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Hi Chaps,

It's my missus' 40th this month, and I'm proper stumped with that to buy her.

We've been together 8 years, and getting married next year.

We don't want for anything really, and she's not at all materialistic. We've simplified the bike collection to one decent mtb each, and a road bike each.

We do everything together, and have all the kit we need for those things really.

We run, mtb, road ride, mountain walk, winter walk, climb, and do dog related activites - like walking everyday up hills with the pooches.

Anyone got any ideas?

I've a few, but nothing that she would see as a 'special' gift.

I did think of buying her a road bike frame, and building it from her rather poor alu frame. But that's rather expensive....

Cheers,

Ricks


 
Posted : 04/10/2013 12:29 pm
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Mini break somewhere she has always wanted to go


 
Posted : 04/10/2013 12:30 pm
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Skills course? 😉


 
Posted : 04/10/2013 12:32 pm
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Mini break somewhere she has always wanted to go

Yeah, take her somewhere.


 
Posted : 04/10/2013 12:34 pm
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show her this thread - if that does not make her feel special then pfft women eh


 
Posted : 04/10/2013 12:39 pm
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Enter her for an event and then buy something related to that
I entered Mrs J for a half marathon and bought her a new GPS running watch to help with the training.


 
Posted : 04/10/2013 12:41 pm
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Yeah, take her somewhere.

Perhaps a well known eatery on the South Bank in London.......


 
Posted : 04/10/2013 12:41 pm
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Another vote for taking her somewhere special.. Allthough you'd benefit too which may/may not please her..

What about some sort of Spa W/e for her and her Mum??


 
Posted : 04/10/2013 12:44 pm
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Falconry. Ideally with a free ticket.


 
Posted : 04/10/2013 12:49 pm
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mini-break worked for me!


 
Posted : 04/10/2013 12:51 pm
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Yeah, take her somewhere.

Perhaps a well known eatery on the South Bank in London...

Take her up the [url= http://www.harveynichols.com/oxo-tower-london-restaurant ]Oxo tower[/url]?

oh wait that's not southbank.


 
Posted : 04/10/2013 12:53 pm
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If she's 40 bin her and spend the money on a Thai Bride?


 
Posted : 04/10/2013 12:56 pm
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Yeah somewhere special or an experience she'd enjoy (I'm not sure that taking her up the Oxo would count)...

Took MrsDaRC to the opera in Florence, it was worth at least 2 MTB trips away in brownie points 😀 (mind you she'd upped the anti by getting me a new SantaCruz for my 40th)


 
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Def take her somewhere.

If you're into your food, have a look at a dinner, bed and breakfast deal at a michelin starred hotel or similar, they're not as expensive as you may think.

Or hire a nice little cottage somewhere good for the dogs, and find somewhere nice for dinner.


 
Posted : 04/10/2013 12:58 pm
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Fasthaggis....might lead to a burnt [[b]Stop it now!. Mods. [/b]]


 
Posted : 04/10/2013 1:07 pm
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I have no idea what you are on about Mr Flasheart 😯


 
Posted : 04/10/2013 1:08 pm
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some 34DD's?


 
Posted : 04/10/2013 1:10 pm
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Ahem...

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Posted : 04/10/2013 1:11 pm
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You can buy breaks with your tesco vouchers, we have a spa break every year foc on them. Take her to a spa and buy her a decent treatment.


 
Posted : 04/10/2013 1:11 pm
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A mini rickon?


 
Posted : 04/10/2013 2:13 pm
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Mini-break and an eternity ring worked here.

CFH - spat drink here, especially with Mods update. 😆


 
Posted : 04/10/2013 2:30 pm
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Mines 40 next month. We're going to Paris for a long weekend, though we're going dutch on that, i'm going to surprise her with a Pamper day at some posh pampering place with a friend (have no idea where to start looking for that!). She's been hinting for years about an eternity ring so I could surprise her with that - but it means dipping into my Rochshox Pikes fund 🙁


 
Posted : 04/10/2013 2:36 pm
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^^ what about an eternity "O" ring 😆


 
Posted : 04/10/2013 2:43 pm
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but it means dipping into my Rochshox Pikes fund

Unless you're buying several sets you'll be more than dipping.


 
Posted : 04/10/2013 2:45 pm
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Why don't you ask her what she wants?


 
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Star Wars Lego


 
Posted : 04/10/2013 3:04 pm
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Radical idea...

Buy her a bike/frame better than yours - I speak from experience, you won't regret it.

I recently upgraded my wife's bike to a Soul - built to 23lb. Now we're out every weekend 🙂


 
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She's 40, so its time [b]you[/b] went shopping for an upgrade


 
Posted : 04/10/2013 3:17 pm
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Why don't you ask her what she wants?

She doesn't want anything. And she really does mean it.

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She hates spas, or sitting around, or walking around cities, or any of that kind of stuff. So Paris etc is out of the question.

A frame upgrade would be nice.

I did buy her a Turner Sultan last year, and built it to the same spec as mine - so there's not much to upgrade really.

I did think I could buy her some XTR shifters, to replace the XTs. But it feels a little bit wrong as a birthday gift.

Or maybe some very bling wheels...

The road frame upgrade is the only thing I'm thinking, but it's coming up to winter, and up here in Scotland it's icy for a lot of the time.

Damn it! She's too difficult.


 
Posted : 04/10/2013 3:25 pm
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A Hawk Walk, Falconry experience is really magical. Don't go buying gift card though just get in touch with them direct.


 
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Pop into your local art gallery..


 
Posted : 04/10/2013 3:33 pm
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Mini-break and an eternity ring worked here.

That's just spoiling them. My missus had a long weekend in Paris for her 30th and had to wait another 10 years for an eternity ring.

Now have 9 years to think of something for 50th. Maybe she'd like a rabbit 😯


 
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Flashy, you are on a roll here. The photo is a lateral classic!!


 
Posted : 04/10/2013 4:09 pm
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She likes maps doesn't she? Get her some map related art work?

Mind you I'm terrible at this sort of stuff, in case you hadn't noticed. 😮


 
Posted : 04/10/2013 4:30 pm
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mini-break could be something one-off like a pakrafting bike/camp, Skye bike trip, canoe/bike combo, etc or some such.


 
Posted : 04/10/2013 4:31 pm
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The video won't embed, but here is the link

[url= http://FunnyOrDie.com/m/4upe ]Perfect gift.[/url]


 
Posted : 04/10/2013 5:11 pm
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Print or painting of her favourite location/ride/place....
Or a ped egg.


 
Posted : 04/10/2013 9:56 pm
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Aubade, Lelo... What could possibly go wrong?


 
Posted : 04/10/2013 11:42 pm
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I bought my wife a shed for her 40th. We did have a weekend away as well but I reckon if had been one or the other she'd have gone for the shed.


 
Posted : 04/10/2013 11:48 pm
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[url= https://www.trollbeads.com/united-kingdom/en-gb/products ]Trollbead bracelet[/url] you'll never be stuck for a present again and they seem to do a bead for everything!


 
Posted : 04/10/2013 11:56 pm
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Presume you have an engagement ring sorted already? You can have a nice piece of jewellery made and engraved for a lot less than you'd pay in the shops.


 
Posted : 05/10/2013 12:49 pm
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If she likes running get her an entry to a foreign race somewhere, although of course it could get expensive...


 
Posted : 05/10/2013 12:55 pm
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my wife wanted a wood burning hot tub for hers


 
Posted : 05/10/2013 2:14 pm
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Or a ped egg.

Thanks, ive got coffee all over my laptop now 😀


 
Posted : 05/10/2013 2:24 pm
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Its actually my missusis(S) 40th next week.

I though a couple of nights in London followed by a week in Croatia would seal it but last night she decided "that's not really a present, is it?"

Seems we would of gone on holiday anyway, even if it wasn't her birthday. 🙄


 
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As you said you do everything together, why not buy her a day out with a friend?
If she doesn't like cities, how about a theme park or a concert?

I would also get a special piece of jewellery, maybe a bracelet.
She may not be into much jewellery, but it is still a nice keepsake.


 
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my wife wanted a wood burning hot tub for hers


oooh - now I fancy one of those.
I wonder if that tin bath over a fire that they showed in the New Zealand adverts a few years ago would actually be a goer.


 
Posted : 05/10/2013 8:02 pm

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