[Closed] Drinking too much recently..

Cherry coke? Beer is probably healthier!

AJA though, I find ice cold soda water helps if I fancy a beer or 2...

I find ice cold soda water helps

I have taken to replacing my usual weekday beers (too many a night i'm ashamed to say, amazing how quickly it adds up to 5-6 beers and a most of a bottle of wine nearly ever day of the week). Anyway, for the last week i have started having a pot of decaff Earl Gray tea of an evening instead of reaching for the beers. damn sight healthier. My resting heart rate has dropped into the mid fifties from the mid sixties in less than a week, and I find i'm more alert and with it (funny old thing)
I have a works do on this weekend and friends coming to visit and i know i will be expected to drink. i will attempt to limit the damage though.

I've slipped into midweek drinking a bit too often this year. It doesn't help that beer and wine are so bloody tasty, does it?

Maybe we need a booze-related version of the chub club?

Maybe we need a booze-related version of the chub club?

I had been drinking too much recently (around 4 or 5 cans of beer a night, topped up with wine on a weekend too).

You have time to drink in the evenings,get you 😛 🙂
You need to get on the Winter Hobby thread and find something to distract you from all that beer 😉

I find I just need to keep busy doing positive things, not necessarily exercise just busy.

Did you read the [url= http://singletrackmag.com/forum/topic/alcohol-free-beer-1 ]Alcohol free beer thread[/url]?

We've recently cut down significantly - my intake was about the same as yours. Mrs Binners did a whole month off. I cut right down. I found that if I had an alcohol free beer while I watched the footy (or other event where you'd normally have a beer in your hand), you don't even register that you're not drinking.

Good luck with it. Its just a case of changing habits you've slipped in too

Hic.
Especially Friday nights...

Do you know what, an alcohol free beer or two tonight sounds like a bloody good idea actually. I will also get some extras in to be 'inbetweenies' for the weekend.
Have fallen into bad habits in the previous 6-9 months since im bloody exhausted in the evenings after a days work coupled with interrupted sleep due to junior arriving on the scene.
Post dinner, post tidy up whilst Mrs Tcomc puts nipper to sleep has become my collapse in the chair and drink beer time

I dont bother during the week, spin class at 7 on a Friday night so don't bother that night either.

Saturday I like a few beers after being out biking all day, Sunday night is a struggle not to have a glass or 2 of red and a couple of beers, prob dehydration from the days biking and beers after.

Then I'm knackered on a Monday!

I've slipped into midweek drinking a bit too often this year. It doesn't help that beer and wine are so bloody tasty, does it?

Maybe we need a booze-related version of the chub club?

same for me, it's become far too regular. Not pissed every night but far too much alcohol per week. Need to cut right back as it has become a habit.

I am another who swapped to alcohol free beer.
It's not witchcraft they just brew the beer normally then remove the alcohol and it's still cheaper to buy due to not being taxed heavily.

brewdog nanny state is the only alchohol free beer I have found that actually tastes of everything, might be worth a punt.

I am feeling the same. I only drink 1 or 2 a night, due to injury and a lot of work, but its starting to add up and I'm back up to my top weight. Really need to get back to only twice a week as I used too. Up for an alcohol chub club!

It's not witchcraft they just brew the beer normally then remove the alcohol

That is witchcraft!
Burn him!

Had a load of pints last night, probably in the region of ten.
Plus a couple of JD Fire shots.
Won the darts as well. 😀

But that Brewdog stuff is £4.50 for 4 x 330ml bottles (not seen it in larger cases). I normally get a case of 18 x 500ml tins of Kronenberg for £13 so it is significantly less.

And I don't drink alcohol for the taste, more the pleasant buzz, so I think I am better switching to soft drinks.

I have also bought some lemonade so I can cut my tins of lager in with that – a pint or two then is equal to just one tin and I will have had plenty to sip at whilst I fiddle with dinner in the kitchen.

tcomc1000 - Member
I have taken to replacing my usual weekday beers (too many a night i'm ashamed to say, amazing how quickly it adds up to 5-6 beers and a most of a bottle of wine nearly ever day of the week).

Im not judging here but how the hell do you function drinking that mount every night?

I read that as you are drinking 5-6 beers (cans, pints, bottles?) and a bottle of wine a night?

As a social drinker who doesnt drink at home (hey we we all have other vices so I am not judging!) that would put me on my arse and would be something I would consider a 'binge' drink night.

Do you think that if you sustain this level of drinking for a length of time that you a realistically starting to develop something of a dependency.

My OH's dad is well into late stage alcoholism, his life is F@cked because of it and he started out at a bottle of wine every other night, then every night, then beer and wine, now multiple bottles of wine and spirits.

Sorry if I have had a bit of a lecture there, genuinely interested in how people see their drinking habits though and what is 'acceptable'.

Come to Oman, if you can locate an affordable beer you can drink it.

I'm drinking too much. I blame the Tories.

Crankrider - the issue is that you can function on it - I can feel quite sober and hold a conversation when I have had too much. The only issue (and it is a big issue) is memory recall the next day. For example, I have been asked by my wife to do x, y or z then the next day I have forgotten the conversation until prompted which is, frankly, embarrassing and another reason I am cutting right back.

I also found myself laying in bed of a morning trying to run through the previous night's events (ie, what we watched on tv etc) in the hope I would be able to piece together the night and not forget something my wife might subsequently want to discuss.

My ex sister-in-law is well on her way to becoming a full-blown alcoholic - when she was with my brother he'd often come home to her 'finishing off last night's bottle of red' when in fact she had already done a full bottle by 6pm. He would often get calls from her asking to grab a couple of bottles on his way home and between them they regularly drank 4 bottles a night (as well as spend lots of time in the pub).

He has now stopped drinking altogether whereas she has taken to working in a local pub clearing glasses up in return for beer, then propping the bar up all day & night (regularly drinking from lunchtime onwards and being very drunk by early evening).

Im not judging here

Haha!

Interesting. I find myself wanting a drink most nights. Usually just a can of beer - though have now reduced to a 330ml bottle - or glass of wine. Aware that even that is too much, am now looking at one day on, one day off with Fridays and Saturdays drinking days. So no booze on Sundays, Tuesdays or Thursdays. That alcohol free idea sounds like a winner. Going to invest in some nanny state to give it a try.
Out of interest, does removing alcohol affect calorie content?

Being an ex drug user/addict I do worry about alcoholism. So during the week will only have one bottle of lager with dinner if that then anymore will be alcohol free. At the week end I will have literally a few beers no more as I don't enjoy being drunk as I used to.

Out of interest, does removing alcohol affect calorie content?

Alcohol is a whopping 7 kcal per gram so, yes, unless they are replacing it with beef tallow then I would have thought it would be considerably less!! 🙂

Becks 5%alc 275ml = 113 calories
Becks blue 0%alc 275ml = 39 calories

I have also bought some lemonade so I can cut my tins of lager in with that – a pint or two then is equal to just one tin and I will have had plenty to sip at whilst I fiddle with dinner in the kitchen.

Why is there a need to drink something anyway, can't you make dinner without drinking something? Not getting at you, just curious why you need to have a drink in some form or other.

Why is there a need to drink something anyway, can't you make dinner without drinking something? Not getting at you, just curious why you need to have a drink in some form or other.

My cooking inspiration comes from Keith Floyd.

You would be daft to replace beer with Cherry Coke, worse for your teeth and waste line.

Do you actually keep properly hydrated during the day? That will help take cravings away for liquid in the evening.

The alcohol free thread is good. I've settled on a combination of Becks Blue, Erdinger and Nanny State.

Do you actually keep properly hydrated during the day? That will help take cravings away for liquid in the evening.

Beer isn't liquid. It's beer.
I could drink water all day and I'd still want a beer. 😀

Im not judging here but how the hell do you function drinking that mount every night?

I read that as you are drinking 5-6 beers (cans, pints, bottles?) and a bottle of wine a night?

I picked up on that too. Like yourself, I don't want to judge but that is an awful lot of booze to my mind regardless of whether someone can function on it.

You would be daft to replace beer with Cherry Coke, worse for your teeth and waste line.

I picked up on that too. Like yourself, I don't want to judge but that is an awful lot of booze to my mind regardless of whether someone can function on it.

That's the whole point of the conversation. It's relatively easy to drink a bottle of wine every night with no obvious ill effects, plenty of hidden ones though.

https://www.irishtimes.com/life-and-style/food-and-drink/irish-historian-in-cambridge-uncovers-drinking-habits-of-16th-century-ireland-1.3253756

No wonder the local church spire looks on the pish.

Well I'm not in a position to run a spreadsheet and send reminder emails, so I'd suggest we nominate a day of the week to post here (or in a new thread called "STW sober school nights club", or something snappier) with how many nights of the week we've been on the sauce?

I’ve been using the Drink aware app to record each day’s intake. It’s very basic, but I think that the simple act of recording your drinking helps you cut down a bit. For some reason I don’t want to ‘disapoint’ the app!

With me it’s mainly habitual - drinking is just something to do whilst watching TV. And there is nothing that goes with good food as well as a nice wine unfortunately.

Fizzy water and mango cordial is my main replacement.

Nobeerinthefridge - Member

Im not judging.

Haha!

Oh come on, im really not - Im not making sweeping statements about how much people should and shouldnt drink, just asking the question about what people think is 'acceptable' and how people feel when they do drink a lot regularly - How is life changed by it?

Some people seem to get very angry when anybody asks them about their drinking, are you one of those? (the name is apt here?) - Is it because they feel like noboy else has the right to tell them what to do (fair point) or because they know what they are doing is becoming an issue.

Im not going to tell people on the internet what I consider is'too much' to drink regularly - I just know that someone close to me will die in the very near future from alcohol abuse and the destruction it is and will bring.

Well I'm not gonna get into judging you for judging the OP, and I'm sorry to hear about your FiL.

I just think when someone volunteers that they're drinking a lot it's more productive to offer support than nag them about it.

Thinking about it I am judging. I'm judging 5-6 beers and a bottle of wine a day to be a lot of alcohol.

What I'm not judging is the individual and their situation. There but for the grace of god and all that.

what people think is 'acceptable' and how people feel

I know it is a huge amount. Work it out its over your weeks worth of units in a night and why i'm worried and posting about it and have had to go to zero.
same old story that is probably quite familiar but starts off with an occasional beer midweek, then sharing a bottle with the mrs. To then having a few pre bottle of wine beers, to suddenly realising you are having a few prior to the bottle, I must have been drinking 3/4 of the bottle myself, then one or two beers after the bottle.
Your tolerance really does build up, and feeling hungover becomes the normal.
Most years I abstain for months at a time (generally work related) but not had that chance this year so having to discipline myself.

I don't think there are hard and fast answers but there have been a lot of these threads over the years and people usually give good advice. For me filling my time, mainly with excercise, works pretty well at keeping me off the booze.

For me filling my time, mainly with excercise, works pretty well at keeping me off the booze.

Stuck in NYC for 3 weeks on my own and it's pretty hard not to drink every night. Waking up at 4am with the Beer fear isn't doing me any good and I have a constant sheen to me. Plus I'm stacking the weight on...

I'm all for going stone cold sober. I think checking in on here might be a good idea, then I don't get the 'oh, I'll just have a couple' when I get back to the hotel.

Cool thread.

i am also trying to cut back (basically not drink on school nights)

I find a sodastream machine very handy. I will have a bottle of soad water with a squeeze of lemon instead of a beer.

Good luck guys, stay strong.

I'm thinking Friday is the best day to check in and see how good or bad we've all been, what you reckon?

So we can then go away and celebrate how good we've been all week 😉

As I said, I'm not here to judge anyone.

That's a relief.

Crankrider chill, as said above the guy knows he's caning it too much, and has posted here to help sort himself out.

All good.

So just two glasses of cranberry juice last night then in the gym at 6.30am for an hour spin + weights and a short steam room session. Now sitting at my desk feeling Holier Than Thou 🙂

Its pretty simple isn't it, if you want to give up then give it up. If you can't give it up get some help.

If you're doing something you don't want to do and you can't stop it you have a problem.

I love a beer, however I have realised its a time stealer so make it the exception rather than the norm these days.

I drank quite a lot in the evening and so did my other half. Slightly less than the OP. We went cold turkey but after a week or so we started the old habits again. The key for us was recognising we associated having a drink with unwinding after work. You know that feeling where you don't think you've left work till you are out of shirt and tie and put on jeans or shorts et?. well its very similar to that. So our ritual involved opening a bottle as soon as we got in. So by delaying opening the bottle straight away and leaving it for an hour we managed to cut right back. We still drink a lot but its now less than one bottle of red between us most evenings.

Its pretty simple isn't it, if you want to give up then give it up. If you can't give it up get some help.

If you're doing something you don't want to do and you can't stop it you have a problem.

Interestingly last night, after drinking a glass of cranberry juice, my brain was saying 'I don't want alcohol' (I could almost feel a subconscious thought of the two tastes not mixing well if that makes sense)?

I think a lot of us have been there.

I kinda work on a "fine myself" system now, i only have a beer (s) on friday or Saturday, and i have to earn it, so i only have a few beers friday IF i have been on bike for at least 2 hours to earn them etc, a lot of it boredom, sat there with TV on and beer in the fridge, it will go.

One really important thing to remember is whether you are driving the next day, if you do the sums:

4 beers (taking a weaker one like Fosters) is 1.8 units a can, so four is 7.2 units

1 bottle of wine at 14% is 7 units.

Therefore you consume the lot, you have consumed 14.2 units, so that is just over 14 hours to be alcohol free. You finish drinking at 10pm, then at 8am when you get in car for work you still have 5 units on board, and you are over the limit, even if you "feel" sober........

1 bottle of wine at 14% is 7 units.

I think it is a bit more than that for a 14% wine

Yes, 10 units in a standard bottle of 13.5% wine.

Point stands though despite my wonky maths, was a bit of an eye opener when i read that and in my heavier drinking days realised the number of times, i felt a bit groggy next day but thought i was fine driving to work.

Another thing i found worked, for every beer, follow that with a pint of water, you'll feel bloated and get sick of walking to the loo!

Haven't had a drink the last two nights, going to just keep going one day at a time and see how I feel. But if I do have a drink then try and follow the guidelines of sticking below 6 units in one session, and logging my drinking throughout the week.

Scud has made a very good point there.
A lot of people feel fine the next day to drive but are still well over.
Getting into the habit of measuring units and the time it takes for each unit of alcohol to leave the system is good practice.
I have found non alcoholic Bavaria is my go to drink if I fancy one and adding lemonade to something weak and tasteless (fosters) makes for a refreshing drink and spreads out the alcohol consumption.
It still feels like ‘having a drink ‘ in front of the tele and winding down.

You finish drinking at 10pm, then at 8am when you get in car for work you still have 5 units on board, and you are over the limit, even if you "feel" sober.

You should count the time from when you started drinking, not when you stopped. Your body does not wait until you finish drinking to start processing alcohol it starts once it has hit your stomach. So if you had 14 units starting at 6pm you should be fine* by 8am the next morning.

* Lots of things can affect your bodies ability to process alcohol and "a bloke on the web said I'd be fine" is not much of a defence.

So after a weekend of enjoying a few drinks I was going to have none this week. But it's my father in law's birthday meal tomorrow and Wednesday is the new Friday as we are going for a long weekend in Rome on Thursday morning.

So do I even bother staying dry tonight? (I know the sensible answer but that is, well, sensible).

yes, if nothing else to give your liver a break for 24 hours as you know you'll defo be drinking tomorrow

and to show that you can 😉

yep ^^^ that!

we do Sensible Mondays. No meat, no booze. It's small but it's a start 😉

So do I even bother staying dry tonight?

You don't "need" to drink. Its just become a habit. Make it a habit not to, starting now. Replace the £5 you were about to spend on this:

https://www.amazon.co.uk/Easy-Control-Alcohol-Allen-Carr/dp/1848374658

It has been promoted on here by others.

Fifteen minutes to happy hour, troops assemble! 😀

I’m going for a tall one. Chocolate milkshake

I’ve never yet found an alchohol free beer that tastes like anything I’d actually want to pay to drink. Normally I might have enough beer in the house for one bottle an evening, with maybe a bottle or two of single malt for seeing me through cold winter evenings, but I now have a girlfriend who’s got an alcohol dependence problem, she’s living with me, so there’s no alchohol in the house.
Yes, I miss having a couple of beers around should I want one, but her health takes precedence over a minor enjoyment of mine, at least for the foreseeable future.
I’ll enjo the couple of beers I have with a mate in the pub all the more.

So ....in a similar position. I've been doing Stoptober to give my liver a rest and its mostly working (I have one lapse a week!) ....but its hard.

As others have said just record what you drink ...it can be frightening! I use the drinkaware app which is great. Apparently your only allowed 14 units a week which could be one night! I try not to exceed 7 in a night which is a beer and half a bottle of wine.

Overall I'm sleeping better, feel more alert and after a the second week I don't always feel like a beer/wine at dinner time.

Nanny State is ok as well as this German beer (not becks) that Tesco sell. Non-alcoholic wine ... just don't go there! (Although Tesco/Co-op do do quite a nice non-alcoholic sparkling Muskat).

Keep it up!

...sticking my neck out, how much is too much?

14 Government Recommended
21 Old Government Recommended
30 Not recommended but not high risk and relatively normal for regular drinkers.
40 Increasing risk.
50+ High risk you will probably suffer ill health with time?

Yeah . But even the Government admitted the 21 units a week recomendation was just a guess .

Well this is an easy one for me, zero units since this time last week - due to getting a nasty dose of flu.

Since getting back from NYC I've not touched a drop (just over a week), however it was my birthday yesterday so had a bottle of beer with dinner. Feel so much better for not drinking, I've got the option of our usual Friday piss-up at work and for once I'm planning to abstain. We'll see if that happens!

Worth looking at this [url= https://health.spectator.co.uk/the-great-alcohol-cover-up-how-public-health-bodies-hid-the-truth-about-drinking/ ]particularly the graph[/url] It shows that drinker have a greater life expectancy than teetotallers,up to approximately 35-50 units a week,it is excessive consumption that is inherently dangerous,sensible consumption appears to be healthy.

I've been drinking too much, for a little while (ahem) - just started a new job that means I'm away from home during the week, and hey presto, in a different environment I find it really easy to not drink, had a few unexpected WFH days this week and wanted a beer every evening (but have been good and not drunk! 🙂 ). Interested that a change in routine made it easier to break the habit - got a week in Manchester next week and looking forward to getting lots of reading done.

(On reflection that makes it sound like I have a helacious home life that's driven me to drink and it's not that, I'm positive it's purely down to habit!)

ok, i havnt read the rest of the posts and i've seen many similar posts on here. for what its worth then, and without getting into discussions about what constitutes alcoholism etc...

i really do like a drink. i've never been a massive drinker but i'm someone who does like a tipple every night. that may be a bottle of wine or a half bottle of scotch. i can't have one glass but nor do i keep going.

once i did stop drinking for a couple of years and felt good for it. the reason i stopped was that i was getting incredible hangovers very regularly.

3 years ago on jan 1st, about to go into 4th year, i used dry january to stop for a month as i needed a break and i havnt drunk since.

now this isnt a sermon, and believe me it was damn hard work to stop (focus on one day at a time, my trick was to think how good i'd feel next morning), and its still an effort not to drink (it does lessen with time plus i fully know that one glass on a weekend would lead to me starting again), but my point of posting is that, in my experience and for me, it was and is so worth the effort.

apart from being financially better off, fitness/weight much better off, the greatest tying is not being tied to booze and its surprising how much of a grasp it has on your life without you being aware.

thats it really, being sober is cool and its also funny because people who drink just don't get it and also many many people, when you say i stopped drinking, instantly think you usded to be a wino under the bridge somewhere sucking on a bottle of brasso.

Worth looking at this particularly the graph It shows that drinker have a greater life expectancy than teetotallers,up to approximately 35-50 units a week

Just read this thread after the link from today's drinking thread...

Being an ex drug user/addict I do worry about alcoholism.

You should worry - I was in the same boat and the easy availability of alcohol and the fact that it's acceptable in polite society... I found out too late and it's only fairly recently that I've sorted out the mess which was threatening to engulf my life.

Allan Carr's Easy Way to Control Alcohol is a very good read but it's (deliberately) mis-titled. The end goal is to stop you drinking and it worked for me.

It's also seriously flawed in some ways but so long as you're able and willing to ignore the bullshit moments and concentrate on the effective chapters, it really is helpful.

At some future point, I may allow myself the odd beer but right now, I just have zero desire to drink which suits me fine 🙂