OK So i give up .Wh...
 

  You don't need to be an 'investor' to invest in Singletrack: 6 days left: 95% of target - Find out more

[Closed] OK So i give up .What IS this woman's problem ?

19 Posts
15 Users
0 Reactions
79 Views
Posts: 4599
Free Member
Topic starter
 

Been working at this care home now for a couple of months.After the 1st month the woman in question said she was really impressed with my work.In her words the place has never been so clean and fresh smelling .She even phoned my boss to tell her and left a thank you note in my signing in book.I thanked her for what she had done.
All ok so far but since.She totally blanks me i could be stood next to her and say good morning and i'm Mr Invisible .Tried a bit of light hearted chit chat nothing that required more than a smile and yeah thats right .Nothing so now i think it's best to ignore her ?What puzzles me is if she is naturally quiet and reserved why bother to praise my work and go to the trouble of phoning my boss ?Before you get the wrong idea i am most definetly not coming on to her !At my age i've forgotten how to !She is the only member of staff like that so don't get it at all .Ignoring her isn't a problem it just bugs me thats all.


 
Posted : 26/10/2009 2:18 pm
Posts: 0
Free Member
 

Go on strike. Solves everything.


 
Posted : 26/10/2009 2:21 pm
Posts: 17834
 

Ask her outright Mr F if you have done something wrong!!


 
Posted : 26/10/2009 2:22 pm
Posts: 919
Free Member
 

Its PMT.


 
Posted : 26/10/2009 2:24 pm
Posts: 19914
Free Member
 

Leave the place in a right old smelly state for a couple of days. I bet she starts talking then! 😉


 
Posted : 26/10/2009 2:26 pm
Posts: 50252
Free Member
 

Badly fitted buttplug causing her some discomfort?


 
Posted : 26/10/2009 2:27 pm
Posts: 0
Free Member
 

She thinks you're coming on to her though.

Back off a bit and by the time the Xmas party rolls around she'll be burping your worm in a store cupboard guaranteed.


 
Posted : 26/10/2009 2:30 pm
Posts: 4599
Free Member
Topic starter
 

BlingBling burping my worm ?
How can i be coming on to her ?Not done anything .


 
Posted : 26/10/2009 2:33 pm
Posts: 0
Free Member
 

what did I say about wearing those crotchless dungarees to work? its not post modern irony, its scary.


 
Posted : 26/10/2009 2:42 pm
Posts: 3167
Full Member
 

Maybe she left you a suggestive note and you missed it but someone else found it. They then took the micky and she thinks you told this third party about the things she had expressed wanting to do to you.


 
Posted : 26/10/2009 2:42 pm
Posts: 4599
Free Member
Topic starter
 

Mr Nutt remind me do i know you ?You seem to know me a little to well.mtbfix just take a look at knotties quantocks pics from a couple of weekends ago.i am the one waving the stick !that should explain why the notion of anyone coming on to me is ridiculous ! 🙄


 
Posted : 26/10/2009 2:49 pm
Posts: 1
Free Member
 

Maybe she was friends with one of the Burning ostriches?!


 
Posted : 26/10/2009 2:50 pm
Posts: 4599
Free Member
Topic starter
 

this thread is getting weird .Burning ostriches ?


 
Posted : 26/10/2009 2:52 pm
Posts: 17834
 

STW guys in smutty replies shocker


 
Posted : 26/10/2009 2:53 pm
Posts: 2
Free Member
 

Hang her and make it look like an accident, that's what I normally do in these 'awkward' situations.


 
Posted : 26/10/2009 2:54 pm
Posts: 0
Free Member
 

Is this really HER problem? She goes out of her way to make sure people know you do a good job, doesn't neccesarily mean she wants to be friends.


 
Posted : 26/10/2009 2:55 pm
Posts: 0
Free Member
 

But surely you should know whats wrong! 😉


 
Posted : 26/10/2009 2:56 pm
Posts: 0
Free Member
 

Could just be the way she is. We have a mildly aspergic bloke at work who will completely blank you in a corridor, but is fine in other environments.


 
Posted : 26/10/2009 3:06 pm
Posts: 0
Free Member
 

Just ask her politely if there is anything wrong with your relationship? No harm there surely - ask her if your work is still up to standard?


 
Posted : 26/10/2009 3:14 pm
Posts: 0
Free Member
 

Join a union. Problem solved

Although I do like Dobbo's advice


 
Posted : 26/10/2009 3:48 pm

6 DAYS LEFT
We are currently at 95% of our target!