn't used to it, then made a big song and dance about doing it in full view, drawing attention to herself in the process.

No, [i]you[/i] made a big song and dance about it.

For future reference- avert your eyes, or if you're that squeamish, you politely leave the table, as it is you that has a problem.

Shibboleth - Member

I think this attitude is symptomatic of a modern society where everyone is hell-bent on exercising their "rights" without a second thought to their responsibilities or other people's feelings.

Ironically, this is exactly what you're doing by making people with a medical issue feel like freaks. Why do you think you have a [i]right[/i] to object to someone else going about their life? What else should be shut away because it might be offensive to someone?

I'm perfectly within my rights to defaecate in my own hand and smear it all over my face, but I wouldn't do it on a first date or in a busy restaurant.

Pretty sure that would be covered under the public order act were you to do it in public, so no you aren't. Feel free to try though.

Do you have to do it multiple times a day, in order to stay alive? Again, feel free to do so.

Moron 🙄

edit: As this is just going to descend into a slanging match, I'm out. Have fun kids.

It's never crossed my mind that folk might be offended by diabetics injecting in public.

Are you sure she was paralytic? A hypo in some folk can appear the same.

Ironically, this is exactly what you're doing by making people with a medical issue feel like freaks. Why do you think you have a right to object to someone else going about their life? What else should be shut away because it might be offensive to someone?

Wrong. The overwhelming majority of people would rather not see someone injecting themselves whilst eating. Anybody with manners would have excused themselves and found a quiet area so as not to risk offending people they didn't know who were paying to enjoy a dining experience in pleasant surroundings.

Anyone that thinks otherwise is a complete moron and deserves the total lack of respect that I was kind enough to bestow on the young woman in question.

And no, her life did NOT depend on doing it there and then. 🙄

Are you sure she was paralytic?

2 gin and tonics washed down with a bottle of Pinot Noir, followed up with a large brandy... Yep, I'm quite certain she was paralytic. I was driving. 🙁

Shibboleth - Member

Wrong. The overwhelming majority of people would rather not see someone injecting themselves whilst eating.

And can simply look somewhere else, [i]if[/i] they notice at all.

I appreciate that phobias are irrational and can be unpleasant so it's understandable that your reaction is also irrational and unpleasant, but your desire to not be offended is secondary to everyone else's right to go about their lives normally.

[quote=Shibboleth said]I'm perfectly within my rights to defaecate in my own hand and smear it all over my face, but I wouldn't do it on a first date or in a busy restaurant.

Deffo second date stuff that.

No surprise that after a during a date with someone displaying such selfish ignorance she decided to blank out reality with alcohol.

Was in a pub once and a woman nearby was changing a small child's nappy on a nearby table. That was a bit much.

Went elsewhere to eat.

If someone said "I'm phobic/squeamish about needles" it takes a bit of a twunt to inject in front of them IMO.

No surprise that after a during a date with someone displaying such selfish ignorance she decided to blank out reality with alcohol.

Very true. Does diabetes prevent people from sobering up for 2 days and heighten their sex drive? 😉

Allthepies - comment of the year so far! 😀

Come people, we're veering off-topic here. Happy to read another thread (or not) about the etiquette of injecting in a restaurant, but right here I want hilarious gossip about online dating since, as per the other thread, too many of us are having to live vicariously through threads like this one.

"the overwhelming majority" - really? Is this based on your own research?

Agree with nicko. Start a new topic but not on here

[i]It's never crossed my mind that folk might be offended by diabetics injecting in public.[/i]

So you're diabetic then?
My mate goes out of the office to the back room, when he needs to inject. I'm sure its never crossed his mind to inject in the staff restaurant.

[edit]yeah stop thiese people trying to show how modern and tolerant they are 🙂

This thread was funny till the wierdos arrived.

So it's fine to laugh AT the wierdo's, just not WITH them........ 😉

So you're diabetic then?

No??

But this thread has gone way too far off track.

 

Can we get back on topic

hora - Member

Can we get back on topic

So you were saying, it's cross-shaped??

Best read in ages.........

Met a doll from America who was over here at Uni. Went for a pizza.

I picked her up in my car and while eating the pizza I noticed she was eating with one hand, other hand under the table.

Turned out she had celebral palsy down one side.

She was a lovely girl until she wanted me to go to Florida with her to live (second date).

left her home and she gave me a thomas the tank on her sofa, blocked her on skype and never saw her again!

Its a jungle out there!

Online Dating experiences...
Well, my single experience of online dating is sat on the Sofa, with 6 & 7 yr old further reminders of the whole episode... 🙂