[Closed] Help needed! Getting out of the friend zone!

I thought nbt was gay too.

'snot gay if you don't push back

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nbt's not gay?

'snot gay if you don't push back

(C)[s]sir[/s] jimmy saville 1976

notoriously bi turnip

Not between those?

no bum todgering

oops tried posing a link for youtube but would not work. I'm not gay though!

OP has gone suspiciously quiet. So either him and his intended are rogering away trying to make up for all the wasted years, or he's thrown himself down a well. What is it?

(never before teatime)

Still here, just been busy at work. Tried calling her yesterday, though no answer. I should be seeing her this weekend!

I thought you were seeing her for dinner on Monday?

I should be seeing her this weekend!

Good luck!

Make sure you don't let condoms fall out of your wallet when you pay the bill.

OP hate to tell you this but she didn't answer the phone as she was busy being rogered by her new fella. She'll tell you all about it in great detail on the weekend. HTH 😉

It could be you'll get a knock back the first time but she'll warm to the idea with some reflection

What you need to do is "plant the seed".

(Sorry).

You tried calling her and there was no answer = she has read this thread, doomed laddy your doomed 😉

Sorry to go back a page, but: NBT's not gay?

Another vote here for 'just do it', from another person who has been married for 11 years and has 2 kids with my best friend (for 5 years, prior to getting together, after my divorce).

A friendship is a very good basis for a deeper relationship, knowing someone well before you start certainly helped us! Its a bit of a risky moment when you do take the plunge, but worth it.

Sorry to go back a page, but: NBT's not gay?

Also I like what bigdaddy has written above.

Its a bit of a risky moment when you do take the plunge

Might be a good idea to tie some rope round your waist and the other end round the bed post, just in case.

You can't plant the seed unless you take the plunge.

Plant the seed, let it grow into a plant...then you **** THE PLANT!

Any updates? dithering minds need to know

are you flying high or drowning your sorrows? update please.

Whatever happens- it'll work out ok in the end..
But c'mon, tell us!

she's seen this thread. That "could" work for you. HEY LADY this guy's ok, he's on stw! I'm sure he's perfectly normal!

**** THE PLANT
. Good advice.

C'mon O.P. I don't watch soaps so lurking on here is my vicarious living. I need to know how this turned out!!!

I hope your lack of an update means you're still round there giving her one.

The silence is deafening

I've been friends with her for 13 years

Good luck, you are going to need it!

Best thing you can do is find another girl and try and take her out for a drink within a couple of weeks, rather than taking 13 years.

... keeping the dream alive... any update?

He's balls deep in lurve

Let's hope it's not a case of...

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that's preposterous

a gentleman never takes ice with whisky

That's hers, not his

A mercy killing perhaps

I smell shame.

The only shame there has been is the fact that this time I had to cancel due to work.

We have booked tickets to see les mis on the in two weeks, however I don't want to wait that long.

I'm going to ring her when I come of nights

Just do it! For Christ sake put us out of our misery! 😉

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FFS, stop thinking of yourself and think of us

FFS, stop thinking of yourself and think of us

Will do!

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Argh this is more painful than a Nora Ephron film!

We have booked tickets to see les mis on the in two weeks

There's a suspicion she thinks you're gay, so you're taking her to see a musical? Well, I suppose if Kylie isn't touring isn't on at the moment, that'll just have to do 😆

Priscilla Queen of the Desert is also touring

The only shame there has been is the fact that this time I had to cancel due to work.

I'm going to be honest. I don't think you like her [i]that[/i] much. If you did you'd act asap. Let someone else go out with her and you stick to being Raj Koothrappali.

Sorry, if you fancied her that much you'd have done it by now. Men being men- once we want something we take it. If its a no we move onto the next.

Lol @ hora's big bang reference! I told you that he was the bloke to ask in the first few posts of this thread 🙂

hora - Member

Sorry, if you fancied her that much you'd have done it by now. Me being hora- once I want something I buy it, decide I don't want it and sell it next week.

FTFY

binners - Member

We have booked tickets to see les mis on the in two weeks

There's a suspicion she thinks you're gay, so you're taking her to see a musical? Well, I suppose if Kylie isn't touring isn't on at the moment, that'll just have to do

Has he actually catagorically stated he's not gay ??

Hold on.... is he actually a BLOKE ? he could be a girl ? this would make so much more sense if he's a female !!!

There's a suspicion she thinks you're gay, so you're taking her to see a musical? Well, I suppose if Kylie isn't touring isn't on at the moment, that'll just have to do

Sorry, if you fancied her that much you'd have done it by now. Me being hora- once I want something I buy it, decide I don't want it and sell it next week.

😆

You're right weeksy. There could be some half rice/half chips going on here

Men being men - once we want something we take it.

Hora! Surely you're not suggesting.....

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😯

No, think of it as those new shiny 55 RC3 Ti forks you've been looking at on the wall at your local bike shop. One day you think 'I'm having those' and you slip your Credit card into the shop-keep's hand.

The OP on the other hand will still be down at the male sauna before popping out to be buy some new tight jeans and a white vest for his night out at Heaven.

stick to being a Raj Koothrappali 😀

does he have to drink to be able to speak to her.?DOOMED 😯
And have to agree going to a musical you may be her GBF.

Just do it ,before it turns into tatty water

Thinking of subtle ways to put your message across.
Give her a copy of last christmas by wham! and a condom for christmas?
Text her saying you have got the horrible horn?

Men being men - once we want something we take it. If its a no we move onto shots

If your happy just being friends with her my mail is in my profile, please feel free to share it with her (or any of the above STW'ers).

FFS stop making lame excuses and get on with it!
"I'll call her when I get off nights" is the sort of thing you say when you meant to ring your Mum.
Procrastination is the thief of time and all that.
Carpe Diem not Tuesday fortnight.

Goes back to my comment earlier on though. He obviously doesn't like her that much.

hora - Member

If your happy just being friends with her my mail is in my profile

Ah, must have forgot. Heres one of me at work

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Hey prettty lady

He's waited 13 years, what's another night?

No pretty lady for now, she is mine [i]tonight[/i]

Wow!
Hora and Juan Sheet are one and the same.
Or should be:
Juan and the same Meester Fawtltee.

You must've come of nights hours ago. What's the score? Or is it a case of it was early morning and not the right time to talk dating 😯

Hora, that is exactly how I imagined you would look. Spooky

He's waited 13 years, what's another night?

He might get hit by a bus on the way home.

Hora, that is exactly how I imagined you would look. Spooky

Ahem....

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Capes are plenty!. Pretty ladies like a nice cape. 8)

Capes are gay! No woman can resist a safari suit and a pith helmet

[i]No woman can resist a safari suit and a pith helmet [/i]

mental image of Hora having an Afro and a leopardskin bikini fades and just becomes a distant nightmare.

Has he done it yet?

I can't offer anything helpful. If it was me in my single days, I would definitely have said / done nothing just in case she refused. Which she almost certainly would have done (in my case).

Has he done it yet?

Done what? Hes wasting her time. She probably likes him but thinks he doesn't her.

Wasting her time? More importantly he's wasting ours!

When does he come off nights then? Sounds like procrastination to me. As has previously been suggested... GET ON WITH IT!!!

Let Jarvis ask her for you...

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Suspense is killing me. Mods, any chance we can have this as a sticky?