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Test wouldn't even work for me, just throws up a blank page at the end. Obviously can't work me out 🤣

 
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According to Wikipedia Peterson had some health issues:

Throughout 2019 and 2020, Peterson suffered health problems in the aftermath of severe benzodiazepine withdrawal syndrome. In 2021, he published his third book, Beyond Order: 12 More Rules for Life, resigned from the University of Toronto, and returned to podcasting. In 2022, Peterson signed a content distribution deal with conservative media company The Daily Wire.

Sounds a bit grim and I wish him good health. It would be slightly interesting to see if his output has changed as a result, but I am not going to read it all to find out.

 
Posted : 15/01/2023 10:00 am
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it would be slightly interesting to see if his output has changed as a result

His tweets / retweets pop up on my feed from time to time. In the areas that concern me, not to any notable degree. Still a *****

 
Posted : 15/01/2023 10:04 am
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I am somewhere between Omega and Delta. Not sure what I am going to do with this information

I’ll call Chuck Norris see if we can join Delta Force with him.

 
Posted : 15/01/2023 10:31 am
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Surely Chuck Norris is Alpha?

 
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Chuck ain’t down with the corporate bullshit. Definitely a lone Wolf and err…Delta force.

 
Posted : 15/01/2023 11:38 am
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well seeing as the whole premise of alpha males/male classification is bunkum, i've used an equally accurate system based on some made up toot and i'm a hufflepuff

 
Posted : 15/01/2023 12:02 pm
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I'm pretty sure we could come up with our own system based on types of bikes.

I reckon I'm an Inbred.

Erm, hang on, let me think this through.

 
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I'm an old spesh.

Hmm.

 
Posted : 15/01/2023 12:20 pm
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That would mean I’m Cotic 🤔

 
Posted : 15/01/2023 12:28 pm
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I'm Surly.

That works.

 
Posted : 15/01/2023 12:35 pm
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Ooh! I like this version better. I’m going to be a Stooge.

 
Posted : 15/01/2023 1:46 pm
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I'm a Trekkie. No, don't like that.

I'm a Gary Fisher. No, not a good look, being mistaken for Paul Gadd too often.

Got it. I'm a salsa, I'm spicy, and got moves.

(that is so far away....less salsa, more gravy. Moves - skirting the dance floor making sure my feet never touch the wooden bit until I reach the safety of the bar)

 
Posted : 15/01/2023 1:57 pm
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I think there are definitely people who are alphas. But saying you’re an alpha would be the ultimate no-no. And since alphas do (in my opinion) exist, then it’s quite natural that the world would be full of folks who would just love to be one, or claim to be one. But claiming to be an alpha is the fastest way to look like the most shallow blaggard.

I can also think of many, many females who would qualify for the term alpha in my opinion, although that may be incorrect according to the definition of the term.

 
Posted : 15/01/2023 2:02 pm
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I'm simple :/

 
Posted : 15/01/2023 2:03 pm
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I'm a BigWig Pompino.

😳

 
Posted : 15/01/2023 3:14 pm
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Surely a proper Alpha doesn't give a shit that there's a category and rides a singlespeed...

 
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I think the idea that there are people that are more alpha or whatever is true but the concept has been co-opted by some groups that have come to add extra specifics obsesse about the definitions add some bull shit club membership for their own ego.

 
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Sounds a bit grim and I wish him good health. It would be slightly interesting to see if his output has changed as a result, but I am not going to read it all to find out.

If you listen to podcasts, check out Behind The Bastards episodes from 1/11/22 & 3/11/22 and 3/1/23 & 5/1/23 to listen to the lads dissecting some of JP’s new show (I think maybe it’s on YouTube?). He is laughably full of absolute shit. But he dresses it up well. This thread really needs a bit of STW’s classic beta, geetee72.

 
Posted : 15/01/2023 5:50 pm
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I received a parcel from Hawaii yesterday. Aloha mail.

 
Posted : 15/01/2023 6:17 pm
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I’m pretty sure we could come up with our own system based on types of bikes.

Modern cutting edge technology Ebike 😀

 
Posted : 15/01/2023 6:47 pm
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I’m pretty sure we could come up with our own system based on types of bikes.

iron horse. Pretty cool back in the day but now a supermarket special…

 
Posted : 15/01/2023 7:04 pm
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This thread really needs a bit of STW’s classic beta, #########

Are you certain that it hasn't any ?  I keep getting weird deja vu (redacted, as the post I quoted has gone/changed)

 
Posted : 15/01/2023 9:12 pm
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Are you certain that it hasn’t any ? I keep getting weird deja vu (redacted, as the post I quoted has gone/changed)

Nah, surely not.

 
Posted : 15/01/2023 9:51 pm
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Ah - too subtle for me, DD

 
Posted : 15/01/2023 9:58 pm
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And, of course, nothing like paying cash for your waterbed to impress the ladies.

https://twitter.com/3YearLetterman/status/1614705262392213506

 
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I think there are definitely people who are alphas. But saying you’re an alpha would be the ultimate no-no. And since alphas do (in my opinion) exist, then it’s quite natural that the world would be full of folks who would just love to be one, or claim to be one. But claiming to be an alpha is the fastest way to look like the most shallow blaggard.

I think the idea that there are people that are more alpha or whatever is true but the concept has been co-opted by some groups that have come to add extra specifics obsesse about the definitions add some bull shit club membership for their own ego.

I agree with that ^

I'm aware that the original paper behind the description has been debunked, but it just a way to describe that kind of person that you see sprinkled throughout history.

I think now though, two things have happened:
The tail is wagging the dog. People who don't have that kind of personality are aspiring to be "alphas", and so are mimicking what they understand to be alpha behaviors. My impression is that they try to be "confident and decisive" and end up acting arrogant and belligerent.

The term itself is now toxic. I think there is a huge overlap between people trying to convince the world that they are "alpha males" and what is widely regarded (correctly IMO) as toxic masculinity. I had a weird conversation with my 12 YO nephew the other day (also mentioned on the Andrew Tate thread) - who understood masculinity and equality to be two opposing ideas. He's been in hospital a lot this year - and I suspect he's been watching a lot of youtube.

 
Posted : 16/01/2023 3:48 am
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I had a weird conversation with my 12 YO nephew the other day (also mentioned on the Andrew Tate thread) – who understood masculinity and equality to be two opposing ideas.

That's creepy.

 
Posted : 16/01/2023 4:07 am
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Yeah - I did my best to talk to him about it, but was pretty blindsided tbh, came completely out of nowhere.

 
Posted : 16/01/2023 8:33 am
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Some lyrics from Crass .
“If you're a man, you'd better act like one,
Develop your muscles, use your prick like a gun.
**** anything that moves, but never pay the price,
Steal, ****, slaughter, that's their advice.
Are you man enough? Ask the posters on the walls,
Have you got what it takes? Guts and balls?
Keep your myth of manhood, it's been going on too long,
A history of slaughter is the proof that it is wrong.”

 
Posted : 16/01/2023 10:37 am
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Facial hair is another big alpha move.

https://twitter.com/ChristnNitemare/status/1615818994790932489

 
Posted : 20/01/2023 9:55 am
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Facial hair is another big alpha move.
quite. Never really understood why some blokes spend so much effort trying to make themselves look like pre-pubescent boys. 🤔

 
Posted : 20/01/2023 10:23 am
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Isn’t ‘Alpha’ yesterdays news now? Surely Sigma is the new achingly cool Alpha male that is to be aspired to?

 
Posted : 20/01/2023 3:47 pm
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Tate has just had his detention extended to end of feb.  I bet in a Romanian jail he is finding out just how alpha he is.  Uk jails are horrible places.  I cannot imagine Romanian are any better.

 
Posted : 20/01/2023 4:00 pm
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It's a myth, built on a false premise.
Anyone describing themselves as 'alpha' is inadequate in some way.

 
Posted : 20/01/2023 4:09 pm
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Not sure if this is relevant or just me - but I would never use the term Alpha.  I would describe it as "Alpha Male".  Not withstanding that the science is discredited I would have interpreted that as a complement - you are a leader with people who follow you and aspire to be like you and the women in the pack want you to sire their offspring.

Interestingly though my teenage daughter would use the term Alpha.  She means it to mean all the negative connotations of macho bullshit.

So, is it like "wicked" or "bad" which have evolved over generations to have meanings which are antonyms of their original?  Does it depend if you are 50 or 25 whether its positive to be Alpha/AlphaMale or not?

 
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For me either way its negative.  alpha male used to complement a leader I think both the leader and the person saying it are macho idiots.  Teenage girl uses it then I would immediately think of your daughters version of it

But then I don't have a trace of alpha in me

 
Posted : 20/01/2023 6:56 pm
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Thing is, if this story is true, and the OP didn’t seize the opportunity and immediately steer his wife and her friend into a threes-up then what kind of alpha is he really?

Thing is, "alphas" rarely get those opportunities, too self centred and egotistical.
Nice bit of honesty and listening, that works much better.

 
Posted : 20/01/2023 11:43 pm
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That beard up there is amazing. WTF is it? Not getting the beard reference though to be honest.

 
Posted : 21/01/2023 10:58 am
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That beard up there is amazing. WTF is it?

 
Posted : 21/01/2023 11:05 am
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Facial hair is another big alpha move.

That video won't play. What's the facial hair/alpha connection?

 
Posted : 21/01/2023 11:07 am
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A venn diagram of "Alpha" and EDC knives would be amusing.

 
Posted : 21/01/2023 11:13 am
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Oh god that video is amazing. Mullet man with “the babes are back” 😂🤣

Never understood the fear of baldness. Mine started thinning in my late teens/early twenties so I just whipped it all off and rock the upside down head look! Obviously with a spray on beard.

 
Posted : 21/01/2023 11:14 am
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Recent examples of Alpha behaviour I've come across were when doing taxi driving/transport for mixed sex groups of cyclists. There was often (not always) one guy (always a guy) in the group who wanted to take control, organise the bikes, luggage and seating who then took umbrage when I did all of those things, often counter to his wishes. You could see it in the group dynamics almost right away. Typically the guy would be really huffy for the rest of the trip and you could sense a relief from the others in the group too.

Folk who have guided  groups of walkers, climbers, cyclists etc will have experienced the same thing.

 
Posted : 21/01/2023 11:22 am
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I cannot stand faffage and often will try to organise groups - but I don't get huffy / consider it an attack on me if someone else wants to do it.  I'll just walk away and leave them to it.  Easier for me that way

IMO the whole alpha male crap is to try to find a cover for their deep insecurities and low self esteem

 
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I cannot stand faffage and often will try to organise groups – but I don’t get huffy / consider it an attack on me if someone else wants to do it.

Sure. I can be a bit like that too but, as you say, there are ways of going about it and you don't have to feel personally challenged when it's not going your way.

There's also another side to this where a group will quite often look to someone to be their "leader". I'm sure you've been in that situation where something is afoot and everyone suddenly looks to you to take control 😁

 
Posted : 21/01/2023 11:36 am
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What’s the facial hair/alpha connection?

There is a very long established link between the two based on the fact that most men can grow significant amounts of facial hair and women generally can't.

It's for that reason that men adorned with facial hair were considered more masculine and therefore more intimidating by the military.

After the Crimean War it was compulsory, for men, to have a moustache in the British army. That regulation wasn't scrapped until 1916, I believe that facial hair caused issues with wearing gasmasks.

Personally I consider allowing facial hair to grow rampantly across your face to be a sign of slovenly laziness, and neatly trimmed facial hair to be a sign of excessive vanity.

Not that I care what other blokes do with their faces mind.

Edit: Actually I do care - I'd rather not see the remains of your supper when you're talking to me.

 
Posted : 21/01/2023 12:07 pm
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What style of facial hair for you then Ernie?  Zapata moustache?  Guevara beard?

 
Posted : 21/01/2023 12:12 pm
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Che didn't have time to shave. Nothing to do with laziness or vanity.

Edit: And Karl Marx liked to keep up with the latest fashion.

And Lenin too.

Someone else who was very busy:

"I’m not thinking of cutting my beard, because I’m accustomed to my beard and my beard means many things to my country” Fidel Castro

 
Posted : 21/01/2023 12:13 pm
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Stalin had a fine mustache and Mao was clean shaven.  Makes you think

 
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Personally I consider allowing facial hair to grow rampantly across your face to be a sign of slovenly laziness, and neatly trimmed facial hair to be a sign of excessive vanity.

whereas I see being clean shaven as a desperate attempt to hold on to youth. You ever tried growing a beard and keeping it looking well kempt? It’s a damned sight trickier than shaving I’ll tell you that. The moustache by itself is dangerous though. Too many historical villains with a ‘Stache of some sort for there not to be a connection.

Grasping at straws to correlate having a beard with the whole Alpha thing in my opinion. Most of your typical CEO or leader types are shiny faced.

, I believe that facial hair caused issues with wearing gasmasks.

Yep, exactly why they fell out of fashion. Couldn’t be having mutton chops and mustard gas.

 
Posted : 21/01/2023 12:39 pm
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Stalin had a fine mustache and Mao was clean shaven. Makes you think

Yeah and Adolph Hitler had a sense of humour - his moustache was clearly for its comical value.

 
Posted : 21/01/2023 12:42 pm
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Most of your typical CEO or leader types are shiny faced.

That's the drugs...

 
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🙂

 
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Can I do my joke?
If ****ing gives you hairy palms....
how did you get your beard?

 
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I'd love it EL looked like some weird cross of Ernie from Sesame street and David Lynch.

 
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You'd hate me Ernie,* I leave my face alone, it gets to a tickly length and I whip out the clippers and run over my face then repeat.

*Maybe for more reasons than this.

The whole alpha bollocks runs deeper than beards though.

 
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A venn diagram of “Alpha” and EDC knives would be amusing.

Well, I'm certainly not an Alpha male despite the knives

Personally I consider allowing facial hair to grow rampantly across your face to be a sign of slovenly laziness, and neatly trimmed facial hair to be a sign of excessive vanity.

Guess I'm somewhere inbetween, not sure what ernie's judgement will be 🤣 Bald as a coot btw

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whereas I see being clean shaven as a desperate attempt to hold on to youth

Or an inability to grow a beard....

 
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Beards have got nothing to do with it to be fair. Lots of folks, including me, have beards. I look like Casper the friendly ghost or Robocop without a helmet without one. I think it’s the colour blue or men without glasses. See, bollocks that makes no sense!

Close your eyes Ernie! The not very Alpha is coming 😀

 
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A venn diagram of “Alpha” and EDC knives would be amusing.

Well, I’m certainly not an Alpha male despite the knives

I was going to add a third set of "stupid-sized 4x4s with names like Warrior "  too but I thought was getting a bit personal 🤣

 
Posted : 21/01/2023 1:08 pm
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Well, I’m certainly not an Alpha male

Oh c'mon, that smouldering look on your face as you pose for a selfie in front of a hotel bed?

You positively extrude masculine assertiveness. You must have to fight them off.

Edit: 😏

 
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Scotroutes
Suburban gangsta?

 
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I was going to add a third set of “stupid-sized 4x4s with names like Warrior ” too but I thought was getting a bit personal 🤣

I drive a Land Rover 🖕🤣

You must have to fight them off.

Literally, all the time 🤣

 
Posted : 21/01/2023 1:19 pm
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Turning your chair round backwards is another move to add to the alpha playbook.

https://twitter.com/NickAdamsinUSA/status/1616966175627288576

 
Posted : 22/01/2023 3:42 am
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Close your eyes Ernie!

Well obviously I couldn't read that with my eyes shut but what a truly magnificent beard.

Although I can now understand how the sight of fearsome ginger facial hair must have struck fear in the hearts of ancient Britons.

I hope you thoroughly wash it after meals btw. Or does a handheld vacuum cleaner do the job?

 
Posted : 22/01/2023 9:29 am
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Turning your chair round backwards is another move to add to the alpha playbook.

Errmmmm

Christine Keeler was an alpha male?

 
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Shaving is an (unconscious?) act of submission towards your establishment masters. Beardies are more your independent, free thinking/acting types.

 
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Or are they just compensating for being slapheads?  🙂  the upside down head look 🙂

 
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Shaving is an (unconscious?) act of submission towards your establishment masters. Beardies are more your independent, free thinking/acting types.

I'm just lazy and can't be bothered shaving 😁

 
Posted : 22/01/2023 12:58 pm
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Christine Keeler was an alpha male?

Probably had more alpha male psychological traits than most self proclaimed alpha males.

Except (probably) the propensity for violence.

 
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I hope you thoroughly wash it after meals btw. Or does a handheld vacuum cleaner do the job?

always carry a comb and use napkins.

Or are they just compensating for being slapheads?

yes 😕

 
Posted : 22/01/2023 1:34 pm
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*flicks luxuriant locks*

I would grow a beard if I could grow something that didn't make me look like i should be in an alleyway with a can of crucial brew swearing at randoms

Thick beards and going bald are linked with testosterone levels  IIRC

 
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Thick beards and going bald are linked with testosterone levels IIRC

Since having my testosterone reduced to tiny levels I do seem to be getting a bit thicker on top. The beard is still there, but the rest of the body is getting less hairy.

 
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Since having my testosterone reduced to tiny levels

Willingly and with your full knowledge and consent? Or as the result of some diabolical conspiracy?

Estrogen in drinking water - a foreign substance introduced into our precious bodily fluids without the knowledge of the individual.

Have you ever seen a Commie drink a glass of water? On no account will a Commie ever drink water, and not without good reason - estrogen.

It is a leftist plot to turn us all into leftie-voting woke snowflakes. Expect your beard to fall off and boobs to suddenly appear.

Judging by the photo above TheArtistFormerlyKnownAsSTR never drinks water.

 
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I thought commies only drank cammomile tea?  'cos proper tea is theft
property geddit?

 
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Willingly and with your full knowledge and consent? Or as the result of some diabolical conspiracy?

With consent, as part of prostate cancer treatment. I've posted about it before. Other reasons men have it done are because they want to be women or because they are paedophiles. Oestrogen is a separate thing from lack of T I think.

It is interesting to try to keep track of the physical and psychological changes but difficult to separate those due to reduced T from drug side effects. And of course many male things are baked in at puberty and wont change.

 
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Judging by the photo above TheArtistFormerlyKnownAsSTR never drinks water.

Judging the STW forum demographic 99% of posters drink gallons of the stuff....

😉

 
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Oestrogen is a separate thing from lack of T I think.

Yes of course it is, it wasn't a serious point!

Although there are people who do worry about estrogen levels in drinking water. Apparently it is something of a myth that the birth control pill have added any significant amounts of estrogen to drinking water.

 
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I do a fake alpha beard,cause I am in the (minority) gang of not shaving from the end of British Summer Shaving Time in Oct till March ,so it's more CBA than Alpha.
😆 🤣

 
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I am in the (minority) gang of not shaving from the end of British Summer Shaving Time in Oct till March

Woohoo! Join the gang. For me it's not CBA so much as trying to keep my face warm in the freezing temperatures. Even a short beard works wonders. It comes off as soon as we start getting decent amounts of sunlight as I'm wary of ending up with tanned cheeks and white chin. Of course, there's always at least one bloody cold spell after it's been shaved off!

 
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