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Every one of the families at my daughters catholic school have got 10, 11, or 12 kids

Must make the school gate crowd a lot smaller 🙂

Seems like a sense of Homer failure to me.

Classic! 😀


 
Posted : 15/04/2016 9:40 am
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I went to a catholic primary and a CofE secondary. My mum was a teacher at the former and both my parents are regular church goers and have at various points been Eucharistic ministers and members of St Vincent De Paul society.

I'm an atheist*.

There will be a considerable amount of teaching about God. not great but not the end of the world provided the necessary education is given. My concerns would be that some aspects may be very biased. I wouldn't worry about morning prayers and assemblies etc. Where I would be interested to know what was going on would be science and whatever they call "citizenship" and personal stuff these days. Topics such as LGBT rights, sex education, sexuality etc. Of course these are things you can tackle at home, science less so.

FWIW most teachers will just teach and won't be overly evangelical in a Westborough Baptist style. Your kid may end up doing the whole communion, confession, confirmation thing?

*What got me as a child was the hypocrisy of the ten commandments. Thou shalt not make unto thee any graven image, or any likeness [of any thing] that [is] in heaven above, or that [is] in the earth beneath, or that [is] in the water under the earth.

Yet when I walked into church we would bow to the crucifix and various other statues around the place. On good Friday you would kiss the feet of a statue of Jesus on the cross. That and the obsession with praying to the virgin Mary.

Shortly afterwards I started to realize that the whole lot of it was nuts...


 
Posted : 15/04/2016 9:44 am
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I was sent to a catholic school (family are inherently protestant) because it was a 'better' school. The standard of teaching probably was higher but if I wasn't an atheist before I went in I certainly came out one. Prayers every morning at assembley, mass at lunchtime, being sent to mass for punishment, restrictive education over sexual matters (that horrendous abortion video at age 14), RE teaching way skewed towards Catholicism (I don't think I ever heard the word islam), being mocked for not knowing the words to hail mary.. I could go on.
I ended up getting in trouble because as a niave child I wasn;t proper;y aware of the consequences of my actions. We had several exams where I took the mickey answering questions in RE like
'Why did the people leave jesus at nazereth?' I wrote 'because he had BO' and 'who did david (or whoever) meet over the rainbow?' I wrote 'Zippy, George and bungle' - which is funny looking back but I got hauled in front of the head teacher and my parents called.
I wouldn't send my kids to a Catholic school regardless of the standard of education. Also, what is it with Catholics and the virgin mary, they worship the her with little statues and pictures of the bint on every windowsill and wall, very odd.


 
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[b]jambalaya[/b] It is the consistent hypocrisy of the Vatican, the systematic sexism and the way their Market Share building activities in South America, along with the industrial level beatification and sanctification going on which betrays a controlling organisation rotten at the core. So - yes - a slight difference...

I am not anti-Catholics, I am anti the organisation and the assumptions it makes. And it has a more centralised command and control structure than many religions. No one has quoted "Give me a child until he is 7" - the jesuit boast - yet. But whatever the origin it makes a good point.


 
Posted : 15/04/2016 9:46 am
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Where I would be interested to know what was going on would be science

Why would teaching science be an issue for a RC school or any mainstream faith school? Are you thinking about evolution and the like?

AFAIK creationism is not taught in mainstream faith schools.


 
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Call bullshit all you like saxonrider, doesn't make it any less true. You're under the illusion these people behave and act in a consistent way. After some of the revelations from Catholic institutions over the past decade or so I'm amazed you can't believe some areas are not acting in accordance with standard procedures!


 
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You're under the illusion these people behave and act in a consistent way.

Hang on - do you mean all Catholics behaving in a way consistent with each other? Or individual Catholics being consistent with themselves over time?

If 1) then why should they?


 
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Call bullshit all you like saxonrider, doesn't make it any less true.

I with saxonrider on this.

It's complete nonsense.

these people

Sounds like you have an issue with Catholics?

Or are some of your best friends Catholic?


 
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@mike ah the great conspiracy theory.

OP what I would add if you accept the place you should not go around expressing your strong atheiest views. If you accept the place you accept the school and its philosophy


 
Posted : 15/04/2016 10:05 am
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Certainly would make for interesting school reports.

"Timothy has tried hard this term, but we feel that his posession by a variety of demons and dark spirits has hindered his progress. Hopefully he can find a way to cast out Satan and his minions before the end-of-year exams..."


 
Posted : 15/04/2016 10:06 am
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I'm starting to feel persecuted

Add this to my existing catholic guilt about everything thats going wrong in the world probably being my fault, though I'm not sure why, as well as Jesus dying for my sins, and its all making for a very conflicted morning

*bursts into tears*


 
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Satan and his minions

If he has minions he will be well popular.

won't be overly evangelical in a Westborough Baptist style

Like pretty much everyone, this church is just a few families, it is an irrelevance.


 
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our boy goes to the local religious school i believe it is C of E all our middle class friends recommended it and advised us of the stunts and lies required to get a Faith reference to get in , we wrote Atheist on the form where it asked about religion ( a bit presumptuous on our part to define his religion for him but less controversial than describing his devout belief in the divinity of Lorry Drivers.)
We and he had to sign up to respect the ethos of the school , he gets occasional acts of worship and trips to church, but otherwise no obvious indoctrination just a good general education.

Children will learn about the world what they are exposed to in school is only one source of information .

Find out from other parents what the school is actually like and make a judgement on that. Faith Schools tend to be over subscribed so i am sure the LA could accommodate a swop if that was what you ultimately desired.

In principal i am firmly of the belief that religion of any colour has no place in education other than as an area of comparative study but in practice if asked to chose between a good non indoctrinating faith school and an inadequate non faith school then if i can get my boy in on my terms he goes to the good school and i try to politely and gently keep his mind open.


 
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do you sit down and make sub-par jokes about Odysseus?

There aren't many schools run by Odysseans in my neck of the woods. If they did start demanding money from the government to teach kids to worship Odysseus, I'd be sure to make terrible jokes about him needing a decent GPS etc


 
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I'd be sure to make terrible jokes about him needing a decent GPS etc
or that he was the Geography teacher...

O.P.- I would appeal and see where that takes you.My brother's boy goes to a catholic school (we're practically orange lodge;-) ) and I was suprised how much religion featured in his homework. I would prefer a non denomination school personally , but think it's a good thing to be taught something about all religions/philosophies.
We expect to be told where Li'l J will go to school on Monday. My missus won't sleep much this weekend...


 
Posted : 15/04/2016 11:19 am
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Why can't these things just be discussed and explored in thoughtful, intelligent terms?

Because the religious insist on indoctrinating our kids as part of mainstream education

No offence but if you dont want us to mock and take the piss then leave us alone with your fairy tales.
You cannot ram it down our throats and think we will be happy. If we started forcing you to not worship and sent your kids to "atheism school" against your/their will do you think you would be rejoicing?

Some folk want to have no part of religion in their lives. When we cannot achieve this we feel "oppressed".

@mike ah the great conspiracy theory.

No its a fact you cannot negate, and you are wise enough to realise this, hence you went with a cheap slur.


 
Posted : 15/04/2016 11:26 am
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Jonba - if you'd paid more attention you'd know that the Ten Commandments were issued to the Jews, so Christian churches are exempt on that one.

Plenty of hypocrisy over the other 9, of course.


 
Posted : 15/04/2016 11:29 am
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My parents were pretty agnostic (apart from when my mom went through a religious mania stage during a psychotic break), but I went to Girls Brigade and an evangelical after school club (my dad was furious, he thought it was CoE!). Despite going to a regular school, we still had hymns and prayers every morning. My mom calls herself a Christian, despite not believing in God or going to Church, "Because we're a Christian country" (normally before launching into a rant about Asian immigrants).

I also had a couple of very devout teachers, one at primary school who told us that Darwin's Theory of Evolution was just a theory, and wrong, because the world was created by God in six days. The other (at secondary school) told us that the apocalypse was coming in four years' time, and anybody who didn't accept Jesus as their saviour would be left to endure hell on earth under the Antichrist.

I ended up declaring myself an Atheist at the age of 9, because regular reading of the Bible at the evangelical club made me realise that the Bible is full of misogyny and contradictions. Plus they told me I would go to hell if I didn't love God more than my own family - which struck me as a bit petty in itself, but at the time I was also teaching myself about Greek mythology, and I realised that there were a lot of gods.


 
Posted : 15/04/2016 11:30 am
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Can I ask how you got your decision today.

I assume it's for a place in reception. National offer day isn't until Monday so your result is a tad premature 😯


 
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That said, I used to LOVE going to the huge Catholic Church my friend's family attended, because the church was old and magnificent, had loads of bling and stained glass windows, and had sermons in Latin, which was cool.


 
Posted : 15/04/2016 11:33 am
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National offer day isn't until Monday so your result is a tad premature

Catholics used to be quite keen on early withdrawal.


 
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...and had sermons in Latin, which was cool.

I can't believe they had sermons in Latin, some parts of the mass yes if pre Vatican II, but giving a sermon in a language that no one speaks doesn't make a lot of sense.

Then again you are talking about the catholic church.


 
Posted : 15/04/2016 11:37 am
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Because the religious insist on indoctrinating our kids as part of mainstream education

I think a few people on this thread seem to be confusing the following Monty python sketch with reality....

Indoctrinating? Brainwashing? What on earth do you think is taking place in modern schools? Other than having the kids disinterestedly sing the odd hymn in assembly? 😆


 
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I ended up declaring myself an Atheist at the age of 9, because regular reading of the Bible at the evangelical club made me realise that the Bible is full of misogyny and contradictions

You must have gone to a good school if you understood the words "misogyny" and "contradictions" at age 9 🙂


 
Posted : 15/04/2016 11:47 am
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Well that was interesting

On the plus side, the school is clean, the children and staff polite. (not that that i would expect any different) The maths, English, PE, Art, Music, Gardening seem well covered.

as for the religious aspect, the walls are littered with childrens pictures and statements next to each with things like 'i love jesus he takes care of me' and wow the amount of virgin Mary figurines! paper weights, door stops, usb sticks everything! if the catholic church was a bike brand it would be Cannondale, maybe they have the same branding manager ?

anyhow i digress, we had a chat with the head teacher and she explained that they they teach the children the Catholic belief's and teach them to believe in Jesus and he will guide you and keep you safe. which i wholeheartedly disagree with (unless Jesus provides a suitable and sufficient risk assessment and method statement).

the other general catholic practices happen, regular prays, mass, a strange BIG virgin Mary you have to speak to in the naughty corner.

We have been told if we accept the place we will have to sign a form that we agree to act in the way of the school beliefs and our child will take part in the practices, i asked about our right to opt out of the religion aspects and told since we would have to agree to the school code it wont be an option.

as for other options of schools, the local community schools are full and the admissions dept have said it is highly unlikely an appeal will be successful and if it is we will only get school options on the other side of town.

so it looks like this is what our child is stuck with unless we move, i personally feel let down by our council and government and echo others on here and feel religion should not form part of the education system.


 
Posted : 15/04/2016 11:52 am
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That's a bit off? You should have the right to a religiously appropriate school, surely? Any Muslims there?


 
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The law used to be that you could demand the,nearest, faith school of your choice- if you were that faith- but that atheists just had to go wherever - they could not demand a non faith school. I think this is still the case but my info is a number of years out of date.

Its out of order for them to demand you follow their religion but Binners will be along soon to explain why it not real or an issue.

What on earth do you think is taking place in modern schools? Other than having the kids disinterestedly sing the odd hymn in assembly?

Yes Binners[ which auto corrected changed to SINNERS !] they have faith schools run by the faithful but they dont want to preach their message nor increase the size of the flock nor make anyone believe. TBH, and you can read their missions statements, its really clear religion plays almost no part in the school life, their ethos or what they stand for and respresent and what they try to instill in children.

Next you will be saying Greggs don't want to sell pastry baked products


 
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so it looks like this is what our child is stuck with unless we move,

What happens if you don't [s]sell your soul[/s] sign the agreement?
Ah, other side of town. That sucks, but I'd probably create so much of a scene that they gave in.


 
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Surely the OP's predicament is gold dust for a Daily Mail article?


 
Posted : 15/04/2016 12:01 pm
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Can I ask how you got your decision today.

I assume it's for a place in reception. National offer day isn't until Monday so your result is a tad premature

We have an online system in Bolton, the official letter arrives on Monday

That's a bit off? You should have the right to a religiously appropriate school, surely? Any Muslims there?

Not always easy to tell persons religion just by sight, but i saw no other religious dress and id guess all the children and teaches are white British


 
Posted : 15/04/2016 12:02 pm
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That's a bit off? You should have the right to a religiously appropriate school, surely? Any Muslims there?

There are muslims at my daughter catholic school. Apparently they prefer catholic schools as they still use the ten commandments, and stuff, as a benchmark for behaviour, have a focus on morality, and aren't afraid to say 'this is right, this is wrong'. Whereas C of E schools are generally regarded as a bit wooly and liberal, turning out godless heathens who'll end up touching each others bottoms inappropriately

Yes Binners[ which auto corrected changed to SINNERS !]

Thats brilliant! Does that mean I'm going to burn?!!!! 😀


 
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I can't believe they had sermons in Latin, some parts of the mass yes if pre Vatican II, but giving a sermon in a language that no one speaks doesn't make a lot of sense.

Then again you are talking about the catholic church.

It was partial, weird call and response stuff (the priest would say something in Latin, the congregation replied - there were books provided).

And Jimdubleyou - my dad encouraged a massive love of reading, hence teaching myself about Greek mythology. Not just the watered down for kids stuff, all the eye popping stuff (Zeus, you dirty dog!). I'd also read Lord of the Rings in its entirety by then too. I probably didn't think 'misogyny' at the time though, probably the tamer 'horrifically sexist'.


 
Posted : 15/04/2016 12:06 pm
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Womp,

what LA is it?

Where was the catholic school in your order of your list of preferences?

Where are you on the OSL for the community school (if you applied)

What is the Planned Admission Number for the community School.

Look at both schools policies.

You have your views on the religious aspect, others have theirs. To go into an appeal and effectively say "I think religion is stupid" is in no way going to help your cause.

The simple fact is that the Church has it's (rightful) place in this country provided education places. You might not like it but the bickering here is not going to change the fact that it exists and will continue to way beyond our lifetimes.


 
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Its out of order for them to demand you follow their religion

I seem to remember reading that kids could sit out of religious assemblies in state schools, and have done so...?


 
Posted : 15/04/2016 12:07 pm
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Our kids go to the (very good) local CoE school. Didn't notice it so much in reception but our eldest is in first year now and is getting his head filled with pap. Problem is many of the teachers are fully paid up members of the god squad so it's not religious [i]education[/i] "this is what we as christians believe..." it's indoctrination "this is what is...". So he gets home with stories about jesus and god and I have to point out that it's not actually true, it's just what his teacher believes, and as teachers are supposed to be knowledgeable people he's having difficulty.

So now we're stuck with the dichotomy of trying to get them to listen properly in class when they are being [i]educated[/i] but to be more critical in their thinking when they are being [i]preached[/i] to.


 
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read what they say the religion permeates the entire ethos of what the school does and what it stands for

Read their post they cannot "opt out" as its in the "behaviour contract"

I would be interested to see what the legal position was on that one as you can [ as far as i know] still opt out - well my eldest does.


 
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WOW! 😯

That is so far from what I would consider acceptable I'm not sure what my reaction would be.

We've got this on Monday for the eldest, I'd forgotten until this thread...

I'm one of those who bought a house because of the catchment area, I hope it pays off. 🙄

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You have your views on the religious aspect, others have theirs. To go into an appeal and effectively say "I think religion is stupid" is in no way going to help your cause.

If womp isn't legally entitled to refuse to have jnrs head filled with stuff that he finds nonsense then he should be!


 
Posted : 15/04/2016 12:15 pm
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Maybe, and if womp or any individual wanted to employ that tactic then good luck (and please, please let me know how you got on).

I'm trying to offer constructive advice based on first person experience.

That's all.

But, I repeat, going into an appeal and approaching it from a negative perspective will probably not help you win and is likely to antagonise the panel.


 
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If womp isn't legally entitled to refuse to have jnrs head filled with stuff that he finds nonsense then he should be!

Problem is even worse
the religious can get the nonsense they want and atheists cannot get the nonsense they dont want

you then have to have an act of "christian worship" and DO re

Schools are getting round the withdrawal from RE by claiming its ethics when 95% of the syllabus is basically religion.

Atheists and the religious should have equal rights and equal treatment
Its not and we our kids have to be subjected to their factless fairy tale presented as truth by an authority figure who really believes.

IT leads to the issues DONK noted, undermines the authority of the teacher and bastardises the meaning of the word educate.


 
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There are plenty of schools in SW London that pay lip service to their obligation to have an act of worship - it is not a one way street.


 
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Interesting how views seem to have now swung round in favour of the OP from an initial stance by many of "suck it up" once the full extent of the "school code" becomes apparent. Children and their parents should not be put in this position.


 
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I have never heard of this?

Normally the faith schools are over subscribed.

I can't see the parents or the school being very happy with the situation.

the walls are littered with childrens pictures and statements next to each with things like 'i love jesus he takes care of me' and wow the amount of virgin Mary figurines! paper weights, door stops, usb sticks everything!

Is this true or a bit of poetic licence?

the other general catholic practices happen, regular prays, mass, a strange BIG virgin Mary you have to speak to in the naughty corner.

Speaking to a giant Mary in the corner is not a "general catholic" practice.

I was subject to 11 years of RC school and never experienced or saw anything like you describe.

Is the school Opus Dei or something?


 
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As someone who started to go to church, to get their kids in the Vgood CoE school over the other side of town... I think the situation the OP finds himself quite wrong and I wish him luck in putting it right.

Not got really much advise,other than... can you find any parents already at the school, who share your view ?... pound to a penny there will be some... Have a word with them, maybe they can offer advice/put your mind at rest with how they handle it with their kids??

Good luck


 
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There are plenty of schools in SW London that pay lip service to their obligation to have an act of worship - it is not a one way street.

An absence of RE is not indoctrinating the children with a faith position.


 
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The simple fact is that the Church has it's [b](rightful)[/b] place in this country provided education places
ooh contentious


 
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You atheists realise you're all going to burn in the fiery pits of hell, when God gets her hands on you, right?

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An absence of RE is not indoctrinating the children with a faith position.

Not suggesting it is, but it isn't strictly within the legal requirement, which was the point I was making.


 
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An absence of RE is not indoctrinating the children with a faith position.
yes, non denominational schools not recognising the ridiculous enforced daily worship rules isn't exactly [i]fighting back at the religious oppressors[/i] is it? It's just quietly ignoring stupid rules, so still a "one way street"


 
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Not suggesting it is, but it isn't strictly within the legal requirement, which was the point I was making.

You appeared to be suggesting an equivalence ("not a one way street") with indoctrination. I find the suggestion absurd.

It's just quietly ignoring stupid rules, so still a "one way street"

And non-dom schools still teach religious stories. My daughter came home just before Easter telling me about Jesus on Good Friday. "She was cross", apparently.


 
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Behaviour 'contract' sounds unenforceable, TBH. Especially as you appear to have no other options. If a child from a non-Christian faith, such as Jehovah's Witnesses, for example, or Islam, had no option but to attend this local school, then requested exclusion from Christian activities, I don't see that they could deny this.

Have you spoken to the local authority about their views on this particular aspect?

TBH, if you make enough stink about non-compliance, I imagine a solution at one of the other schools would be found, as neither side would want running battles of this nature throughout someone's primary school career.

EDIT: Saw that there are 'other side of town' options. I wouldn't be happy, certainly. Surely there must be a family at the community school which would rather be at the Catholic school?


 
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what LA is it?

Bolton

Where was the catholic school in your order of your list of preferences?

No

Where are you on the OSL for the community school (if you applied)

Im not sure what OSL is ?
The community school was our first choice, our daughter already attends the pre school. it is the closer as the crow flys than the Catholic school (My daughter currently cycles to school over the golf course.) but as i found out today the method for the points system uses AA routfinder for distance and makes the Catholic school closer (although my daughter will not be able to cycle which is another kick in the stones)

What is the Planned Admission Number for the community School.
i assume you mean class size ? i think its 30

To go into an appeal and effectively say "I think religion is stupid" is in no way going to help your cause.

that my fear, thats why i chose to say our values and beliefs don't align. im not out to offend anyone

The simple fact is that the Church has it's (rightful) place in this country provided education places. You might not like it but the bickering here is not going to change the fact that it exists and will continue to way beyond our lifetimes.

True, but this is a good place to adsorb other view points vent frustration before i sit in an appeal

interesting site:
http://www.secularism.org.uk/religious-education.html


 
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this looks like a good place to put this. Latest newsletter from the National Secular Society arrived in my inbox a minute ago.

http://www.secularism.org.uk/news/2016/04/danes-leaving-state-religion-in-droves-to-avoid-church-tax

Danish citizens have to pay the 'Church tax' if they are affiliated with the church, and it can take up to 1.5% of their income. All baptised Danes are automatically made members of the church, making them liable for the tax, though Christian Today reports that just 2.4% of these members actually attend regularly.

As in Denmark, Germans baptised in childhood automatically become members of the church and have to pay a tax to fund religious activities. Anybody who opts out of this has to pay a fee to the German government.


 
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No probs with jnr doing RE, there are a lot of religious people in the world so understanding their beliefs is probably a good thing. A publicly funded school stipulating adherence or even just observance of their faith whilst teaching their beliefs as [s]gospel[/s] truth is absolutely unacceptable to me though. No way would I sign that agreement, and I'd let it be known that I intended to escalate it as far up as possible unless a mutually acceptable solution be found.


 
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a strange BIG virgin Mary you have to speak to in the naughty corner.

Yeah,we had a BIG virgin Mary at my school,but she tended to hang around the cloakroom if you wanted to chat.


 
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Do you have to sign the home/school agreement? I may be wrong, but as this is a local authority allocated place, then don't the school have to take your child. They may encourage you to sign an agreement to show that the school and parent s are working together blah blah blah but actually it is the LA who are ensuring that your child gets the education.

If the school refuse to take your child it could be an interesting situation where the LA have allocated the place, you are willing to work with the school and support their behaviour policy, but are retaining your right not to take part in acts of worship which don't match with your own, and the school are being unreasonable.

Otherwise it sounds like they are requiring you to sign a contract with them to get access to the education, which is a bit of a new one to me!

I work in a secular school and have never work in a religious school so I may be wrong about what their rights are!


 
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Binner's .... even us in God Squad feel like we're burning in hell when having to listen to Alanis Morissette.

😈


 
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You appeared to be suggesting an equivalence ("not a one way street") with indoctrination. I find the suggestion absurd.

Again not at all, there seems to be a question as to whether this school is being cute with it obligation to allow pupils to opt out, which as I understand is a legal obligation. I was merely comparing this to the fact than many schools in our area are not really meeting their legal obligations re: assemblies. Whether you think the laws are sensible or not is another matter.

Danish citizens have to pay the 'Church tax' if they are affiliated with the church, and it can take up to 1.5% of their income.

That's nothing its 8-9% in Germany.


 
Posted : 15/04/2016 1:11 pm
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Yes but you are allowed to put 'no church' and not pay it. They do similar in Finland.


 
Posted : 15/04/2016 1:17 pm
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That's nothing its 8-9% in Germany.

I dont believe you. that's a huge sum.


 
Posted : 15/04/2016 1:18 pm
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You're a bolshy lot you bloody [s]godless heathens[/s] atheists. You could do with some god in your lives. And a nice cup of tea...

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Posted : 15/04/2016 1:20 pm
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That's nothing its 8-9% in Germany.

It's 8-9% of your income tax bill, not your actual income.


 
Posted : 15/04/2016 1:20 pm
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I hear what your all saying about signing the schools code and being placed by the LA. I will probably delete all aspects of the code i dont wish to adhere to and sign onto the rest. hopfully we can reach a position that is mutually beneficial.

also id like to point out that i have no issues with religion being in the curriculum as its key to our understanding our culture, economics and history but it should be treated no different than Greek mythology (which is way cooler).


 
Posted : 15/04/2016 1:21 pm
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It's 8-9% of your income tax bill, not your actual income.

Is correct, danger of replying too quickly, so from under 1% to 4% for top tax payers - still big numbers raises EUR 10 billion ish.


 
Posted : 15/04/2016 1:25 pm
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Look at it as an opportunity to teach your child tolerance, understanding and alternative viewpoints.

Our daughter goes to an active CofE school, whilst my other half is an atheist and I'm agnostic. She's coming home singing songs about God etc and we take it on the chin (it's a great school). However, everynow and then we tell her it's a debated history/story that some people choose to believe and others don't..and she can make up her own mind. She's her own person...and only 4 😀


 
Posted : 15/04/2016 1:28 pm
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I was merely comparing this to the fact than many schools in our area are not really meeting their legal obligations re: assemblies.
aaaah, got ya.


 
Posted : 15/04/2016 1:30 pm
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Well, a really quick glimpse tells me that the LA haven't followed their own policy in that

Information regarding the school place offered will not be given out before 16 April 2016. If you are on
holiday when the offer letters are sent out, no special arrangements will be made to give information out to
parents/carers before 16 April 2016.
which is a crack I'd try and exploit.

A panel might not care however as the Code says [b]on or around[/b]the 16th, Bolton clearly says not before the 16th.

The OSL is the waiting list. I'd be asking where are you on it, what's the drop out rate for the school. LA will not know how many kids wont take up the place but they'll have an historic picture.

If the PAN is 30 then it's really difficult to win an appeal (but not impossible - ive lost a few). There are 'excepted pupils'2.15 of the School Admissions Code, panels should only agree places in exceptional limited circumstances.

Your best hope is to try for procedural error by LA or Admitting Authority (if academy or OAA)

You'll also want to know where the line was drawn and where you are in relation to that.

As you can tell, I don't give a crap about the pro/negative position of church schools. It's an argument where opinions are polarised. My personal opinions are irrelevant. But I see both sides of the arguments in appeals...... 😉

Panels, certainly in this part of the world, are likely to have pro church types on them.


 
Posted : 15/04/2016 1:37 pm
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Is the Catholic school you've been allocated to undersubscribed (ie has less children than there are places for)?

You're not in Stockport are you?


 
Posted : 15/04/2016 1:46 pm
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I doubt it. They breed like rabbits


 
Posted : 15/04/2016 1:47 pm
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The OSL is the waiting list. I'd be asking where are you on it, what's the drop out rate for the school. LA will not know how many kids wont take up the place but they'll have an historic picture.

If the PAN is 30 then it's really difficult to win an appeal (but not impossible - ive lost a few). There are 'excepted pupils'2.15 of the School Admissions Code, panels should only agree places in exceptional limited circumstances.

I had a chat with admissions and the preferred school has had zero drop outs in the last 2 years as have the other less local schools, and have been told an appeal will only be upheld if its an exceptional circumstance.


 
Posted : 15/04/2016 1:47 pm
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Is the Catholic school you've been allocated to undersubscribed (ie has less children than there are places for)?

You're not in Stockport are you?

they are full, im sure we are taking up a space someone would want.

Bolton

I doubt it. They breed like rabbits

LOL your on fire today 😆


 
Posted : 15/04/2016 1:50 pm
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Ask them why they've released the decisions early when the School Admissions Code says 16th or first working day after.

Panel members like this kind of procedural error ime.*

*it might not be enough to win the appeal however


 
Posted : 15/04/2016 1:51 pm
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[b]Religious Education and the law[/b]

[b]Parents have the right to withdraw their child from all or any part of RE[/b]. [b]This includes parents whose children attend a faith school. If pupils are withdrawn from RE, schools have a duty to supervise them, though not to provide additional or alternative teaching.[/b]

http://www.secularism.org.uk/religious-education-and-the-law.html


 
Posted : 15/04/2016 1:56 pm
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womp - That's only religious education not worship.

http://www.secularism.org.uk/collective-worship.html

The law in England and Wales provides that children at all maintained schools "shall on each school day take part in an act of collective worship". Even in schools with no religious designation, the worship must be "wholly or mainly of a Christian character".


 
Posted : 15/04/2016 2:00 pm
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If pupils are withdrawn from RE, schools have a duty to supervise them, though not to provide additional or alternative teaching.
yeah can't be doing any of that [i]learning[/i] while at school


 
Posted : 15/04/2016 2:04 pm
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Seems an odd decision by the council if the Catholic school is not undersubscribed. Have a word with the council I reckon you'll get a satisfactory resolution.


 
Posted : 15/04/2016 2:07 pm
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How do the above posts help?
Or is it just venting?

You've been offered a VC school, you can turn the offer down and find a community school further away.

The LA has met it's duty by offering a school.


 
Posted : 15/04/2016 2:08 pm
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Seems an odd decision by the council if the Catholic school is not undersubscribed. Have a word with the council I reckon you'll get a satisfactory resolution.

How so? It's application of the criteria and this child vs all others who have applied.

It could be the NO-ONE got in on religious grounds (unlikely , I know).


 
Posted : 15/04/2016 2:10 pm
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There will be a considerable amount of teaching about God. not great but not the end of the world

Not true, they cover that in Revelations.


 
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