oldmanmtb2
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Dont get ranted at… my other half prefers to give me a detailed review of everything I have done wrong that day supported by blaming me for all the things that went wrong in her day that i have no control over.Its ****ing wearing.
That sounds toxic. Get out.
I long ago learned that practical advice doesn’t help (unless in accordance with what she’s already doing), the value I bring to it is solely listening sympathetically and nodding in all the right places.
Women are from venus, men are from Mars.
My GF got a copy and since then we tend not to get so wound up.
I don't do my usual of offering a way to help.
We seem to be working more as a team recently. It's against the world. She's slowly coming round to my way of thinking that you need to look after yourself before others. Selfish, maybe, but it's my way of coping.